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Iluminada, 45
United States, Kansas, Scott City

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About Me

Well meetville has lost their minds. I have had a hidden profile for several months here and I must have clicked something stupid on my phone (or meetville unhid it just to get people to upgrade) and now their new rule is you have to be an upgraded member to hide your profile. Kiss my ass meetville. My profile will likely be deleted very soon.I am not a big fan of the dating process but would welcome someone in my life to share life's little pleasures like holding hands, a soft kiss, the gentle gesture of affection. Dating can be full of disappointments and I've been treated wonderfully by men and badly by men but that just makes me appreciate the good guys all the more. :o) It is difficult meeting someone that has the same wants, desires, and goals as me so I will give this site another try. With every person I meet or date I learn more about myself. They are a stepping stone for the day I meet you! Because of them I have learned more about compromise, love, communication, sexuality and friendship. Those limits and boundaries I find acceptable in a relationship and those I don't. I'm confident about who I am and will never settle just so I'm not alone. I look forward to finding that person I connect with emotionally and physically that shares some common interests to enjoy life. Someone that wants to go out dancing one night and stay in on the couch and let me cook for him the next. I like to travel, dine with friends or work out, hiking, biking, spinning, powerwalking, running or the gym. I take good care of myself and am an attractive woman. I am always told I look several years younger than my age. I am very compassionate to those that need it. My friends enjoy my complete loyalty. I’m happy in a classy sexy outfit for fine dining one night or jeans and tank the next. I love to switch it up. I want nothing less than my soul mate. Chemistry is everything to me. You may be the perfect bachelor on paper but if it doesn't click, no switch will turn it on. I am looking for someone that carries himself well, with confidence and maturity. With sophistication and class but can also just be silly. Has old fashioned values and knows how to be a gentleman and how to treat a woman. A secure man that is capable of loving a woman and receiving it back. He must have a lifestyle of fitness and take pride in his physical appearance. Would like to go out to a nice dinner and get dressed up but also hang in casuals. I am looking for that person that will be my best friend, lover, and partner with whom to enjoy life. The man that will give me tingles with his touch, that understands romance, sensuality and passion, and enjoys being affectionate. That man that can make me laugh hysterically and then melt in his arms. My soulmate that I adore and who adores me in return. I can’t wait to find the man that makes me want to give every last ounce of me to him. Bring it on.***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. There will not be a first date until we have a first meeting and determine if the next step is a date. A quick hello for coffee or beverage during the week. Do not ask me for prime time right out of the gate. Weekends are reserved for special people in my life and that doesn't mean dating. If you become my special guy, you will get all my prime time and get to meet the special people in my life. I will make exceptions for those that have schedules that don't permit weekdays. Thanks for understanding.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin American Spanish Animation Crime History Martial Arts Collecting
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  • Kaylee from Scott City | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
    Kaylee

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Ok, so here it goes. This is the spicy, no b.s. side of me throwing this out there. I will be up front with you now so that neither of us waste our time. Lol. I'm not looking for a hook up or fwb. I honestly want a mutually respectful and honest relationship with someone. Most men seem to skip past the narrative portion of my profile so I'm keeping it real and writing this as my first paragraph. Hopefully, if you are on the same page as I am with what you are looking for and will keep reading. If not then I wish you the best of luck in finding someone that wants what you want.So, now for the sweet side of me... Lol...I work in healthcare and love my job. I work long hours so on my free time I like to stay active and am usually going on some kind of adventure. I love to travel when time allows and go on day trips. I love to go to wine tastings, art festivals, art walks, try new restaurants and listen to live music. I love hiking and being outdoors but I must admit that I'm outdoors a little less in the summertime. Hey, AZ can be brutal in the summer! Lol. I'm from FL and have been in AZ for almost 31 years so I'm pretty much a native. A first date should be something that's low key and casual. I find that meeting for coffee or an adult beverage first to see if there is a mutual attraction is a good way to go. If there isn't a mutual attraction then we are both adults about it and move on. No games or drama.

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  • Jillian from Scott City | Woman | 45 years old | Cancer
    Jillian

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like the outdoors, especially in warmer climates. While I'm from IA, I'm not a fan of the cold but I do tolerate it. Like everyone, I make mistakes and I try to learn from them. As much as life can be chaotic, I wouldn't have it any other way. I am open minded and look at different perspectives. When there are different perspectives, I feel there are times when you have to agree to disagree and move on. I travel regularly for work and have my son 50% of the time. As you can imagine, having free time can be like searching for that pot of gold but it can happen.I like to go to the movies, ride my bike, yoga and go to the gym. I also like to go camping, to the beach and try new things.I had to add this part: If we meet, text and/or talk on the phone and you aren't interested, just let me know. I'm also not looking for a booty call..yes, it seems as if something says I am. Let's face it, intimacy is great. I'm not a prude but not looking for a one nighter either.Right now, my ideal relationship is someone I connect with spiritually, physically and mentally with monogamy yet the ability to be apart with trust. The "intent" section is really a silly question. The definitions are really dependent on who is defining it. I'm open to anything that will create a comfortable, relaxing environment and allow us to have a conversation without having to scream it.

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  • Orlagh from Scott City | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
    Orlagh

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am just a simple down to earth single woman, I do not have drama in my life, nor am I looking for it, I am not looking for a sugar daddy, or someone to take care of me!! I am looking for someone to date and see where it can go, may it be friends great, if it leads to something more even better!I am looking to eventually find someone to SHARE my life with, a partner in crime, someone who I can let my hair down and just be me. What you see is what you get, so give me a chance.I may not be what you expect :) I am tattooed (7 tats) and pierced (1 piercing) no joke!!I see you, you see me, stop by say HI I am open for coffee or something simple, and see where things lead too.

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