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About Me

My first day as an online dater, a "gentleman" (perhaps appropriately self-titled as Kidneyshovel) asked me to come over and hang out in his basement at 11 PM. Hmmm.....not really a basement kind of girl.And so it goes, here I am, again, giving it a try...I love books. I fantasize about being trapped in a library for months and reading all the books on my wish list (IQ84), and all the books I'd love to experience again (Of Human Bondage), and all the books I didn't really like, if only to give them the second chance they deserve (sorry Moby-Dick).I am deeply affected by beauty--even something as small as the way light makes shapes on a dusty floor. Colors, fabrics, fashion, buildings, birds, all attract and hold my eye. I can't help but assign meaning, which probably isn't there, to the smallest visual details.I love dancing, well, any kind of movement really. I like to tiptoe and twirl, cartwheel and climb, leap and lunge, sway and swoon. Take me dancing and we're off to a swimming start. I don't think adults are playful enough. I'd like to meet someone who has a healthy sense of play and fun.These are a few of my favorite things:TV: Mad Men, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire (loving season 4), Six Feet Under, House of Cards, early seasons of Parks and Rec.-Up Bird Chronicles (love everything by Murakami), The Executioner's Song, The History of Love, Sophie's Choice...A few of the things I can do:**Palm a basketball (a woman with very large--yet feminine!--hands)**Dominate the scrabble board (a woman of many words)**Recite a few Shakespearean sonnets (a woman inspired by beauty)**Knock back a dozen cookies in one sitting (a woman of serious appetites)**Fall asleep within 30 seconds of my head contacting the pillow (a woman with a clean conscience)**Rock funky leopard heels, skinny jeans and t-shirt (a woman with a sense of fashion)***I am a few years older than my age posted here, but men often cap their search at ***an age I can easily pass for (: If you find the fact that I've done this dishonest (which is weird since I'm stating it here), then there are certainly no hard feelings on my end, but chastising me as your opening line, well...honestly, I'd prefer to be invited to a basement by Kidneyshovel. Something short and sweet: a walk through the park or at the beach (not the boardwalk though as I was run over by a drunk bicyclist on a meetville date!), or a glass of wine.I don't exchange phone numbers (and for very good reason--the whole one bad apple spoils the whole barrel thing), so we will have to arrange things via messages through meetville. If we meet and, god forbid, we are not a match, let's end things gracefully. And by gracefully I mean no hard feelings and no need for follow up *** the initial recognition and so-be-it-I-wish-you-well exchange. We've all been there, or at least had the impulse to want to keep writing, but my lack of interest is not a statement about your value and vice versa.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Cressida from Liberal | Woman | 42 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am fun, easy going, got one of the biggest hearts around, am not over the hill yet, and still young at heart!! I am not a small girl or women, whichever you perfer to say it. So if your into toothpicks with eyesballs, stop reading and move on...I like to go out and have a good time, but perfer quite evenings at home! I perfer someone with kids, cause I am not having anymore, for anyone! My daughter is 25 so if your under 30 and looking to get laid, sorry not going to happen. I am looking for an honest, fun loving, easy going, understanding, must have a love for animals kind of a man! I am a easy person to get long with till you piss me off, but thats the redhead in me, but I have a very long fuse! I like camping, quading, horseback riding, softball, boatin, swimming, motorcycles, almost anything BUT COOKING! HATE COOKING and if you wish to live don't ask me too!!!! LOL P.S. if you don't have a picture you can show me, please dont respond. If you can see me, i want to see you too. I am sure between 2 of us, we will find something fun to do and get to know each other better!

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  • Nguyet from Liberal | Woman | 45 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi,Family and Friends are the key... I am an independent, grounded, normal, smart girl. I have two wonderful teenage kids. I have a great career and own my own home and am very independent.... So no. Not after your money? (guys ask this all the time... guys... I do not know a soul like that?). My friends think I am funny and have good energy. I have a good sense of humour. I am as honest as they come and cannot have a relationship that has secrets. I love all kinds of music - rock, roots, folk, blues, bluegrass, old country. I love the balance of the country and the city; visiting my family on the ranch (where I grew up), riding occasionally, camping, hiking, reading, photography.. enjoying the outdoors but also... listening to live music.. jamming with friends..... folk/roots/blues festivals anyone? Live music just to listen or dance a few? Hanging out with friends?!I like to travel when I can. I am looking for a friend,lover, partner. If we are attracted to each other and things move on, great. I am ultimately waiting for an amazing connection. I love to live life to the fullest and life is special when you can share those times with someone you love. I am looking ultimately (some day, no rush!) for a relationship that is mutually respectful, mutually supportive. For a friendship with someone who is able to love, give and receive affection and is in a good place in his own life. I would prefer someone who is a true gentleman, good natured and likes to laugh and socialize. I am looking for a partner to walk beside me, not to fulfill me. A guy friend recently said noone wants to look after each other anymore. People are self protective and afraid. I am independent but I want to care for and do things for someone as they would for me. I want mutual kindess, respect and consideration. I want to be with someone who when we are together we are both better than we are apart. I am looking for something great, which if it happens, it does, if not, I am ok with myself!Enjoy your fishing and I wish you all the best. This sounds like too much... really honesty, laughter, love and mutual respect with a splash of adventure and music ... that is the core of what I am looking for. If no picture, I do not reply. Sorry, but if we were out meeting face to face at a grocery store or at work we would be seeing each other. It is too strange for me to speak to someone when I cannot see them. Up for discussion... after the first meeting if we click then... live music, wine, dinner, drives, picnics, and laughs

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  • Happy from Liberal | Woman | 41 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am recently Divorced, trying the dating thing, I am looking for a relationship that starts out sloe, and could become Serious if the right Guy comes along. I am a Woman looking for Romance. I love Roses, n candles, or cuddling up to a fire, camping, fishing, swimming, holding hands, going for walks in a Park, or on trails, anything to do with Nature. I love Animals, although I don't have a pet of my Own. I want to find a man who I can try New adventures and discover life with. I would like to be spoiled a little, and mabe even Swept off my feet. I'm waiting to hear from You, so go ahead say Go, lets see what the Future Holds for us. Ready? I tried this before, and failed, so a first Date for me should be getting to know the other person through conversation, and doing something Fun that both Parties will enjoy. Then mabe a little Romance, and a Good Night kiss. At least a Hug.

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