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About Me

*** think it is hillarious that someone who actually READS my profile will send me a message to meet me that says they are NON-religious. Do any of you actually read my profile?? I hope that ***brings you all what you are looking for... and I hope it brings me the right man who can read! Enjoy***This is always a hard part.. selling myself.. my friends would tell you that I am the most amazing, funny and devoted person ever, so genuine and kind to a fault. I guess I could agree, haha! I have been a single mom since ***. Its been very challenging and exhilarating making these boys into awesome men! I am a great mom and love my boys unconditionally. I have had many losses in my life and once I care about someone they are forever threaded to my life. I am a total people person. I think that I am funny, loud and crazy, but I am shy and quiet a lot also. My heart has been broken and shattered and I am very guarded due to that. I come off a little bull headed and very sarcastic, but if you take the time to get into my bubble you will see that I am actually pretty awesome! Wow, sounds a little conceited at this point.. huh?? I am so NOT! I keep busy as a volunteer at church and the community, I am a nanny, babysitter, house cleaner, skill builder and full time student. I just started going to the gym to get in better shape. I sorta put my own life on hold while raising my boys and now my youngest is 18, so Mom needs to find a new claim to fame! I adore children, I teach a kindergarten class at church. I am quite involved at my church, I have attended the same church since ***working in the youth program, children's, infants and pretty much any where they want me. **my youngest will be 20 soon, oldest is 24. Our church got taken over, so I am at a new one now** (it will not let me rewrite above)I like tall men, like 6' and taller, who give nice hugs, good smiles, like to laugh, Christian, easy going, like to be homebodys as much as go out..... I dont know.. if I knew I would have already found him..Well, I dont know what else to say, but my life is an open book so ask me if you want to know something else! I love God and love people and do what I can each day to make a difference in the lives of others!DISCLAIMER:: As the baby of 5 in my family, I do not know how to "share", I will never be the "other woman", please pass me bye if you are married or otherwise attached. I do not compromise my religion, morals or my integrity. Just keep on searching! Somewhere that can end quickly if it needs to, or go for hours if it is enjoyable.. in my town so that I have safety nets set up..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yoko

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi-Notes: If you have no pictures or are under the age of 40 please don't contact me. The biggest reason if I don't get back to you is you don't have enough pictures ! Please please post multiple pictures ! :0) Notes as of ***I'm gonna give you guys some advice... I'm so tired of all of this so here is a hail mary..........1. Have pictures that make you look good not bad2. Be a gentleman3. Don't try to talk about your body parts..how big how small.. what you'd like to do with your body parts4. Don't talk about your ex - if you feel you need to then maybe go to a therapist - I however.. am not your therapist5. Don't ask to touch my *** Don't talk about *** - if you have to talk about it thats a bad sign7. If you want to meet say it and figure out a time and place8. Don't have a dirty car, dirty house 9. Be happy, not boring and fun10. Again just be a nice normal gentleman - like your mother taught you and if she didn't - don't contact me Also if we've talked and we have decided there might be a connection I won't be attracted to you unless you put some effort into meeting me. I am attracted to men that know what they want and get it. Pleaaaase put multiple pictures on your profile. It's so hard to even try to get a feel for someone with one or two dark pictures taken from far away!I'm a nice normal funny well grounded woman looking for only one high caliber man! Here we go! Someone who is ....Between ***Has good manners is polite and not angry Ready and willing to become friends and have time to invest in pursuing a relationship that leads to a lifelong thingLives within 40 milesDoesn't mind I have kids (during the week)(with my own money)Similar to my color Has a career - not a job Doesn't live with other people (adults)Not in the military (as I can't move around the world) Nice looking - if people have told you are Keeps in shape Has some degree of faith Isn't going to ask me for bikini shots or naked Picts Isn't going to attack me on a first date A gentleman that's got a degree of class and manners and self worth - healthy self esteemIs over his last wife Emotionally wholeHappy with his life and needs a great woman to complete it Now...I'm grounded, funny, down to earth. A super fun normal and caring woman who is emotionally whole. I love my life and looking for someone who is a great person to share it with. I am not looking for a booty call or anyone under 40. I'm looking for a motivated, fun and funny person who we share chemistry together. I like to stay in shape and be active so someone who also likes to stay in shape. I love to dance and have fun, while also being a dedicated mom. I have weekends free and have time to invest in someone. I think I pair best with someone who is emotionally whole, smart, intuitive and also has shared a degree of success in life and manages their life well. I love to cook and have a real love for wine. I am not looking for anyone who wants me to function as their therapist. I come from a very stable background and am looking for the same.Also I have children that are with me 4 nights a week (not on weekends) so if you don't want amazing beautiful respectful well cared for children (and their college is already paid for) in your life - click off me. That's great if you are a world traveler and want me to have a "white bikini and a passport" I do love to travel and have lived in Europe but I can't just take off for a month! On another note no beer bellies please. Also I am big on lots of pictures as I've been duped many times with people not presenting their real self. I am warm, caring, a blast to hang out with, only exciting, happy, fun men need to apply! Great first date would be something simple, meet for a walk on the beach and a coffee or something with no pressure. Don't be surprised if I ask you for more pictures if you only have a couple up!! It's just that a connection is usually made when you see someone in person so it helps to have more pictures.

  • Zavannah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I learn from my mistakes and keep on moving forward. I have a good head over my shoulders. I’m looking for a caring, honest, independent, outgoing and funny partner. I\'m picky about who I date.

  • Enriqueta

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Looking for:Someone without drama and a TON of baggage. Someone who has their own life, friends, interests, etc., and knows how to have fun and laugh. About me:I spent 10 years in the Marine Corps (Yes, I like men and no, I don’t look like a guy!)I am self sufficient and pretty independent. I like to travel, skiing of all kinds – water, downhill, cross- I want to learn how to play golf and am looking for a good teacher! Skydiving is great! I can two-step but am not the best. I would love to take some dance classes in the next few months. I have an 09 Softail Deluxe and love to ride. I keep a clean house but am not anal about it and can fix just about anything around the house. I like good conversation, good company and good food. I am not a picky eater – like to dine out and am willing to try new food. I am a good cook (I have more in my fridge than mustard and beer).

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