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Lys, 41
United States, New Mexico, Bloomfield

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About Me

My life is full and I'm excited for all of the things going on right now...meeting someone to share that with would just be icing on the cake. I stay busy with work, a burgeoning business, volunteer work, writing, friends and family - but am ready to add some dating into that mix and see what's in store. I'm an east coast girl at heart - Of course that means I'm a Redskins fan - so Cowboy fans need not reply. :-) I definitely have an adventurous spirit and am willing to try almost anything once. I treasure honesty, loyalty, respect, kindness and compassion. I want to find someone with a big heart and someone who sees beyond themselves and their own world. I consider myself an easy-going person who lets go of the little stuff. Optimistic with a good sense of reality. I am looking for someone who is ready for a relationship if they meet that right person. Of course start as friends first...no expectations. The last couple of years I have been focusing more on health and fitness. Recently started a training regimen to cycle a ***mile tour in Summer of ***for charity. I was on the tour this summer as support team and absolutely loved it. Came away inspired to cycle it - my trainer is awesome, albeit hardcore, and I'm loving it. I want to lead an active/healthy lifestyle going forward and hope to share that with someone. I have my faith in God and relationship with Him that has been a part of my life all along - He's always faithful. This world is a tough enough place without hope for a future and a God who loves us. I hope to share this faith with my partner in life.I am looking for someone who is self aware, honest, kind compassionate with a heart for others. Good communication is a must and a love for travel would be great. If any of this sounds of interest to you, I'd love to hear from you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Indian Irish Family & Kids Martial Arts Music Western
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