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Aliya, 45
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Feb 2026 14:06:27

About Me

I AM BBW!!!! This means no Barbie here... I'm am thick, curvy but healthy woman.I dont believe in false advertising!I have good legs nice butt... If you will...LOL I have had 3 c sections. I do not have a thyroid not much can be done about it, I can be as tough as I have to be, and work hard as a man if need be.yet I have a soft heart and soft skin.I was a gymnast and can still do the splits I have no but i am a work in progress on the inside as well as the outside. It"s funny I am smarter, funnier, work harder, love longer, live happier than some women but I have to prove myself twice as hard. I take care of myself and don't depend on anyone to help me. I know how to be sexy more than most and wear clothing that suits my body type. All my pictures are recent!!! I am a mother of 3 beautiful well minded children. 2 girls 23 and 17 and my main man who is 13. .I am not looking for a father for my kids they already have one.I am legally separated with no plans of going backwards. I am working on getting a divorce. I love the Arts and am culturally minded. Love and desire to travel meet new and interesting people and explore new places.I am old fashioned I guess you could say I like leaving it up to the man to make the plans and the moves. I think friendship is the foundation of all relationships its where I want to start. I am intelligent and a deep thinker .I think before I speak keeping other peoples feelings in mind.I love going to see plays and look at museums,Hear live music,and I love the arts on a whole.On the other hand I don't mind hard work . If it has a manual I can fix it.I changed my own tires ,alternator and laid my own tile .I also love to go camping, go riding on the back of a bike (till I have my own...LOL) and roughing it and just hanging out .I expect respect since I give it, and I am a no B.S.,kind of woman .I have no problem texting or talking on the phone BUT not into sexting!! It should be about getting to know each other. I dont trade nude pictures either so dont even expect it or ask!!! Drama belongs on TV, like to keep it there...LOL My dreams are as follows:Love God! My Children to have meaningful happy lives ,My Friends to get the LOVE they so deserve,To Travel been all over east and west coast now it time to go up the middle and then overseas, get back into acting again and to never ever,ever forget how to laugh! Life is too short not to enjoy it... MUST NOT BE LOOKING FOR HANGOUTMUST HAVE PICTUREMUST NOT BE LIVING WITH RELATIONSHIP PARTNER

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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