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Albertine, 44

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About Me

Hi Guys-I'm pretty new to SoCal & thought this would be a great way to meet some new people in hopes of making a connection that will turn into a long-term relationship.; am searching for a man who appreciates those values/morals. Others would describe me as a direct, honest, witty, independent & compassionate gal with a heart of gold. I'm definitely not a workout fanatic but like to exercise whether it's for my 6 mile walks along the beach or trying new outdoor activities like kayaking.I'm truly using this site for which it's intended & am not into games, drama or BS so please don't ***~ you're just "seeing what's out there" or looking for a "hook up" (I've never been a "friends with benefits" kind of girl).~ you're unreliable (if you tend to cancel, r/s or are too busy to meet for a quick coffee then why in the heck are you on this site?)~ you've posted those "shameless selfies" (save it for private time)~ you've lied (& listed) an inaccurate age etc. (do I really need to explain this one?)~ you've only got one picture and/or it's a body shot (my pictures are recent & close up so you can see exactly what I look like). Attributes that I admire & appreciate in a man: he's honest as the day is long, is a genuinely kind person & has a sense of style. He is the best of the best in his profession & wants to travel the world (I've been told that listing my desire to travel makes me look like a gold digger (?) so let me just clear that right up - I'll be saving just as much as he is for our long-awaited vacation). In regards to kids I'm completely open to dating a man with children and believe it or not, I may want to have a child of my own. I know, I know, the odds are against me but you never know what may happen. LET'S: travel, cook a meal together, snuggle up on the couch in front of the fire, volunteer for a good cause, watch a Packers game together (GO PACK!-climbing wall/zip-line, chill at our favorite coffee shop, find the best fish taco's in SD etc.,I wish everyone the sincerest of luck in finding their someone special. I've been in true love once before & trying to find that kind of chemistry is like finding a needle in a haystack! It doesn't matter what we're actually doing but hopefully we'll have some "chemistry"!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marlena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    This feels very goofy writing this intimate profile about myself for the entire world to see....but I am willing to take a chance and put myself (literally) out there to see if Love on the internet can truly happen for me?I am a passionate, sexy, loving and loyal woman looking for the same in a partner. I am a bit old fashioned and a hopeful romantic. I like a man that is intelligent, strong and witty. I think respect in a relationship is critical and treating your Partner with such will only deepen your love and bond. I love a Man with manners and who is chivalrous. I love to be touched and cuddled, and sleeping in on Sunday mornings, with the door locked is the best way to end the old week, and to start a new one! I enjoy going to nice restaurants, and trying new foods, I try to take the attitude of trying everything at least once. "; attitude! I take the same approach when it comes to exploring new places. I consider myself to be adventurous, but cautious at the same time. I think becoming a Mom makes me stop and think twice about repelling without ropes through life now. I am a single Mom of a wonderful 8 year old boy. It keeps me active, happy, challenged and smiling throughout the day. But when I end my day, I love nothing more than to come home, maybe pour a glass of red wine, make a fabulous dinner, and chill out with my loved ones. I have always had someone in my life to Love and be Loved by, but for the past 9 years I have been so busy being the best Mom I could be, and a small business owner, that I have foregone dating or even thinking about internet dating. But.....I realize that I am shelfing a great catch, and the potential to have a friend, lover, partner in life that could make this Mom smile a whole lot more. Sooooooooo the bait is set and the patient wait and trolling begins.PS. I am not much for Chatting with someone online, so don't take it personally if I don't want to IM. We can *** there seems to be a mutual interest, then we can meet and talk face to face. Chemistry is extremely important to me, but it is hard to tell unless you meet or at least talk to someone Meet for coffee or a drink???? Chemistry is extremely important to me and I usually know pretty quickly if it is there or not. I am not into wasting anybody's time if the chemistry is not apparent. Too many other fish in the Sea - right?!

  • Alanna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I didn't grow up on a ranch, I’ve left the accent far behind, and I lean far enough to the left that sometimes I’m afraid I might tip over, but I’ I'm curious by nature and love to see and do new things. I’m always up for exploring the city or taking a day trip. My perfect relaxing weekend day would involve brunch, a hike, a walk by the beach or a drive up the coast, maybe sit in the park and read, check out a museum or go see a play (it doesn’t really matter as long as we’re out and about enjoying the day). We’d cook dinner together at home and then curl up on the couch for some TV or a DVD… and a few kisses. ;) I’m looking for someone/something of substance. I'm a relationship person and believe that the best relationships develop over time. I appreciate people who are open-minded, fun-spirited, and curious about life. While looks are a natural first attraction… intelligence, the ability to communicate, and a willingness to work at a relationship are much more important. Family is important to me so I'm perfectly OK if you have kids. I just hope the door is still open for the possibility of one more. I put more stock in what a person contributes than in what they have. If you're considerate of others… you already have my attention. Add in a quick wit and I'm sold. Overall, I consider myself very grounded, reliable, and kind. I don't like drama and I believe life is more fun when you can laugh about it. I try to eat healthy and workout about ***days a week. I'd be thrilled if you had an interest in going to Crossfit with me but it's not a requirement. In a nutshell... I'm a driven person with lots of good things going on in my life. All that's missing is someone to share the journey. I prefer something low key and fun.

  • Caron

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let's embark on an epic love affair that carries us blissfully through the rest of our days. We can create our own symphonies and fireworks. I don't believe there's a divine being out there, but I hope I'd live my life the same way were I proven wrong. And yes, everything happens for a reason; sometimes the reason is you're stupid. Tequila over gin, small group of friends over big party, drama over romantic comedy, poker over blackjack, kindness over coolness, brains over bank account, dessert over diet, reality over fantasy, reason over rhyme (except when it's the other way around). A comedy show? A scavenger hunt? An evening volunteering at a soup kitchen? A dive adventure in Indonesia? A hike up a mountain?Easy laughter. Awkward excitement.

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