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Nigelia, 39
United States, Kansas, Garden City

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About Me

Full time single mom.. I don't spend a lot of time out at bars, nor do I ever seem to have luck with the guys I meet there. Honestly, I feel like whatever I've done in the past hasn't worked, so I may as well try something different. I'd like to find someone as energetic and enthusiastic about life as I am. Family and friends are extremely important to me, so he'd have to have similar ideals. I'd like to meet someone who can be funny, silly and genuinely caring. I need a guy with a sense of humor and a good mind. I am not looking for a rocket scientist, but you have to be intelligent enough to hold my interest. Not into dudes who are too uptight or judgmental. Looking for someone who is just as much as a sweetheart as I've been told I am.Additionally, anyone who is trying to spend time with me, must enjoy seeing live music! If you're the dude who makes fun of every band he sees, we're not going to get along. Also, guys who try hard to look "hot" in their self pics, the ones where you're making some sort of "sexehhh" face and showing off the guns, sorry, but I've already rolled my eyes and giggled a little. Meet for a drink, or coffee...something short and simple to see if there's any chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Avril from Garden City | Woman | 40 years old | Aries
    Avril

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I have to say, I honestly thought dating at this age would be easier.......so wrong!!!I am an honest hard working woman looking to meet my soul mate. Not into playing games unless they come in a box!! In search of that person who will complete, and compliment my life as I hope to theirs. I am looking for the little things...texts to say "hi, how's your day?", that hug when they see you, holding hands while going for a walk, cuddling on the couch watching a movie, all the little things that mean so much. I would like to meet someone who is family oriented and who enjoys some of the same things I do, but who is also willing to try new things and share some of their interests with me.I have children, and currently still have one teenage daughter living at home who is a huge part of my life, and have no issues if you have kids. My life is totally drama free and hope yours is as well.If your interested in chatting and seeing where life might take us, stop by and say "hello" Live with no regrets....yesterday is gone and tomorrows opportunities are endless if you let them be :)If I don't respond to your message, please don't take offence. I know what I am looking for and just don't feel we would be compatible. I wish everyone happy fishing!!!! Let's put our heads together and see what we come up with :)

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  • Steven from Garden City | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
    Steven

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Just felt I need to throw this out there first... I'm not sending you nude pic and I don't want any either. If your idea of a date is getting together an you getting laid then you can stop reading here. Not looking for a hook up or FWB.......now about me.....I spend most of my time with my kids or at work... I'm open and honest I believe you like me for me or don't like me at all...Either way life goes on. I want to be upfront so there are no surprises. I'm very tall and if your into skinny girls move along. To me there has to be an attraction but its not all about looks more about Character. I have a good job that I worked my way from the bottom to the top. I do what I have to do to take care of me and my girls because they come first in my life. And I think I've been doing a pretty good job so far. I smoke... Sometimes have a drink or two socially... But I've out grown my partying days... I believe that a good relationship is based on trust and respect. And mostly about two people sharing life's experiences. It about getting back what you put into it. Free time I like to find new places to eat... Road trip with my girls.... Fishing... Like the water...moves... Shopping... Spending time with family.... I open to most things... Try (almost) anything once. If I like it just may become a habit.I like to go out... But also like to stay in.. Good movie or show on tv suits me just fine after working all day. If you want to know anything else just ask... Something simple just to see if we connect...

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  • Elouise from Garden City | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    What can I say about me? I am always smiling and try to make people laugh with my somewhat sarcastic dry sense of humor. I am down to earth, very easy going, compassionate, love life, and really just a country girl at heart. I can be comfortable in a ball gown as well as a pair of jeans. But probably most comfortable sitting around a bonfire eating roasted marshmallows off an old wire hanger. I love trying new things and would like to find someone that will pull me out of my comfort zone.I have two children that are my world. I am a mother first and foremost. Someone new in my life will need to be able to respect that and also have a love of children. It's not like I can take them back. LOL. They are here to stay. :***I am a woman that knows what she wants and knows what it takes to have a strong, healthy relationship. I want to find someone I can respect and receive respect from. I want to find someone that I can be a supporter and encourager to. Someone that I have chemistry, attraction, and a best friend all in one.All and alll, I have no expectations. Let's just go out, have fun, and see where it takes us! If you like what you see and read, then please by all means ***

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