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since everyone else puts their *** mine is kristivamp 76 i'm never very good at talking about myself. I can be shy when i first meet someone and it takes me a little while to get comfortable with people but once i trust someone its a different story. Trust is important to me if i trust you then at the very least you have a friend for life but if that trust is betrayed there is very rarely a second chance. I'm a forgiving person i dont hold a grudge but im not big on allowing my heart to be played with more than once. I love music all kinds but mostly im a rocker girl. I love movies horror action comedy. i read alot i write poetry and try my hand at fan fiction from time to time i enjoy the creative process of it all i suppose. i'm honest it saves drama ive found. I'd rather have someone hurt me with the truth than keep me happy with a lie because the truth will come out and i get hurt even worse. i can be random sometimes like texting someone and asking their fave ice cream flavor. i go with my feelings in the moment even if i regret it later which i almost never do anyway regret seems to be a waste of time as you can't take things back. i try to be positive though i have my moments of getting lost in the darkness of things. anything else ask. looking for new expierences and the like. someone cool someone fun ** Important announcement** if I message you first and you just are not feeling it for whatever reason maybe im not your type who knows its ok to tell me I won't fall apart I am made of tougher stuff than I look :) that is all** ok since i mentioned i write poetry people have been asking me to share some and since i'm currently tired and not thinking straight i've decided to share one poem.*update once again* i've been having some computer issues latley so its taking me a while to go through my messages on here and i seem to have alot of messages to respond to so please grant me paitence and understanding i'm not intentionally *** or blowing you off. I'm just a busy gal with technical problems :) update time again lol : i'm a slightly tall girl ***and i enjoy wearing heels too sometimes very high heels five inch heels even so if you have issues with height then i am probably not the girl for you. i tend to date guys withinn my own age range no one too much younger or too much older.as for psycial prefrences tat does tend to vary greatly. tattoos are cool even though im too chicken to get one my self. i can go for the long haired rocker guy or the military type. the clean cut type it depends if i feel a connection to someone and even i can't tell you what that takes. its a strange thing the mystery of a connection. if its there i'll know if its not well theres still hope *ANOTHER UPDATE** I have mentioned the age thing before but from some of the messages I get it seems im not clear. if you are much younger than me its never going to happen. if you are closer to my mothers age than mine then it defenitly aint going to happen. my mom by the way is 58 so if you are closer to that thean my age it wont happen. if you could have gone to high school with my mom im not your girl Just out of curiousity is it just me or does this site pick totally random people to consider a top ten prospect for you? I wonder what they are thinking sometimes. common intrests are important but not to sound shallow so is attraction. and another question do you guys read these things or just look at the pictures? wow this thing is long and if you get this far congratulations :) first dates are strange things so something simple no pressure casual. go with the flow kind of things

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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