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Coletta, 36
United States, Kansas, Liberal

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About Me

Hmmmm... what do I have to say about myself? I love to hike, go to rock concerts, spend a night out, spend a night in. I like getting lost in a great conversation where nothing's off limits. With me, what you see is what you get. I'm outgoing, chatty, fun, passionate, honest, easily excitable, and love to experience new things. I can be a girlie girl and one of the guys... and live life in both the fast and slow lanes.I'm going to be completely honest right now and say that I put on a few pounds, but I have been working hard to lose it (5ft 4 and a half and 160lbs currently). So if that is a deal breaker I understand, I'm not offended, and I invite you to message me later when I'll be more your type! :)Also for the sake of honesty, I'm looking to take it slow and really get to know the man I'm dating before jumping into a relationship. You definitely don't have to worry about me talking about our future in the middle of our second date lol!If I seem like the somebody you'd like to meet, by all means e-mail me (but not the generic "hi there" e-mail... Be creative!)So what do I look for in a man? Somebody who makes me laugh, is smart, silly, responsible, open-minded, romantic, caring, and honest. Family means a lot to me, and should also mean a lot to my ideal man.And as for who I'm not interested in... you fall into this category if you're a guy who:-- Is a Party animal (every once in a while is fun but not all the time***Needs to have sex by the end of one of the first few dates (I'm not looking for a hookup).-- Doesn't have a full time job -- Doesn't have time to date (what's the point of just talking***Expects me to give him my phone number just because we've e-mailed back and forth a couple times-- Doesn't smile-- Smokes cigarettes***Doesn't like the outdoors-- Is a member of the Raider Nation (Go 49ers!***Thinks Emo / Screamo is the best music ever-- Drinks every (or almost every) day-- Is possessive and jealous-- Has the duckface in any of his profile picturesIf you don't fit any of the above, I'd love to hear from you! For a first date, it really depends. Something where we can have a great conversation! Something outdoorsy for a second or third date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single mother of 2 and there both grown. I also have a wonderful grandson. I like to go for walks and dance, spending time with my family which are very important to me. I also like to cuddle lol I know it sounds like a cliche but hey I can be a hopeless romantic. I also love to cook and bake. Yes I am looking for that special someone ( yes another cliche) but then again who isn't. I am looking for a guy that can be very funny, loving, and can give me a challenge and I you a challenge too. LOL quite interesting but makes getting to know each other alot more fun!!! You know putting what you would like for your first date is like not a surprise. I would want the surprise and the anticipation to look forward to. This way I can see what kind of an imagination he has. Hmmmmm that could prove very interesting and I look forward to it.

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