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United States, Kansas, Liberal

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About Me

After being with the same man for 19 years & having some time to myself, I'm ready for a LTR relationship. My youngest daughter will be graduating from high school in the spring & then moving onto an out-of- I'm spiritually an old fashioned Lutheran girl who still goes to the families "home" church but due to being related to everyone, there's no hope of finding my man there. The produce section at the grocery store has never been my thing either. Suggestions of one of my Uncles. Family is very important to me & I come from a very large extended family. I enjoy going to local sites & taking walks & enjoy watching/listening to nature. I also enjoy listening to music. I like all genre's but my true love is Country. I enjoy getting out in the summer months & going to local festivals & catching the featured band. I have local bands that I follow within a reasonable distance. I enjoy dancing knowing that I'm not the best but still have fun. I just need a good leader. I would love to take dance lessons with "the Chosen" one someday. It's always been on my bucket list. As much as I like to get out & just bum around, I also enjoy just sitting in front of the fireplace enjoying a movie or game. I know what I want in a man..... I need someone that is not only physically strong but also mentally. I don't want to feel as if I have to be the man. I need a confident man. I'm very confident & independent, if that's a problem, then we're not meant for each other. I'm in the searching for someone that can have a two-way conversation. This is VERY important to me. Someone that talks not only when things are good but when they're not as well. Let's talk through it, not *** or go yo bed mad. I want someone to talk to when we're sitting in the rocking chairs on the front porch next to each other in our golden years. I am an affectionate, loving person. I enjoy laughing, holding hands, cuddling & kissing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Fitness / Gym Portuguese Dirt Bike Racing Shooting Sports Charity
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.BEFORE YOU WRITE ME.... PLEASE know the difference between there, their & they're.... To, too & two... And OMG... ONE lady is a WOMAN... NOT A WOMEN!!! *UPDATE*I have found that some of the guys on here are players, rude, crude & obnoxious. Let me clarify my desires for being on this site.... I'm looking for someone to get to know.... Not out for a one nighter or anything of that nature! Genuine people please.... Don't waste my time.... And I won't waste yours!Ok, Well for starters... I'm EXTREMELY Outspoken!!! I say what I mean and mean what I say... Point Blank! I dont know what happened to the world outside.... seems everything keeps changing daily... to include the men on this site. Im questiining myself on the quality of men meetville allows here!!! To clarify a few things.....If you lie..... lie elsewhere!If you cheat.... I hope Karma bites you in the ass HARD!!! If youre Married.... GROW A SET & back away from the marriage! Dont think for a min that all women are the same & want you... with her & her & her!!! NEWS FLASH... Most women want ONE MAN, Not that one man that wants her & everyone else!If your WORD means nothing to you.... it means NOTHING TO ME!If you have pics that have been altered (the ex cut out) then dont msg me! Im sure you were happy then... but you have too many choices for new pictures today... USE THEM!!If you're a Serial Dater, FWB type, Self-proclaimed New Man that only wants women for "Play Time" (Man Whore) then im NOT your girl!!!I'm Not looking for the next man that messages me. I'm actually looking to start slow and possibly work into something later. I don't like Drama and HATE Players! I think if Witches were burned at the stakes... WHY COULDN'T STUPID PEOPLE TOO??? If you possess Stupidity.. You WON'T STAND A CHANCE NEXT TO ME!!!; Havasu, Beach, LOVE MY Pitt.My Dislikes:LIARS!!!!CheatersFakesAnd Married men posing to be something their not! Be a man!Anyways.... If you're still reading and this has sparked some interest.... Let me know! Don't be shy.. I don't bite...!!!¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.I see that I have failed to mention... I'm Sarcastic! My sense of humor is rather... ME! Sarcasm... One of my MANY talents!¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.·´¯`·.¸>«(((º>¸¸.Prove it.... That NOT ALL MEN are the same!!!!! This dating pool is getting pretty shallow by the minute!!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** Wow! Well, I guess here's where I say.... Somewhere where either of us can get up and leave if needed! Let's face it... NOBODY wants to be stuck with someone their not compatible with!!!

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  • Chelle from Liberal | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a lil crazy (but hey, who isn't?!) but have a big heart, lots of love, and an open mind :-) I love adventure & travel but sitting by a fire with music or on the couch with a scary movie is great too! (Notice the Scary part? I Love anything scary!) Like hanging out with friends & family but alone time with my honey is important too! I'm hoping to find someone who has similar interests & desires but I also think it's great to learn from each other & share new things. Romance & surprises (good ones ;***are high on my "like" list. Hee hee...I love PDA, affection, kissing, holding hands, and other stuff :)A physical attraction is important but so are the emotional & psychological connections.I want & need complete honesty, the ability to trust each other, compromise, & understanding.Of course, if you're the guy for me, I shouldn't have to mention that 100% faithfulness is a must.Communication is vital as well. I have my opinions & beliefs but I'm always willing to listen & try to understand your point of view, sometimes even agree with you too! Lol! Even if I don't agree with you, I will agree to disagree ;-) I am looking for the same respect & understanding. I am usually pretty positive & try to see the good in everyone.I'm compassionate & smart, I love my family very much & they are important to me. I hope yours means alot to you also. I have 3 kids and a granddaughter. They are always first when they need to be...but I am starting my own life now too so I will always have time for my special man. My youngest is the only one who lives with me, the other 2 are grown & gone.I have a great sense of humor & am a little sarcastic too ;-) I'm spontaneous & like that in my partner as well. I'm a strong person & think common sense is a step above book sense. I know what I want. I want someone who will push me (lightly) to experience new things & vice versa. I like to share stuff I get excited about too and welcome the same in return.Now that you've seen the words "I" and "I'm" many more times that you probably ever have before, send me a message and let me hear you say those words many times! ;)I'm not a serial dater & I'm not interested in you if you are. And I am most definitely not looking for an only physical relationship or one night stands. Drinks, maybe a bite to eat, lots of getting to know one another and then hopefully planning a 2nd date!

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a dispatcher at a trucking company and it keeps me very busy but I always make time for the people the people that are important to me. I like all kinds of music...from jazz to Metallica but I mostly listen to country music because I go line dancing every Tuesday. I am looking for someone that has common interests and can make me laugh. A sense of humor is very important to me. If you are looking for a hook up or like to play games/drama please don't message me.

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