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Jone, 41
United States, New Mexico, Bloomfield

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About Me

I am very down to earth. I do not like drama, I would rather walk away than deal with a bunch of drama. I work hard and am a busy person, which doesn't leave a lot of time to meet new people. I know who I am and what I want and where I'm going. I don't ask for more than I am willing to give and I expect the same in return. I am easy to please, I like the small stuff. I love to be outdoors, camping, fishing, or just jumping in a river or lake. I would love to learn how to hunt. I have 3 boys that keep me busy, so I like to do things boys like to do. I like to work on my home and yard. I don't mind working hard and getting dirty, but I am a woman so I like to clean up and look pretty too.UPDATE:I have only been on this site for a short time and it has become painfully obvious that MOST of the men that message me do NOT read my profile, so I will try to clear a few things up. My pictures are recent. The oldest one is of me and my kids. That was taken in October ***. I look younger than I am, but by no means do I have a young mentality. I have morals!! I am mature and I act like it. This does not mean that I am a prude. I take things as they come, try not to sweat the small stuff and have fun when I can. I am NOT looking for....a big bank account, a one night stand, a daddy for my baby, anyone under the age of 35 or over 49, or any one that cannot carry on a conversation after 3 txts. If you start off the message with, Hey baby, sup? HELLO BEAUTIFUL..mmm,mm, Hi sweetheart, honey, sexy, lover, or anything like that, please do not expect a response! If you can not put forth the effort to answer with anything other than a word or two, please don't bother. I am a very grounded person and I am somewhat intelligent so please keep that in mind. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I don't play games and won't put up with anyone that wants to play them. I am worth more than that. I am a self sufficient woman, I am a single mom of 3 boys age 20, 14,and 3. I do everything my self and am not looking for anyone to come in and change that.(ie. take over my responsibilities) I am looking for an interdependent relationship, not a dependent or codependent relationship. If you don't know what that means, you would be doing yourself a favor to find out. I love to be outside, I like gardening, canning,(yes I can, can my own food) working in my yard, and when time and money allow, I like to go places that keep me outdoors. I like to draw, paint and have won awards in paper crafts, I am just as happy painting my kitchen as I am painting on canvas. I can fix a flat tire and change my own oil. I like to build things and know how to use tools and can fix most things that are broken. I am not a "girly girl" nor am I a "one of the guys" kind of girl. I am just easy going. I like jeans and T-shirts but am just as comfortable in a dress and heels. I would rather be on the tailgate of a pick up with a cold beer and a bon fire than in a fancy restaurant sipping champagne. I like to be comfortable and would like to find someone that is comfortable with himself. Also, Swanprincess in NO WAY describes me as a person! I am a very easy going person. I am NOT a princess. I am a woman. This is not a label, it is a clue. If you are curious as to what it means, just ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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