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Kestrel, 44
United States, Kansas, Liberal

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About Me

After being with the same man for 19 years & having some time to myself, I'm ready for a LTR relationship. My youngest daughter will be graduating from high school in the spring & then moving onto an out-of- I'm spiritually an old fashioned Lutheran girl who still goes to the families "home" church but due to being related to everyone, there's no hope of finding my man there. The produce section at the grocery store has never been my thing either. Suggestions of one of my Uncles. Family is very important to me & I come from a very large extended family. I enjoy going to local sites & taking walks & enjoy watching/listening to nature. I also enjoy listening to music. I like all genre's but my true love is Country. I enjoy getting out in the summer months & going to local festivals & catching the featured band. I have local bands that I follow within a reasonable distance. I enjoy dancing knowing that I'm not the best but still have fun. I just need a good leader. I would love to take dance lessons with "the Chosen" one someday. It's always been on my bucket list. As much as I like to get out & just bum around, I also enjoy just sitting in front of the fireplace enjoying a movie or game. I know what I want in a man..... I need someone that is not only physically strong but also mentally. I don't want to feel as if I have to be the man. I need a confident man. I'm very confident & independent, if that's a problem, then we're not meant for each other. I'm in the searching for someone that can have a two-way conversation. This is VERY important to me. Someone that talks not only when things are good but when they're not as well. Let's talk through it, not *** or go yo bed mad. I want someone to talk to when we're sitting in the rocking chairs on the front porch next to each other in our golden years. I am an affectionate, loving person. I enjoy laughing, holding hands, cuddling & kissing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Fitness / Gym Portuguese Dirt Bike Racing Shooting Sports Charity
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