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Mandie, 43
United States, Kansas, Ulysses

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Dec 2025 10:41:53

About Me

Thanks for stopping by!I'm an outgoing, independant woman, who enjoys the outdoors (community/sporting events and camping), and loves to try new things (food, places, and crossing off items on my bucket list)!I have two daughters, 8 and 11, and I enjoy an amicable relationship with my ex husband. It was a marriage I left, over 4 years ago. As a former preschool teacher and child care director, I adore kids and do prefer to date men who have younger or older kids, as opposed to none.I like to cook basic meals a few times a week, and really enjoy grilling in my backyard. I've lived in my condo for almost a year now, and love this area, which is where I also grew up and attended school.I like to think I have a good sense of humor, am an active listener and amazing communicator, who prefers a gentlemen that is old-fashioned, romantic, and can share how he feels about me/us on a regular basis.We all have a certain type that we're initially attracted too and a chemistry we can sometimes determine by what is or isn't said in a profile. If I write you, and there isn't any desire, please don't feel like you have to respond. Furthermore, I have decided to just delete messages that I may not sense an immediate vibe with. It's not meant to be disrespectful, but it does take time to go back and forth and explain, with some becoming hurt in the process. I also have a soft spot for the Angels, Ducks, and Celtics. If you are a Dodger, King, and Laker fan, don't rule me out, bets can be fun!;. My apologies regarding that.Best of luck on this site!Sheila The first meet is more about a quick cup of coffee or alcoholic beverage to see that we look like our photos and there's enough chemistry to plan a date later. Surely we'll know if we wanna try for a date after 20 minutes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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