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Josefa, 43
United States, Kansas, Scott City

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About Me

I'm not really sure how to describe myself-- I am intelligent and have a great sense of humor. I'm very self-sufficient and independent. While I don't need a relationship to feel whole, sometimes it would be nice to have another half.I have *** many messages from men who have glaring grammatical and spelling errors in either their profiles or messages-- it's just not the way to make a good first impression-- so if you don't know which there/they're/their or which you're/your is proper, then I'm definitely not the girl for you-- just being honest-- nothing personalI'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who fits into my life and can complement my life with their own. That being said, I'd much rather be alone than with someone who is not right for me. I find it easier to decide that I am not interested than to figure out if I am. I don't let many people get close to me--I'm selective in my relationships. Romance should be present at all stages of a relationship-- there is no occasion too small to send flowers to my office just to show me that you care :) My potential mate must love children as they are a huge part of my life. Looks are important, but being good looking is not the be all end all***looks fade over time, but the friendship we develop should last forever. I enjoy concerts, movies, restaurants, and amusement parks-- I wish that I lived closer to the water and hope to do so again some day. My life is very full, but I have room to add that special person***could it be you? For a first date, I believe things should be casual-- maybe a drink or two, but not a full meal, as people tend to become uncomfortable while eating with people they don't know. If the date goes well, then the next could be longer, but I would rather have a quick first meeting to determine the level of interest before spending a longer evening with someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    With that being said...I am not looking for bed buddy so if your looking to hook up for the night then I am definitely not the girl. I have 4 children..3 of which are grown with families of their own and I have 2 grandchildren (awesome feeling!!). Family is very important to me and I spend as much time with them as I can. Oh... Life doesn't suck and I don't take too much serious! (I can be serious. When I need to be) I am a positive and outgoing person..confident in my own skin. I am not afraid to speak my mind and have a sarcastic side. I do have have a few tattoos and have every intention of getting a few more. For my likes...hmmmm well it's the start of football season (go dolphins!) and that is important stuff there...love being outdoors...riding four wheelers...shooting my bow...camping (princess style..yep camper and climate control). I just started getting into photography and I find that relaxing. I am pretty active. I have played softball since I can remember. I Finally decided that I would work out everyday and love it...my body is finally greeing with my brain!! My body seems to think my ass is a treasured present and wants to hang onto it!!!! I love doing things spontaneously. I am interested in meeting someone who is funny and doesn't sweat the small stuff, is mentally secure and is able to hold down a job. I believe most men have good intentions and don't make it a habit of man bashing but those few traits are important. I feel like I am writing a classified ad and writing isn't my forte...I think I will quit writing and if you want to know more...please just ask.

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