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Coletta, 36
United States, Kansas, Liberal

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About Me

Hmmmm... what do I have to say about myself? I love to hike, go to rock concerts, spend a night out, spend a night in. I like getting lost in a great conversation where nothing's off limits. With me, what you see is what you get. I'm outgoing, chatty, fun, passionate, honest, easily excitable, and love to experience new things. I can be a girlie girl and one of the guys... and live life in both the fast and slow lanes.I'm going to be completely honest right now and say that I put on a few pounds, but I have been working hard to lose it (5ft 4 and a half and 160lbs currently). So if that is a deal breaker I understand, I'm not offended, and I invite you to message me later when I'll be more your type! :)Also for the sake of honesty, I'm looking to take it slow and really get to know the man I'm dating before jumping into a relationship. You definitely don't have to worry about me talking about our future in the middle of our second date lol!If I seem like the somebody you'd like to meet, by all means e-mail me (but not the generic "hi there" e-mail... Be creative!)So what do I look for in a man? Somebody who makes me laugh, is smart, silly, responsible, open-minded, romantic, caring, and honest. Family means a lot to me, and should also mean a lot to my ideal man.And as for who I'm not interested in... you fall into this category if you're a guy who:-- Is a Party animal (every once in a while is fun but not all the time***Needs to have sex by the end of one of the first few dates (I'm not looking for a hookup).-- Doesn't have a full time job -- Doesn't have time to date (what's the point of just talking***Expects me to give him my phone number just because we've e-mailed back and forth a couple times-- Doesn't smile-- Smokes cigarettes***Doesn't like the outdoors-- Is a member of the Raider Nation (Go 49ers!***Thinks Emo / Screamo is the best music ever-- Drinks every (or almost every) day-- Is possessive and jealous-- Has the duckface in any of his profile picturesIf you don't fit any of the above, I'd love to hear from you! For a first date, it really depends. Something where we can have a great conversation! Something outdoorsy for a second or third date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime Western Golf
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello gentleman! I am looking for an old soul..someone who knows how to treat a woman and is not afraid to show it! I am a confident person with a very kind heart. I like to get out an have fun at little outta the way bars, play pool or darts and luv a live band! I enjoy hunting and fishing and riding my Heritage Softail Harley! I have 2 wiener dogs who I love to death and are spoiled rotten! I believe in treating others the way you would want to be treated. So if I'm something that might interest you, drop me a line.. FYI if you have read this far..my DOB is wrong..but age isn't to important to me..and it won't let me change it... Just so ya know...Thanks an good luck! I like the guy to take control of the first meeting.. Or date.. Put some thought into it..an activity or venue you want to share with me!

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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