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Chelle, 41
United States, Kansas, Liberal

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About Me

I'm a lil crazy (but hey, who isn't?!) but have a big heart, lots of love, and an open mind :-) I love adventure & travel but sitting by a fire with music or on the couch with a scary movie is great too! (Notice the Scary part? I Love anything scary!) Like hanging out with friends & family but alone time with my honey is important too! I'm hoping to find someone who has similar interests & desires but I also think it's great to learn from each other & share new things. Romance & surprises (good ones ;***are high on my "like" list. Hee hee...I love PDA, affection, kissing, holding hands, and other stuff :)A physical attraction is important but so are the emotional & psychological connections.I want & need complete honesty, the ability to trust each other, compromise, & understanding.Of course, if you're the guy for me, I shouldn't have to mention that 100% faithfulness is a must.Communication is vital as well. I have my opinions & beliefs but I'm always willing to listen & try to understand your point of view, sometimes even agree with you too! Lol! Even if I don't agree with you, I will agree to disagree ;-) I am looking for the same respect & understanding. I am usually pretty positive & try to see the good in everyone.I'm compassionate & smart, I love my family very much & they are important to me. I hope yours means alot to you also. I have 3 kids and a granddaughter. They are always first when they need to be...but I am starting my own life now too so I will always have time for my special man. My youngest is the only one who lives with me, the other 2 are grown & gone.I have a great sense of humor & am a little sarcastic too ;-) I'm spontaneous & like that in my partner as well. I'm a strong person & think common sense is a step above book sense. I know what I want. I want someone who will push me (lightly) to experience new things & vice versa. I like to share stuff I get excited about too and welcome the same in return.Now that you've seen the words "I" and "I'm" many more times that you probably ever have before, send me a message and let me hear you say those words many times! ;)I'm not a serial dater & I'm not interested in you if you are. And I am most definitely not looking for an only physical relationship or one night stands. Drinks, maybe a bite to eat, lots of getting to know one another and then hopefully planning a 2nd date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Chinese French Middle Eastern Action Adult Documentary Mystery Romance Soccer / Football
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