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Oneida, 44

United States, Kansas, Ulysses

Offline, last seen Fri, 11 Sep 2026 21:59:38

About Me

*** think it is hillarious that someone who actually READS my profile will send me a message to meet me that says they are NON-religious. Do any of you actually read my profile?? I hope that ***brings you all what you are looking for... and I hope it brings me the right man who can read! Enjoy***This is always a hard part.. selling myself.. my friends would tell you that I am the most amazing, funny and devoted person ever, so genuine and kind to a fault. I guess I could agree, haha! I have been a single mom since ***. Its been very challenging and exhilarating making these boys into awesome men! I am a great mom and love my boys unconditionally. I have had many losses in my life and once I care about someone they are forever threaded to my life. I am a total people person. I think that I am funny, loud and crazy, but I am shy and quiet a lot also. My heart has been broken and shattered and I am very guarded due to that. I come off a little bull headed and very sarcastic, but if you take the time to get into my bubble you will see that I am actually pretty awesome! Wow, sounds a little conceited at this point.. huh?? I am so NOT! I keep busy as a volunteer at church and the community, I am a nanny, babysitter, house cleaner, skill builder and full time student. I just started going to the gym to get in better shape. I sorta put my own life on hold while raising my boys and now my youngest is 18, so Mom needs to find a new claim to fame! I adore children, I teach a kindergarten class at church. I am quite involved at my church, I have attended the same church since ***working in the youth program, children's, infants and pretty much any where they want me. **my youngest will be 20 soon, oldest is 24. Our church got taken over, so I am at a new one now** (it will not let me rewrite above)I like tall men, like 6' and taller, who give nice hugs, good smiles, like to laugh, Christian, easy going, like to be homebodys as much as go out..... I dont know.. if I knew I would have already found him..Well, I dont know what else to say, but my life is an open book so ask me if you want to know something else! I love God and love people and do what I can each day to make a difference in the lives of others!DISCLAIMER:: As the baby of 5 in my family, I do not know how to "share", I will never be the "other woman", please pass me bye if you are married or otherwise attached. I do not compromise my religion, morals or my integrity. Just keep on searching! Somewhere that can end quickly if it needs to, or go for hours if it is enjoyable.. in my town so that I have safety nets set up..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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