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Rafaela, 40
United States, Kansas, Garden City

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Im a single Mom and my daughter comes first naturally. If you have kids then you'll understand that I need to plan ahead to make time for dating.Im passionate about all things to do with your 5 senses...I watch more tv then Id like to....The music scene has passed me by and I feel totally out of the loop...I guess I have 4 yrs of watchin Noggin to blame for my lack of life..lolI love food...Dancing...Gardening...an easy read...the beach....working out...yoga/stretching....Traveling...Cooking...my family but there all over the place...I cherish the great friendships Ive made over the yrs..:))Ive been in Love a few times and I hope too again...I want my partner to be my best friend and lover...he needs to have some patients....I have little. I dont like internet dating but its hard to meet people otherwise...I find it so unatural.I dont like country music...lol Ive tried just cant get into it...Im more of a jeans and tee shirt with flip flops. I have a few tattoo. At some point Ill post more, I weigh ***and my hairs longer now...other then that I look the same.Update....Im super busy I retrieve most(want to meets and message) from my phone...I try to check my message on the weekends but I cant keep up sometimes. If you live 45 mins plus away I probably wont reply as its just too far. I've tried it twice and it always becomes and issue. If you've contacted me 10 times and I dont reply anymore it means Im not interested. If all your about is your car or toys and $$ we wont mesh. On the other spectrum if your cheap or have no job that needs to be what your concentrating right now not dating.I have to add from prior experience I tend to be atracted to the personality of other Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio's & Aries, call it silly I know but it seems to be what works. I tend to be attracted to men opposite coloring of me...blue/green eyes and brown hair work too...I guess. lol Hey if your bald. Id have no clue what hair color you have... he he heHappy Fishing.... Depends on our interests...Id prefer to take a little time to talk 1stBeach, Dinner, DrinksI dont mean to be rude if I dont IM....I dont really like IMing...or have the time for it with a little one...sorry... A few extra pounds is one thing but if your more then a few Id notice and wonder what else you would lie about...For starters Im looking for friends. I have met a few handful of men on this site and I feel bad when I like the person but Im not attracted to them.Not sure if its a guy/girl thing or just me. I cant tell by a 1x1 pic if theres gonna be an attractionl. In the past Ive met every b/f out and I may have even made the 1st move as Im not shy. Attraction is either there or its not...and though I may like the guy, I cant fake it or settle just to have a b/f. Its just who I am :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Watching Movies Canadian Greek Portuguese Sport Thriller Baseball Snowboarding Collecting
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  • Tiphanie from Garden City | Woman | 40 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    .. I am a GROWNUP so flashy cars and FAMOUS FRIENDS do not impress me so save it.. Huge egos are a complete turn OFF so spare yourself any rude comments I will gladly share with you if you send me a message and your profile image is of you without a shirt on or flexing in the mirror, yes you may be sexy and look good but this all falls back on morals values and self respect, did your parents *** of those in you?? There are actually people on here looking for someone to share life with not stroke your ego SO GO PUT SOME CLOTHES ON!! I know I may sound rude or harsh but any REAL MAN will understand where I'm coming from and respect a woman that sees thru all these immature games and fake persona's . If you are offended by anything I have said then that tells me you are not the one for me and obviously you fit in the MR WRONG category... so please continue to step to the side, thanks! One thing I will have to stand for is NO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS, THEY DO NOT WORK FOR ME UNLESS YOU HAVE A HELICOPTER YOU CAN JUMP IN TO COME SEE ME...OTHER THAN THAT IF YOU LIVE MORE THAN HOUR AND HALF FROM ME PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME! I have recently gotten out of the WORST relationship in my entire life and honestly not sure if I trust that this site can provide the type of person I am looking for.. I am looking for a good man with morals, values and most of ALL someone that knows how to tell the truth. so if you have made it this far without second guessing yourself then continue reading.. The harshness is starting to fade... :) I JUST HAVE ZERO TOLERANCE FOR BS! I have three wonderful children that are my world.. I strive to be the best mother to them as I can possibly be and set good examples for them. I feel i am a simple person as long as I'm not taken for granted or disrespected, we all deserve respect.. I am a firm believer in treating someone as you would want to be treated because we all know KARMA IS AN EVIL B*t*h and trust me she knows how to find people.lol I try live each day to the fullest and would enjoy someone to spend that time with. I enjoy nice things in life but honestly I'm a pretty simply and easy to get along with.. I am attracted to a hard working man that has the desire and motivation to get up and get at it! I want someone that has a dependable career, works hard and plays hard..I would like to find someone that has his priorities straight in life and knows how to treat a lady, knows how to appreciate a kind heart and loving soul .I want a man that wants to spend his time with me and move forward in a relationship if our feelings grow for one another.. I love to laugh and feel I have a good sense of humor.. I love to make someone smile.. Being friends is so important to me, sharing your life with someone requires you to be able to trust that your partner has your back and understands you at all times.. I know My guard is completely up due to my own lack of judgement however I'm sure the right man can find his way in.. I am very loyal and committed when I'm in a relationship,my word is my word.. I take trust and love seriously.. I want that person that I JUST CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT AND THE ONE THAT CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT ME.. WE ALL HAVE SOMEONE HERE ON THIS EARTH THAT IS MEANT FOR US TO BE WITH AND GROW OLD WITH WITHOUT HAVING TO SHARE OR PUT UP WITH UNNECESSARY DRAMA HOWEVER I REALIZE FINDING SOMEONE ON THE SAME PAGE AS YOU ARE CAN BE DIFFICULT AND MAY REQUIRE WEEDING THRU THE LOSERS AND FAKES... HOPEFULLY WE WILL ALL AT SOME POINT FIND THAT ONE AS LONG AS WE DON'T LET OUR HEARTS BECOME COLD.. SO ONCE AGAIN HERE I AM LOL :)FAVORITE QUOTE: If I had to choose between loving you and breathing....I would use my last breath to say I LOVE YOU! Im looking forward to making new friends or maybe even more...lets see where this adventure takes us.. ARE YOR READY?? FIRST DATES CAN BE AWKWARD I PREFER TO CHAT A BIT THEN EXCHANGE NUMBERS TO SEE IF WE ARE COMPATIBLE OVER THE PHONE FIRST.. THEN MAYBE MEET FOR A CASUAL DINNER..

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  • Denita from Garden City | Woman | 39 years old | Sagittarius
    Denita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    A kiss that gives me butterflies, the look from across the room that says how bad you desire me, passion and intensity most only think are found in movies; that's what I want.Hoping to find a man to enjoy whatever free time we can. My life is busy, but I miss having companionship. Not wanting a serious commitment, more a person to just naturally have something build with. Take things one step at a time, and if things progress great if not we can have friendship. I am a little on the thicker side, Yes with curves. Currently working on bettering myself physically and hope to very soon just have the rockin curves. I am fiercely loyal, out my all into everything, I am worth getting to know. Enjoy a wide variety of things, hoping to have some company.

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  • Ronald from Garden City | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
    Ronald

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like a man that can carry a conversation...a My first date would have to be a place where we could talk and get to know each other.

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