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Collen, 43

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About Me

I am who I am. Don't let my looks deceive you. I am not looking for anyone to check my tire pressure, or change the wax ring on the toilet... It's all Good, I got this ... says it all. I guess you can say I am different. I say this because it's the one thing I hear repeatedly from those who meet me. I was born and raised on the East Coast, an Army Brat. I am out spoken and honest. I never say something with the intention of hurting anyone, only to help them. I have the ability to look outside the box. I believe life is a journey and there is no where to go but forward. I tend to be laid back and take it as it comes. I don't plan for years in advance, I live for the moment. I am not afraid to be myself. With me you truly get what you see. If you are looking for someone to fill a void or space, if you feel something is missing from your life....IT IS NOT ME! If you are not happy with yourself how do you expect anyone else to be happy with you? I am a very forgiving person, and believe in second chances with one exception....lies! It only takes one and I am done....I will walk away without thinking twice about it. I have found the truth to do one of two things...it either pisses you off, or sets you free. It's that simple! Honesty is not the best policy...IT IS MY ONLY POLICY ! If you are one of those people who post pictures from 10 years ago, or who wrote your profile according to what it is you think others want to hear.... you need not apply! The phrase " First Date " , really bothers me. If we have never met, and just chatted online... the moment we do meet can't really be considered a date.... Ya ya I know..... If no one has ever put this out there before, let me be the first......It is okay that when you actually meet someone for the first time, and you know right off that it's not gonna work... they just aren't for you.... it's okay to POLITELY say so. I can't pretend to be into someone .Nor do i want someone who is not into me suffering through it. If you are happy with yourself as a person, you get that it's nothing to do with you personally, so don't take it personal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vianne

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello. Been back in the dating scene for a short time. It is sure different this time around. I have 3 children who I have 50% of the time. They r my priority in life but feel my time is important too. I love to go out dancing but enjoy a quite night at home too. Sometimes I like to keep the fun mellow ---shooting pool at pub. I like meeting people. I think interactions with others only enhances life but I believe physical attraction is important in a relationship. The biggest comment I get when I meet some one new is that I look exactly like my pictures. I expect the same in return. I do not believe that the first date has to be this BIG ordeal. Coffee or a drink at a restaurant or bar is all two people need to figure out if they are attracted to one another.

  • Carylon

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Always been a kid at heart! I still to this day get a thrill from swinging at the park, coloring w/ pastel chalk on the driveway and eating those little candy dots that are stuck on paper...lol. I'll date men a little younger than me if you're looking for more than just sex, but of course another kid at heart always works too. You know who you are! First I'm not LDS and don't wish to date anyone LDS. Second I'm really pretty liberal...democrat. One last thing if you live with your parents...not really into it... :/Sushi is my religion and go several times a week, so if you're a SUSHI/SAKE fan we'll get along just great! ;-)I'm a true believer that everything happens for reason. There is really no such thing as a "mistake" if you evolve. Also karma. Never fails in my experience that what I give, be it good or bad it will always come back to either haunt me or bring me happiness. So generally I stick to being a sweetheart. I love animals and have many pets...every stray will find me it's true. If you don't like cats...I have two. Love them, they are family! And then there's the beagle and the pomeranian...yep family too. If you hunt, won't work...Bambi comes first. ;-) I also love to paint and come from a family of crazy artists! I dream of a day when all I have on my things to do list is PAINT!I have three amazing boys I consider my greatest gift in life. They teach me something new everyday. Only ***year old at home now every other week. The other two have left the nest.I LOVE the beach! I have an extremly dry sense of humor. I could even say it's a bit on the dark side sometimes. Lol...not in looks, but in humor. Today I completely understand this and take it as a compliment in that he is my favorite director...love his movies! Love to laugh.I'm looking to make new friends and if something more comes from it great if not then I have a new friend and it's all good! Oh and I'm a total dork. That's it. ;-) Something simple like a drink or coffee.

  • Tricia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I really I don't want to bore you about what a great catch I am but it is something that MUST be done! I have been busy with work and haven't had a whole lot of time to go out and meet new people so that's what brings me here. It's the 21 century. Isn't this what all the cool people are doing? I'm friendly and I have a big heart. I have a wicked sense of humor and enjoy a dirty joke or two and can even dish out a few of my own, but I know when to be serious. I am very trustworthy, caring, loyal and drama free. I like to cook, watch movies, hike, have a few drinks, music, dancing, but I am also open to try new and exciting things! I work out ***times a week and am training for my annual 5k.I'm looking for someone to enjoy life with who shares my interests who is laid back, knows what they want but also have a purpose in life. I'm open to a unique or traditional first date :)

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