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Alexandra, 40
United States, Kansas, Garden City

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About Me

I am an energetic professional who works hard but knows how to have fun. I served in the United States Army, so I have lived in a number of states and I have traveled to many places. I love all genres of music . . . except country (sorry cowboys it's just not my thing). My favorite cuisine is Thai. My perfect day is one spent on the beach with the smell of coconut oil in the air and the sound of the surf in my ears. My perfect guy is tall, intelligent and loves the outdoors. He must be emotionally and financially stable. Romantic is good but seductive is better. He must have a quick wit and be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. I want someone who is open to trying new things. I know it's a lot to ask for . . . but you can't blame a girl for trying.I am interested in dating and seeing where it goes from there. If you are just looking for a hook-up, than don’t waste your time on me. If you are emotionally needy or eager to get married like ten years ago, I am probably not the one for you either. If you are interested in developing a mature relationship, then I am probably your type. My first date would start with a glass of wine and some conversation. I honestly believe that you will know within the first ten minutes of meeting someone if there is a potential for a relationship. I don't feel compelled to sit through a miserable dinner if the connection isn't there. Assuming the connection is there, it would proceed to a nice dinner and then perhaps some dancing or a movie. If the first date goes well, you will have to take the lead and come up with something creative to do on the second date . . . i.e. more creative than dinner and a movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English Greek Japanese Vietnamese Drama Martial Arts Romance
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