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Daphne, 36
United States, Kansas, Garden City

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*UPDATE* ***I'm currently in contract to buy my first house and an due to close soon! Yay! Also training for Hero Rush. Next step returning to school and getting a newer car!I have been through quite a bit over the last few years, and I've decided to make ***the year I take back control of my life. I'm currently making plans to return to school with the hopes of getting into UF's Pharmacy program. I am working towards home ownership. I have become way more fit and healthy and am always striving to be more so.I am fair-skinned, with dark reddish brown hair that is fairly long and very curly. My eyes fluctuate from blue to green, depending upon the amount light and to an extent my mood. I have all my teeth. Except my baby teeth and wisdom teeth. :-D I have no tattoos at this point in time and the only piercings are boring old earring holes. Once my belly is flat(ish) I may get it pierced in celebration!I am 5'5" and average size, though curvier and larger than I would like (hence my working out). I have a bubble butt! I have actually lost a fair amount of weight this year, and am working on getting even more fit. As a result, I am most inclined to meet others who are into being physically fit or healthy activities as well. At this time I am 39"-30"-40" though I hope to make the last two numbers smaller very soon! I have just agreed to do something akin to Tough Mudder (Hero Rush) with some friends, though I'm concerned it might kill me! :-) If you want to get to know me, contact me soon eh?Not looking to rush into anything, just to make friends, find people to date casually, see if anything develops over time. I'm typically pretty mellow and easy to please (not easy however!) and I like having my own space so if you are super aggressive or clingy I wouldn't be your ideal match. I am kind, probably to a fault, and incredibly loyal.I enjoy hiking, nature, photography, time with friends and family, and working out. I am an avid reader and enjoy board, card, and computer games. I have only once EVER been beaten at Boggle. Sexy, I know.I am a lover of art and music and performances (plays, musicals, dance, music, whatever) I'm a voracious reader and I read most genres.-I like almost any movie with a good plot, especially with an awesome soundtrack. Soft spot for The Wedding Singer, loved Life is Beautiful. So a little goofy, a little high-brow.Rarely watch tv unless with someone else but I prefer Food Network and Nat Geo type stuff.For music, I'm all over the board. Just not into really Heavy Metal, Gangsta Rap, or twangy country. Except I think I know every word of 9 to 5...I try to eat healthy and organic as much as possible, but I still splurge on occasion. I'll go for a turkey wrap with spinach and guac, but the cheesecake and prime rib will totally tempt me away.I am more inclined to date a man of culture and intellect than a bad boy. And while I am open to friendships with all types, I have simply no interest in dating rednecks or thugs. I find well spoken, thoughtful, creative, smart, hard working men to be incredibly hot. Sure I like to look at pretty boys, but if there isn't much substance I won't be interested for long.I do not *need* a man. I can change my own car battery, mow my own lawn, pay my bills just fine, and take care of my own needs just fine. I would rather stay single than be in a relationship with someone who does not make me smile and laugh, tingle in my toes from time to time, and feel appreciated. But I do *want* to find that. And I'm happy to find nice people with similar interests along the way.I have in the past gotten many messages asking why I was single. I suppose if I knew for sure maybe I wouldn't be. But my best honest guess is that if I weren't as shy, had more time and energy to go out looking, and wanted a relationship more than I wanted to be with the right person, I wouldn't be single very much. That its probably true for most people on this site. I am only interested in those around my own age. I am not interested in anything long distance. Intelligence is a must for me. And I have had my share of guys just looking for sex contact me already. if that's all you want please move on.I am very unlikely to make a first move, even if you seem like Mr Right. But if you think I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please send me a message. I'm worth it. I try to respond to all coherent messages that are more than a word or two, but there are days when I just don't have time to give you the response you deserve in a timely manner. But if you mention that you read to the end of my very long profile, I'm way more likely to respond quickly and enthusiastically to you as a thanks!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English Mexican South American Horror Mystery Thriller Western Drag Racing
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