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Collen, 43
United States, New Mexico, Aztec

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About Me

I am who I am. Don't let my looks deceive you. I am not looking for anyone to check my tire pressure, or change the wax ring on the toilet... It's all Good, I got this ... says it all. I guess you can say I am different. I say this because it's the one thing I hear repeatedly from those who meet me. I was born and raised on the East Coast, an Army Brat. I am out spoken and honest. I never say something with the intention of hurting anyone, only to help them. I have the ability to look outside the box. I believe life is a journey and there is no where to go but forward. I tend to be laid back and take it as it comes. I don't plan for years in advance, I live for the moment. I am not afraid to be myself. With me you truly get what you see. If you are looking for someone to fill a void or space, if you feel something is missing from your life....IT IS NOT ME! If you are not happy with yourself how do you expect anyone else to be happy with you? I am a very forgiving person, and believe in second chances with one exception....lies! It only takes one and I am done....I will walk away without thinking twice about it. I have found the truth to do one of two things...it either pisses you off, or sets you free. It's that simple! Honesty is not the best policy...IT IS MY ONLY POLICY ! If you are one of those people who post pictures from 10 years ago, or who wrote your profile according to what it is you think others want to hear.... you need not apply! The phrase " First Date " , really bothers me. If we have never met, and just chatted online... the moment we do meet can't really be considered a date.... Ya ya I know..... If no one has ever put this out there before, let me be the first......It is okay that when you actually meet someone for the first time, and you know right off that it's not gonna work... they just aren't for you.... it's okay to POLITELY say so. I can't pretend to be into someone .Nor do i want someone who is not into me suffering through it. If you are happy with yourself as a person, you get that it's nothing to do with you personally, so don't take it personal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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