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Gretchen, 44
United States, New Mexico, Bloomfield

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About Me

I am an outgoing, fun loving, and independent woman looking for someone to laugh with and have fun. Most of all, let's be ourselves, have fun and just let things happen naturally. :-) About me?? I am a professional who works full time but enjoy having fun after hours. I have two amazing teenage sons who live with me 50% of the time. Soccer is a huge part of our world as they both play year round. So ok, yes I am a soccer mom (ugh!), but wait . . . I swear don't wear mom jeans or drive a minivan!! SUV is the closest I will get to that & I can still rock the skinny jeans. ;-)I believe that life is full of challenges and how we handle that is what shows our character. I roll with the punches and don't believe in wasting energy on things that cannot be changed. A sense of humor is so important as we have to be able to laugh at all life throws us, good and bad, and just enjoy! I am a very positive person and I do my best to surround myself with like-minded people. I believe in helping others and my friends would tell you I truly would give you the shirt off my back (as long as I have a bra on! LOL!) I love life, meeting new people and having new experiences; it keeps things fresh! And...it keeps me waking up every day eager to face the possibilities & looking forward to whatever life brings. I love music, movies, getting out & about on the town or outdoors and enjoy staying in too sometimes. But I enjoy a good cuddle at the end of a day more than almost anything!!Who I'm looking for?? Ultimately, I am looking for a partner who can share in all life has to offer. A man who is fit, confident, decisive, spontaneous, strong but sensitive and who is comfortable with those same qualities in a woman. He can make me laugh & laugh at himself, carry on a conversation & stimulate me intellectually but let loose & have fun too. Someone who can show me things I’ve not experienced and enjoy the adventure in that with me. Ok, ok, like every woman out there I would love to find someone who thinks all my qualities and quirks are the cutest thing ever!! :-) But, realistically, balance is what is key & I hope to find that someone who balances me as much as I do him.I look forward to meeting you!! A nice walk in the park & get to know each other. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Korean Drama War Western Golf Tennis
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