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Jonell, 42
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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Very honest, down to earth single mom looking for a sincere and honest heart. The only games I want to play involve moving pieces around a board. Short of that, plz don't waste my time. I'm a hopeless romantic, who truly believes in the power of love. I'm fun, spontaneous, adventurous, and I LOVE to laugh!! :-) Not into racist, sexist, homophobic close minded ppl, and I won't tolerate dishonesty. That's a deal breaker for me. My ideal partner will understand that being a great mom is my top priority, and it will only work if he wants a good, strong relationship with my son as well. I'm a very strong willed, convicted, passionate person, but I do not like arguing on the home front. Someone asked me today what I'm doing on here. I told him that I was searching for my "intended." That one special guy that I'm supposed to be with (yes, I do believe in such things!). He then asked what I'm looking for in a guy. This was my response:Ideally, my perfect guy will be very honest (I hate being lied to!); he will be very loyal to me, and he wont cheat; he's faithful not out of fear of being caught but bcz he's happy...; he'll be smart, but not pretentious, (note: for me, smart and educated are NOT synonyms! Some of the most intelligent, well read ppl ik did not go to college; conversely, I know a lot of ppl w/college or even graduate degrees that are dumb as dirt!); he'll have a good sense of humor and will love making me laugh; he won't be judgmental or intolerant of human differences; he'll be adventurous and spontaneous; he will love the water, and feel a certain pull toward it; he'll be sweet and romantic, adoring and respectful; he'll be selfless, a giver not just a taker; he'll be hard working and hard playing; he's protective but not controlling;; he'll be a passionate and intense lover (compatibility here is essential); he's family oriented and he likes to have fun with family, he doesn't just tolerate them at the holidays! He will love all kinds of music, esp 70s and 80s (Although I wont lose sleep if he's not a big fan of rap/hip hop!), and will express himself frequently thru music (ability to play an *** a definite plus!) he'll have a healthy appreciation for movies, be able to quote them on command and get movie references when i make them (if i say "i gave her my heart, she gave me a pen" he'll get it, go play Peter Gabriel and lift his arms into the air!) But most importantly, he'll want a good relationship w/my son and ultimately will love him and be a strong positive role model in his life, helping me to shape and mold him into a great man one day. That's my wish list for my soul mate. I'm hoping to find someone w/at least one or two of these qualities! ;-) Perfect first date starts w/dinner at an amazing, but quiet, intimate restaurant, w/cocktails and/or wine, and shared dessert! Stroll afterward for more conversation, then find something fun to do, like go see a band, maybe meet up with some friends at a Fav bar and cut loose and have fun. Very relaxed and flirty and fun ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Running / Jogging Caribbean English Indian Charity
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