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Delois, 42
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

I spend much of my time with my children. I have raised them on my own for the last 6 years. So much of my time has been spent carring for them. Now that they are getting older they are secure in who they are and becoming more independent. This has allowed me more free time to pursue a relationship.As far as music I enjoy Contemporary Christian, Praise and Worship. I have not seen a movie that is rated over PG***for over 6 years. As far as Super Heros and Star Wars I am almost an expert! lol When I do get a chance to watch tv I prefer to watch crime drama or comedy shows.I have been raised in church and attended Bible College for youth ministry in 95 and later came back to my area an worked with at risk youth. God opened the door for me to go through the Police Acadamy were I graduated and pursued a career in Law Enfocement. I work as a patrolman and worked for the Juveline Court in my area. Later when I married and began having children it became difficult being both mom and a police officer so I willingly gave up my career in order to be a stay at home mom. Now that the boys are all in school I am currently back in college to get a degree in counseling.My boys are very loving and want to have a stepdad that will be involved in their lives. We are open and ready to see what God has for us next. I have been blessed with Godly people in my life that helped me get through these last 6 years. My faith is very important to me and I am determined to raise my children in a Godly home.If you do not want young children (11,9,8 and 6) or feel you are to old to raise children PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND. Also please honestly consider if you are the type of person who could love and raise another mans offspring as your own. Their father will never have custody of them but they love their dad. If you can not handle them seeing their dad on a monthly basis or calling once a week we are not for you! Dinner and talking. I am at a point in my life that I want "all the cards on the table"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Please make sure you have recent pictures! There has to be somewhat a of a physical attraction there for everyone. If your pics are by what you look like today, then update them! I am a hard worker. Single parent. No offense but I do not date black men! I am looking for someone to be friends first. I like to get out sometimes and listen to live music and drink a few beers and just hang out and have a good time. I am not into alcoholics or drug addicts. Looking for someone to give me the same respect I am willing to give. Please no liars or cheaters. If you are interested in charting, shoot me a line and we can go from there.****Please don't bother contacting me if you don't have a recent picture**** Maybe a drink or coffee in public place. I would like to chat for a bit before meeting in person.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a real man to eventually share our lives together. i am a free spirit, so as they say, very spontaneous, enjoys life, loves to laugh,dont like the drama, understands everyone has a past but its your past. Theres a reason Y your past never makes it into the future. love the outdoors, anything outdoors i enjoy just to be out and having fun. good laughs, good friends, enjoy watching my kids with there sports and games...kids grow up very fast so treasure every moment good or bad with them..my kids come first...always but when im devoted to someone then im very devoted and loyal, dont like liars or cheaters, i enjoy all kinds of music, enjoy dancing but also enjoy those quiet moments i have as well. Lets figure it out together.....somewhere where we can talk, laugh, have fun and enjoy each others company...Its summer now so lets be outdoors and go to fests and watch the bands, anything outdoors.............I feel when u meet someone for the first time and you are getting to know each other, if the connection is not there and you dont feel the vibes for each other, ITS NOT GOING TO BE THERE... You can not develop that overnight with each other........If its not there, its not there...Move on.....

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Howdy I'm Stephanie!! Ok here it goes....I'm not into drama and games and lies and I'm not on here to play them either...just once I would like to talk to someone on here who wants the same thgs I do...I run across a lot of peope who lie just to get what they want..."I'm learning tho" I'm 43 and raised 2 beutiful gurls who r in collage...so very proud of them!!.I'm no barbie doll type by no means...I'm not perfect what can I say?? I have a nice everythg but my mid section c:ould stand alittle work...I'm. 43 there again what can I say....I'm not perfect!! Reason I'm stressing ths is cuz it seems like that's all u guys care about but let me tell ya my personality blows all that other stuff away...I'm on here to find my one n only...I'm not into just "hooking up" I know what that means...so don't even try it!!! I'm a real person..I was born n raised in so bend......I'm just a red neck country gurl just like the song...I love everythg about the country life!! Look guys the bottom line is ths I'm not hard to please I'm laid back down to earth and funny! What do u guys want frm us gurls??? Lissten I went on a date ...a guy off of meetville... he and I sat down in a resturant and he proceeded to talk about "anal beeds"!! I was like omg really!!! I'm like what kinda sh*tthat?? "Check please"! I said to myslf "is that all that's out there? Yikes! I'm "high" ON LIFE!!! I don't do drugs......I may drink wen I go out!! I work hard and play hard wen the time is right....I can hang with the best of them...get me around rivers and lakes and bombfires...yeha I'm good!! So fellas if ur interested send me a mesge I dare ya!! For those who arnt don't bother ...don't wanna waiste anybdys time...and for those of u that r like the date I had at the resturant....well u know what to do right? I'm beginning to think that ths site is not for me...so would at least one of ya'll prove me wrong? I'm very honest and loyal gal and I will treat u with the upmost respect and love......thos country gurls r well know to take care of there man...just sayn! Talk to u soon!!! Xoxo mayb a nice dinner or even a walk in the park??

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