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Marquita, 41
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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Basics:I'm single, never married, my kids are grown and out on their own so it's just me now. I'm not carrying around any feelings for any other man from my past. I live a simple life, no drama, I live alone and work full time with weekends off. A little more:I'm easy going and love a good laugh. I have a big heart and I'm a pleaser. I can be pretty stubborn at times, sarcastic and playful always, I'm very independent and like to do a lot of things for myself. I snore when I'm exhausted and I know this because I've woken myself up a few times. I love sports but only live (except the Rays, I can watch them on TV anytime). I love thunderstorms, watching and listening to the rain, fall is my favorite season because of the cool air and colors of the leaves. Open windows on a cool night is the best, especially when you have someone you love to cuddle up with. My family is very important to me and I spend a lot of time with them when I can. I'll always be honest and tell you the truth about anything, even when I know it may make you mad. My biggest pet peeve is when someone says they will do something and they don't, no matter how big or small it is. To me, your word should be as good as gold and something you're proud of. I won't try and cover up who I really am to fit into your life. That just doesn't make any sense to me. The man I'm looking for will love me for who I am and what I'm about, good and bad.What I want:I can list so many attributes that any woman would love in a man. I could wish for someone really tall, dark brown hair, eyes the perfect shade of whatever...........But what if the man that is meant for me isn't tall, or his hair color and eye color is different than what I thought I wanted? Those are just details and they don't really matter to me. One day his physical features will change. He'll be old, have lots of wrinkles and that hair, no matter what color it is now, will be grey or even gone someday. What will remain however, is the man he is on the inside. I'm not looking for that perfect "cookie cutter" man. I'm just looking for that perfect man for me.If you are a good man that has time to invest in a good woman, and have the best intentions of getting to know me for me, and not looking for a hook up, feel free to contact me. There's so much more to me than just a pretty face. But, you'll never find out what those things are unless you spend time with me and put in the effort to really get to know me. Someday my looks too will fade, but what I have in my heart and in my soul will always remain. ***Update: if you don't have pics on you profile or you do but I still can't see your face clearly, I will not respond to your messages. My pictures are very clear and up to date so you know exactly who you're talking to so it's only fair that I do as well. Although I'm open to just about anything, I think someplace quiet would be best so we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Electronic Adventure History Mystery Boxing
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