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Tamsen, 39

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About Me

I'm 39 years old and at this point in my life I"m looking to date and possibly see it lead into a long term relationship. Keyword being possibly. I'm open to see what happens and I don't want to limit myself by saying I am only here for dating or only here for a relationship. You can't predict who you will or will not connect with and what happens. I try not to have too many "high" expectations and I try to keep my options open. I used to be alot more rigid when it came to who I would date, now I just go with the flow and see where life takes me I think for a first date for someone who you met online should be kept short such as a meetup for coffee. This way here, if one or both of you decide that the other person is just not for them, you can bow out gracefully and quickly without the agony of sitting through a dinner.......... however, on a second date... I would love the man to plan a complete date. I"m pretty easy when it comes to that. Being picked up at the door and greeted with a single flower, dinner and then maybe a walk on the waterfront (weather dependant) is a pretty nice date. Woo me.......Third, fourth, etc..... well that all depends on our common interests. I also like surprises... so being told what to wear and when to be ready without the details sounds great too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Steven

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ok. I'm tired of what everyone writes... I want someone honest, loyal, drama-free... blah, blah, blah! WELL NO KIDDING. Who is going to say I want someone who lies, cheats and has drama??? ha ha You want honesty? Here you go!!!!!..Ok, now reality ;***You know how to compromise and are your own person. I don't want to fulfill any void you have. I want to add to your life, but not BE your entire life.And what just will not be acceptable, sorry, I have standards:1) You are the same age as my father or closer to my 14 year old's age. You like older women? That's nice, I like men my age. You can keep up with me and want to date someone 20 years younger? Again, that's nice, I don't date my father's friends. 2) You are in between jobs or live with your mom... Sorry! I have a good job and support myself and 2 girls - not going to be supporting you as well.3) You still play "games" in this dating world, are too immature to show any feelings or feel the need to show off and brag about yourself - yuck, yuck and4) You are clingy or bossy. I am not clingy and can not stand a "needy" man nor can I stand someone who thinks they are my father. *Some people are saying my profile is superficial. That tells me they are insecure in the first place because the men who message me that they like my profile are more attractive to me off the bat anyway. If you don't like my profile, why do you message me? Anyway, back to being superficial... So do you guys like it when you meet a girl and she has nothing going for herself and needs you to step in and take care of her? Ok, well I don't like that either especially in a man. ESPECIALLY IN A MAN. If you don't follow, I respect that. I'm not superficial. I just want to be equally yolked. You should know something about that as well if you message me.* And just because this needs to be longer...someone pointed out I didn't take the time to say anything about myself, but just talked about what I do or do not want. Point taken! So... I have 2 beautiful daughters that are the center of my universe. My oldest daughter plays competitive volleyball so I spend countless weekends and evenings in gyms being her biggest fan. I work very hard and am passionate about my career. I've been known to bring work home with me. I'm always trying to balance the career woman/mom and homemaker roles. I love both and never feel like I have quite enough time for either. I'm very into self care and love dressing up and looking pretty. Yes, a total girly girl. However, I also love throwing on sweats and putting my hair in a ponytail and calling it a day. I'm not scared of getting dirty and love outdoor activities. (well most of them) The summer ones, camping, hiking, boating, etc. I can cook! I love to work out, but haven't had the as much time for it lately as I would like. I love God and will always put Him first in my life. I spent time after my divorce healing and not immediately jumping into the dating world. I took a year off to self reflect and "deal with it". I respect that everyone has a past, but I don't want to pay for what someone else has done to you. It's always best to take time off and not jump from relationship to relationship. Baggage isn't cute. I won't pursue a man and I expect him to pursue me. Guess I'm a bit old fashion when it comes to that. I am the boss at work so at home I appreciate the door being opened, the trash being taken out, etc. I like to feel like I'm with someone who can lead. I have no tolerance for judgemental people. How you treat others greatly affects how I feel about you. It's been a long time since I met someone I really liked. Feelings do not develop easily for me. Once they do though, I give my all to my relationship. People always say to me "I can't believe you are single" - that must be a good sign? - but I am single - so here I am... I'm too old for the bar scene. Did that in my 20's. I really want to find my best friend that is also my lover. As corny as it sounds, I think it's what everyone is searching for. And I will be honest up front because it seems to be a deal breaker. I do not want to have any more children. I would love and accept someone else's kids as my own if I found the right person, but I am done manufacturing them. So unfortunately, for the guys who are looking for a girl to marry and have children with I have to let you pass... If you are still reading this, wow, you must be bored. I phase out after a paragraph or two on anyone's profile. However, I try to appease the crowd so there's a little bit about myself. :-) Coffee? Something pretty laid back. You never know if you have chemistry until you actually meet in person. There is nothing worse than being stuck on a very long date if you're not clicking. So coffee seems to be the best way to decide if there will be a 2nd date.

  • Sydnie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Honesty, lets take a moment and talk about this. Not the idea of being honest but the actual act itself. To be honest one needs to not only act honest towards other but to be honest with themselves. This is what usually screws everything up and then a sh*tstorm is created and everything becomes a big pile of poop. So, if you can't be honest with you, don't try to convince me you'd be that way with anyone else. Long story short, get it together and be real. I'm a mother of two boys, I've been married for many years and now I'm not. I'm not looking to get re-married but I'm not exactly throwing the idea out. I just would like to find someone who wants to make a connection with me and build on it to see where it might go. Im old school in the sense that I believe a true man courts his lady and monogamy isn't a type of wood. I also believe that attentiveness is the key to any great relationship. I'm a tall girl, I tend to wear flip flops a lot because I don't like being taller than who I'm with. So if you're taller than me, awesome sauce. I also don't really have a type that I like other then attractive. I don't care about body shape or size. I've never judged anyone based on that and I've dated men of every size. To me, it's all good. Tho I tend to be attracted to Caucasian men only. Sorry, I can't help that. I'm a nice girl who wears her heart on her sleeve so please don't take advantage of that. Many have and yet it doesn't get any easier. What I'm saying is don't break my heart, use me, or do me wrong. I've had enough to last a lifetime. Something chill, no pressure and casual.

  • Dix

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Kind hearted, honest and loyal. Looking to find someone with the same qualities. I have some tattoo's and my nose is pierced. What makes me tick? Well that's easy... First and foremost my children. Then I would have to say racing cars. It's something I do as a hobby....and more. So if I sound like someone your interested in. Hit me up let's see what happens......:) Meet up for coffee or drinks and get to know each other.

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