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Delois, 42

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About Me

I spend much of my time with my children. I have raised them on my own for the last 6 years. So much of my time has been spent carring for them. Now that they are getting older they are secure in who they are and becoming more independent. This has allowed me more free time to pursue a relationship.As far as music I enjoy Contemporary Christian, Praise and Worship. I have not seen a movie that is rated over PG***for over 6 years. As far as Super Heros and Star Wars I am almost an expert! lol When I do get a chance to watch tv I prefer to watch crime drama or comedy shows.I have been raised in church and attended Bible College for youth ministry in 95 and later came back to my area an worked with at risk youth. God opened the door for me to go through the Police Acadamy were I graduated and pursued a career in Law Enfocement. I work as a patrolman and worked for the Juveline Court in my area. Later when I married and began having children it became difficult being both mom and a police officer so I willingly gave up my career in order to be a stay at home mom. Now that the boys are all in school I am currently back in college to get a degree in counseling.My boys are very loving and want to have a stepdad that will be involved in their lives. We are open and ready to see what God has for us next. I have been blessed with Godly people in my life that helped me get through these last 6 years. My faith is very important to me and I am determined to raise my children in a Godly home.If you do not want young children (11,9,8 and 6) or feel you are to old to raise children PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND. Also please honestly consider if you are the type of person who could love and raise another mans offspring as your own. Their father will never have custody of them but they love their dad. If you can not handle them seeing their dad on a monthly basis or calling once a week we are not for you! Dinner and talking. I am at a point in my life that I want "all the cards on the table"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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