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Rheba, 41
United States, New Mexico, Aztec

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About Me

***Please only message me if your pictures are of you, current, and you have honestly reported your age!*** I have tried writing the descriptive and eloquent profile, the bullet point profile, the humorous profile, and several other versions. It seems men either don't read the profile or completely disregard what I included in my profile. So let’s cut to the chase...I have been divorced since ***,(no kids) and I know the type I am looking for. I am extremely happy and content with my life and it would be the icing on the cake to add a wonderful man to share my life's journey.I am looking for a man who is: an educated professional, faithful, honest, financially stable, witty, active, mature-- but knows how to have fun, clean cut, and has all his teeth. I am looking for a man who is willing to open his life to me and is interested in a long term, monogamous relationship. A man I can count on, who does what he says he is going to, follows through, and who will keep me laughing!I am: classy, faithful, honest, responsible, stable, confident, active, outgoing, strong, independent, attractive, and smart. I am ready to have a committed, long term relationship. I am tired of all the games and BS, aren't we all?I enjoy being outside, anything in, on or around the water, and enjoy staying active. I am a fan of music (almost all genres) especially live music. I enjoy cooking and trying new wines or craft beers. I also enjoy sports, especially college football. I can adapt to any environment/situation and have fun... Try me!DEAL BREAKERS: yes I had to put this....Smokers, drug users, alcoholics, infidelity, liars, poor use of grammar (you must know when to use to, too, two, your, you're, their, there, they're), players, slobs, and male chauvinists. I think the best first dates are simple and stress free; coffee or drinks and maybe a short walk. This is the opportunity to see if there is chemistry and if a second date is warranted. Physical attraction isn't everything, after all looks fade!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Rock Reading Chinese German Irish South American Comedy Music Sci-Fi Computer Games
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    Honour

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    my job keeps me busy all the time I am property manager I am busy with my two girls and I love all kinds of music, I like to hang out with friends and family. I don't play games I am A honest person. I am not looking for a one nightstand I give 100% to the guy I will be with I want that person to be my best friend I am looking for a person that I can trust and can be honest with me I am tired of games I am to old for that so if you play games or have drama in your life please don't bother. good luck to you everyone needs somebody. depends on the person.

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  • Collen from Aztec | Woman | 43 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am who I am. Don't let my looks deceive you. I am not looking for anyone to check my tire pressure, or change the wax ring on the toilet... It's all Good, I got this ... says it all. I guess you can say I am different. I say this because it's the one thing I hear repeatedly from those who meet me. I was born and raised on the East Coast, an Army Brat. I am out spoken and honest. I never say something with the intention of hurting anyone, only to help them. I have the ability to look outside the box. I believe life is a journey and there is no where to go but forward. I tend to be laid back and take it as it comes. I don't plan for years in advance, I live for the moment. I am not afraid to be myself. With me you truly get what you see. If you are looking for someone to fill a void or space, if you feel something is missing from your life....IT IS NOT ME! If you are not happy with yourself how do you expect anyone else to be happy with you? I am a very forgiving person, and believe in second chances with one exception....lies! It only takes one and I am done....I will walk away without thinking twice about it. I have found the truth to do one of two things...it either pisses you off, or sets you free. It's that simple! Honesty is not the best policy...IT IS MY ONLY POLICY ! If you are one of those people who post pictures from 10 years ago, or who wrote your profile according to what it is you think others want to hear.... you need not apply! The phrase " First Date " , really bothers me. If we have never met, and just chatted online... the moment we do meet can't really be considered a date.... Ya ya I know..... If no one has ever put this out there before, let me be the first......It is okay that when you actually meet someone for the first time, and you know right off that it's not gonna work... they just aren't for you.... it's okay to POLITELY say so. I can't pretend to be into someone .Nor do i want someone who is not into me suffering through it. If you are happy with yourself as a person, you get that it's nothing to do with you personally, so don't take it personal.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I've learned that life can be short and full of surprises. You should try things you've always put off till tomorrow and go places you're afraid to go to. I have barely started but I hope to explore all this great world has to offer.I am well educated, well traveled, intelligent and know my worth. I'd like to find someone who not only makes promises but keeps them. I enjoy traveling, reading, cooking, dancing and anything artsy. But I am adaptable and like being exposed to new things. So if you like camping, flying, surfing, dirtbiking, hiking and everything else all you guys claim you do on your free time then I'm game to support you, watch you and participate depending on what you do. But it would be nice if you also like good wine, nice meals and dressing up once in a while. Of course there's more to me so if you want to know more you know what to do.I've learned that describing myself in detail means very little...only the banter reveals some of whom I am. That's up to you.

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