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Shirleen, 37

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About Me

Hello i am a single mother raising a 14 year old boy, which i think is my best thing ever i have done ;)I am very laid back country girl that enjoys the city but not to live. I enjoy my dog and would love to find someone that enjoys hiking and camping and would love to be able to one Friday just decide to go away for the weekend or the night. I have a autistic (aspergers) son so he will be with me even after 18 and its a must that your ok with that. I also have really bad arthritis so there are days when we may have plans for a hike/walk or physical activities and i may have to reschedule and its not cause i am being mean but it comes without warning. I love to laugh cause i truly believe that laughter cures all hurts physically and emotionally.. I have been told when i laugh it brighten up their day as well. I also like to watch action movies and have a nice home cooked meal either in the kitchen together or on the grill..I am looking for someone that can see the beauty of a woman from the inside out and is not afraid of someone that is not perfect. I am not afraid of what you look like as long as you are honest loving and faithful. I must have someone that can make me laugh show me respect and can show that they care without having sex. I am also looking for a man that is alright being more than a step dad but someone that my son can look up for direction and advise and be able to follow their footsteps. He does have a "father" but there are some things lacking in that relationship. Please mail me if your interested in talking/chatting. and we will go from there. i am looking for MY perfect guy. it prob isn't everyones so i won't say the perfect guy cause that doesn't exists.I need someone that can understand a auto immune disease and special needs kids. I need someone that when things are bad that he can just hold me or make me laugh so things are not bad anymore. I am also looking for a man that is a one woman type guy. and one that won't send me pictures of their penis through a text message that is a for sure way to have me delete you and never talk to you again. I am old school and i am looking for someone that has morals and can show that.Another note for those great guys out there: the best thing you can do for a woman when your first dating is call for a simple "hello, how are you" or "i was thinking of you" those two things i promise is painless and best of all free the flowers and honey to do lists will come later LOL thank you!!! not sure..i would love to talk on the phone and chat online before meeting. i am very shy and needs to know i am safe with the guy before i go out with him ;) so a good dinner out would be great or even a lunch on the weekend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    My life is full in many ways, and I feel so fortunate. I know what I want in a relationship, and I have time and space for someone special as well. I think it will happen when the time/person is right, I’m not sure it will be on a dating sight, but I’m willing to try. Here goes....I am a generally happy person, and love to laugh and have fun. I tend to be sarcastic. I can usually look at the bright side of most situations, and believe that failure is an opportunity to learn. I love my children and they are my life. My family is very close, and even though we don’t all live near each other, we stay in touch and see each other often. There is nothing and will never be anything more important to me than family. I have a good relationship with my children’s father, and am committed to parenting them well together. Over the past couple of years though, I have re-discovered how important it also is to spend time doing other things for myself that I love as well. Working out, being outdoors, and music are at the top of my list. Challenging myself to continue building my strength and endurance is something I am very committed to. I love being outdoors year round. Hiking, swimming, and trail running are some of my favorite outdoor activities. I have always loved to cook, and eating healthy is also an important part of my life. I am a huge fan of live music and music festivals. My musical interests are really diverse, there is not much I don’t like, it really depends on my mood and what I am engaged in. I spent the majority of my life traveling and love to visit new places, especially anywhere near the ocean. I’m also content now with living and raising my kids in a close knit community, which was one of the downsides of the way I grew up. I wouldn’t trade anything about my childhood and what I got to experience however, it really was the best for me. I enjoy spending time at home when I have down time, and love to garden and work on home projects. Campfires make me really happy, and we have them frequently. Sitting around a fire with good music is one of my favorite ways to relax. Things I also like but haven’t done as much recently include camping, boating, and fishing. My work is also a big part of who I am, and I am very committed to it. I manage a large social service program, it is challenging and someday’s exhausting, but I believe that what we do makes a difference and love the people I work with. I am very liberal politically, and believe that people should have the right to make decisions about their body and life, as well as who they love and chose to marry. I am looking for someone who lives a healthy lifestyle, is energetic and adventurous. Loving the outdoors, especially the water, are also important. I imagine that the right person is also a parent and understands the love and commitment that comes with children. It would be nice to meet someone with similar interests, though I’m always willing to expand my mine as well. I enjoy getting to know new people and at the same time, I know what I am looking for, and I am not interested games or drama.

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I cheer for the Vikes/Wild/Gophers/Twins....WIN or lose. And, getting away for a week to enjoy the sun, sand and surf is a good way to embrace it. I'm quick witted, educated, exercise regularly, athletic, and intelligent. I have a great group of friends and a nice family. I'm adventurous and independent, yet seeking that partner and best friend to compliment me. I'm secure, calm and laid back. I'm a fan of all kinds of sports. I love tulips, music, cooking, baking, I love to play golf, and I am thinking about taking some tennis lessons someday. I am well-traveled, happy on or near water or in a big city to enjoy and experience a history or art museum, fine restaurants and culture. I can dress it up, or dress it down. I work hard but always take the time to enjoy the fruits of my labor.The guy I look for: Intelligence is key, I desire a man that can make me think, laugh and engage in good, spirited conversation all in the same night! I'm looking for someone who can appreciate all that life has to offer. I am looking for a man who is comfortable with who he is, has goals and works hard to achieve them. Someone who treats me as well as others with respect, includes me in his life, loves to travel, lives an active lifestyle (a golfer is a plus!), will take time out from a busy career to 'unplug and unwind', I like the guy who is honest and loyal, fun to be with and for whom laughter and kindness come easily.I am the girl next door who is ready for the next chapter of her life and to share it with one very lucky guy. The only baggage I have is used for travel! So don't by shy, say hi! I'd prefer to do something active, walk around the lakes, golf 9 holes, something where there is action and interaction. I'm a talker, I love good conversation.

  • Jacinth

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I miss having someone to share special moments with, call just to say hi and hope your day is great. I\'m looking to find someone who is kind, funny, romantic, sensitive, loving, caring and likes to have fun.

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