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Carin, 45

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About Me

I would like to have one man in my life that I can hang out with, have passionate moments with, and still have my space when I need it, because I am somewhat independent and self-reliant. I want a man in my life, but I don't need a man in my life. However, you may be the guy that makes me fall head over heals and want to spend every waking moment with you. Anything is possible. I want to be cherished, as I will cherish you in return; I think that is the most important verb in a relationship. But other than that, what you see is what you get. Yes, I am a curvy, voluptuous woman. I could stand to lose some weight, but it's not a priority for me; love me for what is on the inside and don't expect perfection. I am very forthcoming about what I want in life. I am fully responsible for myself and I expect you to be as well. I am very passionate. I am generous to a fault, even to people that I don't know (I get that from my dad). I am independent and outspoken. I am fiercely loyal and protective of the people that I care about. I hate drama. I love to travel; I like to attend local events like the street fair, a concert, spring training or even the swap meet. I like to go to happy hour, sing karaoke, dance my ass off to a live band, and go to the casino. I love to watch sports, especially the UofA, at a sports bar or a friend's house where we can enjoy a few drinks during the game.What I look for in a man: I am drawn to men that are outgoing and spontaneous; a person's looks will catch my eye but personality is what makes me want to get to know you better. I want someone who is down to earth and treats people with respect and consideration. I want someone that is comfortable in his own skin, that can be the life of the party or mellow and laid back, depending on the situation. Chemistry, spark, whatever you want to call it... that is important, and I will know right away if it is there."Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss SLOWLY, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret ANYTHING that makes you smile." ~ Blige, Patsy Cline, Lenny Kravitz, Maroon 5........ I hate Starbucks, but happy hour would be ideal to get comfortable with each other and take the edge off cuz I get nervous, or maybe even a sporting event where the atmosphere is casual. Somewhere that we can flirt and have fun and not have to worry about which fork to use with which dish.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Josefa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm not really sure how to describe myself-- I am intelligent and have a great sense of humor. I'm very self-sufficient and independent. While I don't need a relationship to feel whole, sometimes it would be nice to have another half.I have *** many messages from men who have glaring grammatical and spelling errors in either their profiles or messages-- it's just not the way to make a good first impression-- so if you don't know which there/they're/their or which you're/your is proper, then I'm definitely not the girl for you-- just being honest-- nothing personalI'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who fits into my life and can complement my life with their own. That being said, I'd much rather be alone than with someone who is not right for me. I find it easier to decide that I am not interested than to figure out if I am. I don't let many people get close to me--I'm selective in my relationships. Romance should be present at all stages of a relationship-- there is no occasion too small to send flowers to my office just to show me that you care :) My potential mate must love children as they are a huge part of my life. Looks are important, but being good looking is not the be all end all***looks fade over time, but the friendship we develop should last forever. I enjoy concerts, movies, restaurants, and amusement parks-- I wish that I lived closer to the water and hope to do so again some day. My life is very full, but I have room to add that special person***could it be you? For a first date, I believe things should be casual-- maybe a drink or two, but not a full meal, as people tend to become uncomfortable while eating with people they don't know. If the date goes well, then the next could be longer, but I would rather have a quick first meeting to determine the level of interest before spending a longer evening with someone.

  • Carolyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy traveling and learning about other people, languages, and cultures. I like going on adventures like zip-lining, hiking, climbing pyramids and volcanoes. Photography is a hobby of mine and I can often be found with my camera in hand. In addition, I enjoy volunteering and helping-out others. I tend to be ambitious and driven and like guys who are too. I am looking for that special someone to be in a relationship with and so if you are looking to play-the-field, then I am not interested in that. If you love to travel and enjoy a good intellectual conversation, then send me a message! :) An enjoyable first date would be at a coffee shop. A good conversation on a weekend afternoon, while having a yummy cup of coffee would be wonderful!

  • Isolde

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    With that being said...I am not looking for bed buddy so if your looking to hook up for the night then I am definitely not the girl. I have 4 children..3 of which are grown with families of their own and I have 2 grandchildren (awesome feeling!!). Family is very important to me and I spend as much time with them as I can. Oh... Life doesn't suck and I don't take too much serious! (I can be serious. When I need to be) I am a positive and outgoing person..confident in my own skin. I am not afraid to speak my mind and have a sarcastic side. I do have have a few tattoos and have every intention of getting a few more. For my likes...hmmmm well it's the start of football season (go dolphins!) and that is important stuff there...love being outdoors...riding four wheelers...shooting my bow...camping (princess style..yep camper and climate control). I just started getting into photography and I find that relaxing. I am pretty active. I have played softball since I can remember. I Finally decided that I would work out everyday and love it...my body is finally greeing with my brain!! My body seems to think my ass is a treasured present and wants to hang onto it!!!! I love doing things spontaneously. I am interested in meeting someone who is funny and doesn't sweat the small stuff, is mentally secure and is able to hold down a job. I believe most men have good intentions and don't make it a habit of man bashing but those few traits are important. I feel like I am writing a classified ad and writing isn't my forte...I think I will quit writing and if you want to know more...please just ask.

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