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United States, Kansas, Liberal

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Hi there… I have never taken the time to write a big long profile, I always figured that getting to know someone personally helps two people get comfortable with meeting face to face eventually. But I really feel like a lot of time and energy can be wasted with this approach so I’m going to lay it out to you guys here. Firstly, about me… I’m really a no nonsense kind of gal. I am a virgo, so if you don’t already know, I am loyal (almost to a fault). However, I will never be played or taken advantage of and if I feel you are even leaning in that direction you can go ahead and kick rocks. I am kind, caring and love to take care of my man. In the past, I was in an exhausting marriage where I gave all of me and got nothing in return for many years, so I am also cautious about how much I give of myself at first. I’m can be hard to open up; I will stand from a distance, listen, and process then evaluate every situation including the men I may consider seriously dating. But please know this up front, that if I want to let my guard down and let you in, that I am definitely all in. There will come a point where I may or may not feel this way, but if I do… I will make it very clear to you that this is where I’d like to go. I know two people may not always have a mutual connection, which is completely understandable, but please DO NOT GO ON A DATING SITE LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP IF YOU KNOW YOUR NOT READY TO START ONE. This seems to be very common amongst the men that I have dated since my marriage ended just about two years ago. My feelings don’t get hurt very easily; I am very open and upfront. I would rather you just tell me that you aren’t into me as I will tell you the same thing to avoid anyone wasting our time. Communication on a real level is key and two people should never be afraid to communicate to one another.I am a fun girl, always like to have a good time. But, you will find out that I am not one of those inappropriate women where you don’t expect things to turn real. I am the real deal, have my stuff together and am ready to find the right person to stick around in my life to become a partner with. I love to get out and do all sorts of things. Go out and have a few drinks at a local dive bar, day trips to the beach, street fairs and festivals, swap meets, car shows. I’m very sociable, get along with most people, am totally willing to join your circle of friends and expect you to do the same. I don’t believe that two people should alienate themselves from friends to have a relationship. It’s necessary to do the couple thing and get some along time, but two people should definitely be able to join into each other’s circles fairly easily.Would like to find someone to rely on and you will definitely be able to do the same. I can take the lead, and will do so, but I can also follow someone else’s lead. Truthfully, I need a strong type of man who can take this lead and not abuse it or feel as if he can’t handle the lead.I expect monogamy; I really don’t feel like you can get to know a person in their wholeness unless you don’t have someone else on your mind or in your life. I understand that dating around is completely normal in early stages of meeting and dating, but at a certain point you know when it’s time to let which ones go. If you can’t do that for me at that point, you don’t deserve my time. I am not a jealous person, nor am I some psycho, but I am possessive over my relationships. I want to feel confident in the fact that I don’t have to share you, as you will feel confident with me likewise.So anyways, now that I made myself out to be a big demanding monster, feel free to message me… :) I'm down for mostly anything, lets make the first meeting short so we can just see if there is any connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Latin Gardening American Mexican Vietnamese Drama Sport Western Bowling Collecting Singing
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