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About Me

Well meetville has lost their minds. I have had a hidden profile for several months here and I must have clicked something stupid on my phone (or meetville unhid it just to get people to upgrade) and now their new rule is you have to be an upgraded member to hide your profile. Kiss my ass meetville. My profile will likely be deleted very soon.I am not a big fan of the dating process but would welcome someone in my life to share life's little pleasures like holding hands, a soft kiss, the gentle gesture of affection. Dating can be full of disappointments and I've been treated wonderfully by men and badly by men but that just makes me appreciate the good guys all the more. :o) It is difficult meeting someone that has the same wants, desires, and goals as me so I will give this site another try. With every person I meet or date I learn more about myself. They are a stepping stone for the day I meet you! Because of them I have learned more about compromise, love, communication, sexuality and friendship. Those limits and boundaries I find acceptable in a relationship and those I don't. I'm confident about who I am and will never settle just so I'm not alone. I look forward to finding that person I connect with emotionally and physically that shares some common interests to enjoy life. Someone that wants to go out dancing one night and stay in on the couch and let me cook for him the next. I like to travel, dine with friends or work out, hiking, biking, spinning, powerwalking, running or the gym. I take good care of myself and am an attractive woman. I am always told I look several years younger than my age. I am very compassionate to those that need it. My friends enjoy my complete loyalty. I’m happy in a classy sexy outfit for fine dining one night or jeans and tank the next. I love to switch it up. I want nothing less than my soul mate. Chemistry is everything to me. You may be the perfect bachelor on paper but if it doesn't click, no switch will turn it on. I am looking for someone that carries himself well, with confidence and maturity. With sophistication and class but can also just be silly. Has old fashioned values and knows how to be a gentleman and how to treat a woman. A secure man that is capable of loving a woman and receiving it back. He must have a lifestyle of fitness and take pride in his physical appearance. Would like to go out to a nice dinner and get dressed up but also hang in casuals. I am looking for that person that will be my best friend, lover, and partner with whom to enjoy life. The man that will give me tingles with his touch, that understands romance, sensuality and passion, and enjoys being affectionate. That man that can make me laugh hysterically and then melt in his arms. My soulmate that I adore and who adores me in return. I can’t wait to find the man that makes me want to give every last ounce of me to him. Bring it on.***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. There will not be a first date until we have a first meeting and determine if the next step is a date. A quick hello for coffee or beverage during the week. Do not ask me for prime time right out of the gate. Weekends are reserved for special people in my life and that doesn't mean dating. If you become my special guy, you will get all my prime time and get to meet the special people in my life. I will make exceptions for those that have schedules that don't permit weekdays. Thanks for understanding.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tammera

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to travel, explore places, hang out and have fun. I work out, take care of myself and have a great sense of humor (little dry, sarcastic and sometimes wicked). I have a lot of fun with my friends and always tell it like it is (unless it's hurtful) and try to treat everyone with the utmost respect and courtesy. I am not nor have I ever been a conformist. I am looking for someone honest, who doesn't play games and isn't hiding a girlfriend, etc. I like and expect a man to be a man and cannot stand needy ones. A man for me needs to be open to new ideas and experiences; active, take care of himself, well traveled and loves good conversation. I am educated and well traveled, work in marketing and public relations so conversation skills are a must! LOVE football and hockey. I will typically try anything once! I can hang out, watch sports and drink beer in jeans and flip flops and am just as comfortable dressing up going to a five star restaurant. I am quite social and love to meet new people, keep up with current affairs and will typically strike up a conversation with anyone. Wallflowers or less than confident men are not for me. I am looking for that non-judgmental, kick-back, kickass type of guy! If you want to know anything else, just ask! My profile states "wants to date, but nothing serious" that would be my state of mind now however I never say never. :) It would be nice if you could check at least 2 options!AND yes, my profile says I am separated - my ex lives in CA and we are in the process of the "D". If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

  • Isolde

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    With that being said...I am not looking for bed buddy so if your looking to hook up for the night then I am definitely not the girl. I have 4 children..3 of which are grown with families of their own and I have 2 grandchildren (awesome feeling!!). Family is very important to me and I spend as much time with them as I can. Oh... Life doesn't suck and I don't take too much serious! (I can be serious. When I need to be) I am a positive and outgoing person..confident in my own skin. I am not afraid to speak my mind and have a sarcastic side. I do have have a few tattoos and have every intention of getting a few more. For my likes...hmmmm well it's the start of football season (go dolphins!) and that is important stuff there...love being outdoors...riding four wheelers...shooting my bow...camping (princess style..yep camper and climate control). I just started getting into photography and I find that relaxing. I am pretty active. I have played softball since I can remember. I Finally decided that I would work out everyday and love it...my body is finally greeing with my brain!! My body seems to think my ass is a treasured present and wants to hang onto it!!!! I love doing things spontaneously. I am interested in meeting someone who is funny and doesn't sweat the small stuff, is mentally secure and is able to hold down a job. I believe most men have good intentions and don't make it a habit of man bashing but those few traits are important. I feel like I am writing a classified ad and writing isn't my forte...I think I will quit writing and if you want to know more...please just ask.

  • Melodi

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been separated for over a year now. Yes the divorce is coming. I have a grown stepson that will always be in my life. I have a beautiful granddaughter from him.I enjoy being with family, camping, jet skiing, bowing, playing pool, going to the movies and roller coasters and hanging out with my close friends. My goals are to continue to live for me and meet a man to share my happiness. I am a very independent woman with a huge heart. I LOVE the 80s, country, and top 40.WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:I want a guy who is as genuine as he claims to be. He is to be as open, honest, and loving as I am. I am not a girl for a bar scene. I want a guy who can go out with his guy friends alone and I don't have to wonder if he's being faithful or not. I want NO drama. Communication is key to all relationships. If you have no skills please continue to fish.If you have what I'm looking for, please say hi! I would like a comfortable, casual location where we could talk and laugh, bowling perhaps?

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