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Nigelia, 39
United States, Kansas, Garden City

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About Me

Full time single mom.. I don't spend a lot of time out at bars, nor do I ever seem to have luck with the guys I meet there. Honestly, I feel like whatever I've done in the past hasn't worked, so I may as well try something different. I'd like to find someone as energetic and enthusiastic about life as I am. Family and friends are extremely important to me, so he'd have to have similar ideals. I'd like to meet someone who can be funny, silly and genuinely caring. I need a guy with a sense of humor and a good mind. I am not looking for a rocket scientist, but you have to be intelligent enough to hold my interest. Not into dudes who are too uptight or judgmental. Looking for someone who is just as much as a sweetheart as I've been told I am.Additionally, anyone who is trying to spend time with me, must enjoy seeing live music! If you're the dude who makes fun of every band he sees, we're not going to get along. Also, guys who try hard to look "hot" in their self pics, the ones where you're making some sort of "sexehhh" face and showing off the guns, sorry, but I've already rolled my eyes and giggled a little. Meet for a drink, or coffee...something short and simple to see if there's any chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Caribbean Japanese Korean Action History Sport
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  • Alexandra from Garden City | Woman | 40 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am an energetic professional who works hard but knows how to have fun. I served in the United States Army, so I have lived in a number of states and I have traveled to many places. I love all genres of music . . . except country (sorry cowboys it's just not my thing). My favorite cuisine is Thai. My perfect day is one spent on the beach with the smell of coconut oil in the air and the sound of the surf in my ears. My perfect guy is tall, intelligent and loves the outdoors. He must be emotionally and financially stable. Romantic is good but seductive is better. He must have a quick wit and be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. I want someone who is open to trying new things. I know it's a lot to ask for . . . but you can't blame a girl for trying.I am interested in dating and seeing where it goes from there. If you are just looking for a hook-up, than don’t waste your time on me. If you are emotionally needy or eager to get married like ten years ago, I am probably not the one for you either. If you are interested in developing a mature relationship, then I am probably your type. My first date would start with a glass of wine and some conversation. I honestly believe that you will know within the first ten minutes of meeting someone if there is a potential for a relationship. I don't feel compelled to sit through a miserable dinner if the connection isn't there. Assuming the connection is there, it would proceed to a nice dinner and then perhaps some dancing or a movie. If the first date goes well, you will have to take the lead and come up with something creative to do on the second date . . . i.e. more creative than dinner and a movie.

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  • Leana from Garden City | Woman | 36 years old | Cancer
    Leana

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Ok first dating website I've ever been on so I guess this is where I tell you how great I am lol. I'm a single mom with 2 kids that mean everything to me. I'm not looking for an *** (my kids are teenagers) but they are part of the deal. I'm outgoing and like to have fun. I'm a very loyal and caring person. I will do anything for the people I care about. I like going out for a drink or to a concert or the movies. I love horror movies and Halloween is my favorite holiday. Im looking for someone that I can have fun with and see what happens from there. I want whoever I'm with to be my best friend and be there no matter what. I think when people are together they should have the others persons back. I'm not looking to play games. I'm too old for drama and head games. so if you would like to know more about me just ask...

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  • Elle from Garden City | Woman | 36 years old | Libra
    Elle

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm not looking for games nor am I looking for a "friends with benefits" relationship. I'm not going to describe what I want but rather what I need. I need a guy who has respect for women, funny, hard worker, has a steady job that they love, independent, emotionally secure, and doesn't get their feelings hurt too easily.I enjoy listening to live music (no certain type), going to LSU games, trying new restaurants, and the beach. I love my job and I'm very good at it. I love my son and I'm very good at being his mother. I am very independent and have my life together. I'm just looking for someone to share it with.I'd have to say what makes me unique is my personality. I'm not the typical high-maintenance and nagging kind of gal. I appreciate no drama and straight forward men. I'm always up for a coffee or a glass of wine.

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