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United States, Kansas, Liberal

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About Me

Hmmmm... what do I have to say about myself? I love to hike, go to rock concerts, spend a night out, spend a night in. I like getting lost in a great conversation where nothing's off limits. With me, what you see is what you get. I'm outgoing, chatty, fun, passionate, honest, easily excitable, and love to experience new things. I can be a girlie girl and one of the guys... and live life in both the fast and slow lanes.I'm going to be completely honest right now and say that I put on a few pounds, but I have been working hard to lose it (5ft 4 and a half and 160lbs currently). So if that is a deal breaker I understand, I'm not offended, and I invite you to message me later when I'll be more your type! :)Also for the sake of honesty, I'm looking to take it slow and really get to know the man I'm dating before jumping into a relationship. You definitely don't have to worry about me talking about our future in the middle of our second date lol!If I seem like the somebody you'd like to meet, by all means e-mail me (but not the generic "hi there" e-mail... Be creative!)So what do I look for in a man? Somebody who makes me laugh, is smart, silly, responsible, open-minded, romantic, caring, and honest. Family means a lot to me, and should also mean a lot to my ideal man.And as for who I'm not interested in... you fall into this category if you're a guy who:-- Is a Party animal (every once in a while is fun but not all the time***Needs to have sex by the end of one of the first few dates (I'm not looking for a hookup).-- Doesn't have a full time job -- Doesn't have time to date (what's the point of just talking***Expects me to give him my phone number just because we've e-mailed back and forth a couple times-- Doesn't smile-- Smokes cigarettes***Doesn't like the outdoors-- Is a member of the Raider Nation (Go 49ers!***Thinks Emo / Screamo is the best music ever-- Drinks every (or almost every) day-- Is possessive and jealous-- Has the duckface in any of his profile picturesIf you don't fit any of the above, I'd love to hear from you! For a first date, it really depends. Something where we can have a great conversation! Something outdoorsy for a second or third date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love life,and am a happy woman.I am honest,attractive,sweet,sassy,and articulate.I am passionate,warm,and loving.Please don't mistake my kindness for weakness.I love adventure,and a good adrenaline rush!Swimming open water challenges is one of my passions,I would like to swim Alcartaz again next year,and maybe a couple other destination events, so meeting another swimmer would be amazing,since i'm at it every day.I also love to entertain.I'm a fabulous cook,have a wonderful sense of humor,and live in a great place by the beach... that I LOVE!However,there is something missing....... Meet for coffee,a glass of wine,or 5k stroll.....

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