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Tamsen, 39

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About Me

I'm 39 years old and at this point in my life I"m looking to date and possibly see it lead into a long term relationship. Keyword being possibly. I'm open to see what happens and I don't want to limit myself by saying I am only here for dating or only here for a relationship. You can't predict who you will or will not connect with and what happens. I try not to have too many "high" expectations and I try to keep my options open. I used to be alot more rigid when it came to who I would date, now I just go with the flow and see where life takes me I think for a first date for someone who you met online should be kept short such as a meetup for coffee. This way here, if one or both of you decide that the other person is just not for them, you can bow out gracefully and quickly without the agony of sitting through a dinner.......... however, on a second date... I would love the man to plan a complete date. I"m pretty easy when it comes to that. Being picked up at the door and greeted with a single flower, dinner and then maybe a walk on the waterfront (weather dependant) is a pretty nice date. Woo me.......Third, fourth, etc..... well that all depends on our common interests. I also like surprises... so being told what to wear and when to be ready without the details sounds great too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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