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Vashti, 40

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About Me

Please say something other than just hello if you want to get to know me!! Be creative! I am a rock music lover (90's alternative is my favorite), I enjoy going to concerts and traveling to see my favorite bands. I enjoy spending evenings at the beach listening to music, spending time with my friends and family and cooking is my passion. I have one son who is 20 years old and lives on his own, he is hard-working and the light of my life, he takes after his mother :) easiest kid in the world and amazing, I think I raised an awesome contributing member of society!!I am looking for someone who is outgoing, fun, enjoys socializing, hanging out with friends, and generally can be themselves from the start, I do not like drama, arguments or stress, I live a stress free life! If you are looking for a hookup or nothing long term, then I am not the person for you!! Also if I see one more profile that says your perfect date is a glass of red wine I am going to laugh! Not all ladies like red wine, be yourself and not what you think we want you to be! Red wine personally makes me tired, only drink it if I have a really nice meal but it is not my go to drink or what screams romance :)Just a little FYI I am a visual person first, my ideal guy WILL have a great body, will have a bald head (shaved!!) or longer hair, will enjoy tattoos :) I am not shallow but I know what I want! Also just to let you know I WILL make you the most important person physically & mentally Meet for drinks and get to know someone

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Clara

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I\'m pretty open about my life, I have nothing to hide, I’ve been placed and done things. Not looking to rush into just any relationship. I would like to just hang out and get to know each other.

  • Gracelynn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I have traveled extensively both in America and foreign countries. I love the mountains, camping, fishing, and beach weekends. I love to cook, play poker, watch football and I love to dance. My children are teenagers and split their time with their father and I,(we have a very good relationship, no drama) I have an awesome group of friends, both male and female. I take care of myself and am fairly self sufficient. I would love to learn a second language , so, dating someone bilingual would be a plus but not a must.I am not one who chases men, My friend convinced me to try online dating.......not sure what I think about it ....yet.I own a ***duplex, which as you can imagine keeps me quite busy. I have learned a lot about home improvement, mostly by trial and error...LOLI love home improvement projects, and am not afraid to tackle them on my own, but a helping hand is always welcome.I am not a lady who buys into designer clothes, ( I leave that to my teenage daughters LOL) but manage to put myself together without spending a fortune.I am not a very needy person, and enjoy my occasional time alone, I self entertain very well, LOLI don't need to be showered with constant attention, but enjoy occasional public displays of affection. I am a fan of lunch for a first date. Its casual. The more romantic dates can wait till later ;)

  • Tiphanie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    .. I am a GROWNUP so flashy cars and FAMOUS FRIENDS do not impress me so save it.. Huge egos are a complete turn OFF so spare yourself any rude comments I will gladly share with you if you send me a message and your profile image is of you without a shirt on or flexing in the mirror, yes you may be sexy and look good but this all falls back on morals values and self respect, did your parents *** of those in you?? There are actually people on here looking for someone to share life with not stroke your ego SO GO PUT SOME CLOTHES ON!! I know I may sound rude or harsh but any REAL MAN will understand where I'm coming from and respect a woman that sees thru all these immature games and fake persona's . If you are offended by anything I have said then that tells me you are not the one for me and obviously you fit in the MR WRONG category... so please continue to step to the side, thanks! One thing I will have to stand for is NO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS, THEY DO NOT WORK FOR ME UNLESS YOU HAVE A HELICOPTER YOU CAN JUMP IN TO COME SEE ME...OTHER THAN THAT IF YOU LIVE MORE THAN HOUR AND HALF FROM ME PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME! I have recently gotten out of the WORST relationship in my entire life and honestly not sure if I trust that this site can provide the type of person I am looking for.. I am looking for a good man with morals, values and most of ALL someone that knows how to tell the truth. so if you have made it this far without second guessing yourself then continue reading.. The harshness is starting to fade... :) I JUST HAVE ZERO TOLERANCE FOR BS! I have three wonderful children that are my world.. I strive to be the best mother to them as I can possibly be and set good examples for them. I feel i am a simple person as long as I'm not taken for granted or disrespected, we all deserve respect.. I am a firm believer in treating someone as you would want to be treated because we all know KARMA IS AN EVIL B*t*h and trust me she knows how to find people.lol I try live each day to the fullest and would enjoy someone to spend that time with. I enjoy nice things in life but honestly I'm a pretty simply and easy to get along with.. I am attracted to a hard working man that has the desire and motivation to get up and get at it! I want someone that has a dependable career, works hard and plays hard..I would like to find someone that has his priorities straight in life and knows how to treat a lady, knows how to appreciate a kind heart and loving soul .I want a man that wants to spend his time with me and move forward in a relationship if our feelings grow for one another.. I love to laugh and feel I have a good sense of humor.. I love to make someone smile.. Being friends is so important to me, sharing your life with someone requires you to be able to trust that your partner has your back and understands you at all times.. I know My guard is completely up due to my own lack of judgement however I'm sure the right man can find his way in.. I am very loyal and committed when I'm in a relationship,my word is my word.. I take trust and love seriously.. I want that person that I JUST CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT AND THE ONE THAT CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT ME.. WE ALL HAVE SOMEONE HERE ON THIS EARTH THAT IS MEANT FOR US TO BE WITH AND GROW OLD WITH WITHOUT HAVING TO SHARE OR PUT UP WITH UNNECESSARY DRAMA HOWEVER I REALIZE FINDING SOMEONE ON THE SAME PAGE AS YOU ARE CAN BE DIFFICULT AND MAY REQUIRE WEEDING THRU THE LOSERS AND FAKES... HOPEFULLY WE WILL ALL AT SOME POINT FIND THAT ONE AS LONG AS WE DON'T LET OUR HEARTS BECOME COLD.. SO ONCE AGAIN HERE I AM LOL :)FAVORITE QUOTE: If I had to choose between loving you and breathing....I would use my last breath to say I LOVE YOU! Im looking forward to making new friends or maybe even more...lets see where this adventure takes us.. ARE YOR READY?? FIRST DATES CAN BE AWKWARD I PREFER TO CHAT A BIT THEN EXCHANGE NUMBERS TO SEE IF WE ARE COMPATIBLE OVER THE PHONE FIRST.. THEN MAYBE MEET FOR A CASUAL DINNER..

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