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Shirleen, 37
United States, Kansas, Goodland

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About Me

Hello i am a single mother raising a 14 year old boy, which i think is my best thing ever i have done ;)I am very laid back country girl that enjoys the city but not to live. I enjoy my dog and would love to find someone that enjoys hiking and camping and would love to be able to one Friday just decide to go away for the weekend or the night. I have a autistic (aspergers) son so he will be with me even after 18 and its a must that your ok with that. I also have really bad arthritis so there are days when we may have plans for a hike/walk or physical activities and i may have to reschedule and its not cause i am being mean but it comes without warning. I love to laugh cause i truly believe that laughter cures all hurts physically and emotionally.. I have been told when i laugh it brighten up their day as well. I also like to watch action movies and have a nice home cooked meal either in the kitchen together or on the grill..I am looking for someone that can see the beauty of a woman from the inside out and is not afraid of someone that is not perfect. I am not afraid of what you look like as long as you are honest loving and faithful. I must have someone that can make me laugh show me respect and can show that they care without having sex. I am also looking for a man that is alright being more than a step dad but someone that my son can look up for direction and advise and be able to follow their footsteps. He does have a "father" but there are some things lacking in that relationship. Please mail me if your interested in talking/chatting. and we will go from there. i am looking for MY perfect guy. it prob isn't everyones so i won't say the perfect guy cause that doesn't exists.I need someone that can understand a auto immune disease and special needs kids. I need someone that when things are bad that he can just hold me or make me laugh so things are not bad anymore. I am also looking for a man that is a one woman type guy. and one that won't send me pictures of their penis through a text message that is a for sure way to have me delete you and never talk to you again. I am old school and i am looking for someone that has morals and can show that.Another note for those great guys out there: the best thing you can do for a woman when your first dating is call for a simple "hello, how are you" or "i was thinking of you" those two things i promise is painless and best of all free the flowers and honey to do lists will come later LOL thank you!!! not sure..i would love to talk on the phone and chat online before meeting. i am very shy and needs to know i am safe with the guy before i go out with him ;) so a good dinner out would be great or even a lunch on the weekend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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