Total users: 62,215,885 Online users: 224,135
Josefa, 43

Online

About Me

I'm not really sure how to describe myself-- I am intelligent and have a great sense of humor. I'm very self-sufficient and independent. While I don't need a relationship to feel whole, sometimes it would be nice to have another half.I have *** many messages from men who have glaring grammatical and spelling errors in either their profiles or messages-- it's just not the way to make a good first impression-- so if you don't know which there/they're/their or which you're/your is proper, then I'm definitely not the girl for you-- just being honest-- nothing personalI'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who fits into my life and can complement my life with their own. That being said, I'd much rather be alone than with someone who is not right for me. I find it easier to decide that I am not interested than to figure out if I am. I don't let many people get close to me--I'm selective in my relationships. Romance should be present at all stages of a relationship-- there is no occasion too small to send flowers to my office just to show me that you care :) My potential mate must love children as they are a huge part of my life. Looks are important, but being good looking is not the be all end all***looks fade over time, but the friendship we develop should last forever. I enjoy concerts, movies, restaurants, and amusement parks-- I wish that I lived closer to the water and hope to do so again some day. My life is very full, but I have room to add that special person***could it be you? For a first date, I believe things should be casual-- maybe a drink or two, but not a full meal, as people tend to become uncomfortable while eating with people they don't know. If the date goes well, then the next could be longer, but I would rather have a quick first meeting to determine the level of interest before spending a longer evening with someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Carletta

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for something different besides the cheesy typical Vegas type...U know the three types; 1) loser 2) user 3) abuser...I am not sure I'll find it on here but it's worth a shot...I try to be very compassionate with out being naieve...I am looking for that connection like everyone else....Are you it??...we will see ;)I hate to include this as I am not a judgmental person,but I do not date outside my race or men that are 20yrs older than me,as I take of myself physically & am looking for a partner that does as well...If I don't feel you are my type or have similar traits & interests, please don't feel offended that I don't respond to your message. I am very busy with my work schedule & am very selective on who I spend my free time with.With that being said, if U see us as a good match, please let me know.I am ready for the REAL deal.Lets take on this world together ;***Cocktails & conversation

  • Kaylee

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Ok, so here it goes. This is the spicy, no b.s. side of me throwing this out there. I will be up front with you now so that neither of us waste our time. Lol. I'm not looking for a hook up or fwb. I honestly want a mutually respectful and honest relationship with someone. Most men seem to skip past the narrative portion of my profile so I'm keeping it real and writing this as my first paragraph. Hopefully, if you are on the same page as I am with what you are looking for and will keep reading. If not then I wish you the best of luck in finding someone that wants what you want.So, now for the sweet side of me... Lol...I work in healthcare and love my job. I work long hours so on my free time I like to stay active and am usually going on some kind of adventure. I love to travel when time allows and go on day trips. I love to go to wine tastings, art festivals, art walks, try new restaurants and listen to live music. I love hiking and being outdoors but I must admit that I'm outdoors a little less in the summertime. Hey, AZ can be brutal in the summer! Lol. I'm from FL and have been in AZ for almost 31 years so I'm pretty much a native. A first date should be something that's low key and casual. I find that meeting for coffee or an adult beverage first to see if there is a mutual attraction is a good way to go. If there isn't a mutual attraction then we are both adults about it and move on. No games or drama.

  • Carolyn

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy traveling and learning about other people, languages, and cultures. I like going on adventures like zip-lining, hiking, climbing pyramids and volcanoes. Photography is a hobby of mine and I can often be found with my camera in hand. In addition, I enjoy volunteering and helping-out others. I tend to be ambitious and driven and like guys who are too. I am looking for that special someone to be in a relationship with and so if you are looking to play-the-field, then I am not interested in that. If you love to travel and enjoy a good intellectual conversation, then send me a message! :) An enjoyable first date would be at a coffee shop. A good conversation on a weekend afternoon, while having a yummy cup of coffee would be wonderful!

Follow Us: