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Steven, 37
United States, Colorado, Woodland Park

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Ok. I'm tired of what everyone writes... I want someone honest, loyal, drama-free... blah, blah, blah! WELL NO KIDDING. Who is going to say I want someone who lies, cheats and has drama??? ha ha You want honesty? Here you go!!!!!..Ok, now reality ;***You know how to compromise and are your own person. I don't want to fulfill any void you have. I want to add to your life, but not BE your entire life.And what just will not be acceptable, sorry, I have standards:1) You are the same age as my father or closer to my 14 year old's age. You like older women? That's nice, I like men my age. You can keep up with me and want to date someone 20 years younger? Again, that's nice, I don't date my father's friends. 2) You are in between jobs or live with your mom... Sorry! I have a good job and support myself and 2 girls - not going to be supporting you as well.3) You still play "games" in this dating world, are too immature to show any feelings or feel the need to show off and brag about yourself - yuck, yuck and4) You are clingy or bossy. I am not clingy and can not stand a "needy" man nor can I stand someone who thinks they are my father. *Some people are saying my profile is superficial. That tells me they are insecure in the first place because the men who message me that they like my profile are more attractive to me off the bat anyway. If you don't like my profile, why do you message me? Anyway, back to being superficial... So do you guys like it when you meet a girl and she has nothing going for herself and needs you to step in and take care of her? Ok, well I don't like that either especially in a man. ESPECIALLY IN A MAN. If you don't follow, I respect that. I'm not superficial. I just want to be equally yolked. You should know something about that as well if you message me.* And just because this needs to be longer...someone pointed out I didn't take the time to say anything about myself, but just talked about what I do or do not want. Point taken! So... I have 2 beautiful daughters that are the center of my universe. My oldest daughter plays competitive volleyball so I spend countless weekends and evenings in gyms being her biggest fan. I work very hard and am passionate about my career. I've been known to bring work home with me. I'm always trying to balance the career woman/mom and homemaker roles. I love both and never feel like I have quite enough time for either. I'm very into self care and love dressing up and looking pretty. Yes, a total girly girl. However, I also love throwing on sweats and putting my hair in a ponytail and calling it a day. I'm not scared of getting dirty and love outdoor activities. (well most of them) The summer ones, camping, hiking, boating, etc. I can cook! I love to work out, but haven't had the as much time for it lately as I would like. I love God and will always put Him first in my life. I spent time after my divorce healing and not immediately jumping into the dating world. I took a year off to self reflect and "deal with it". I respect that everyone has a past, but I don't want to pay for what someone else has done to you. It's always best to take time off and not jump from relationship to relationship. Baggage isn't cute. I won't pursue a man and I expect him to pursue me. Guess I'm a bit old fashion when it comes to that. I am the boss at work so at home I appreciate the door being opened, the trash being taken out, etc. I like to feel like I'm with someone who can lead. I have no tolerance for judgemental people. How you treat others greatly affects how I feel about you. It's been a long time since I met someone I really liked. Feelings do not develop easily for me. Once they do though, I give my all to my relationship. People always say to me "I can't believe you are single" - that must be a good sign? - but I am single - so here I am... I'm too old for the bar scene. Did that in my 20's. I really want to find my best friend that is also my lover. As corny as it sounds, I think it's what everyone is searching for. And I will be honest up front because it seems to be a deal breaker. I do not want to have any more children. I would love and accept someone else's kids as my own if I found the right person, but I am done manufacturing them. So unfortunately, for the guys who are looking for a girl to marry and have children with I have to let you pass... If you are still reading this, wow, you must be bored. I phase out after a paragraph or two on anyone's profile. However, I try to appease the crowd so there's a little bit about myself. :-) Coffee? Something pretty laid back. You never know if you have chemistry until you actually meet in person. There is nothing worse than being stuck on a very long date if you're not clicking. So coffee seems to be the best way to decide if there will be a 2nd date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi, I can't believe I'm back on here and only after 6months away...I met someone on here and thought it was serious, and going to be forever, I thought very wrong...I thought I'd give this one last effort to find the person I'm destine to spend my life with, before I just get too old and wrinkly lol...I'm just going to jump in with what i'm about and hopefully your still here after the first sentence lol....First I'd like to start by saying I've lost 70lbs this year, yay me! I'm an outgoing and very loving person who has a lot to give life and to the right person...My family and friends are very important to me, they've been there through it all...I'm a huge animal lover so the more the merrier (No animal hoarders plz lol)..I love to try new things but am terrified of heights and can't do anything that spins around lol, Other than that, bring it on! I love to laugh and think I have a pretty decent sense of humor...I'm attracted to someone who takes care of himself hygienically and has all his teeth lol If you dress good, that's a plus..IF YOU HAVE YOUNG CHILDREN AT HOME I'M SORRY I'M NOT INTERESTED..The reason I say this is bc there seems to be no real time to date and get to know each other when you have lil kiddos at home...I'm someone who wants that time with someone I'm dating and trying to move forward with in life...I'd love to meet someone with an awesome sense of humor, good outlook on life, outgoing, hard worker, loving, honest and above all LOYAL! I'm intense, complex and jealous at times depending on situations...Hey, I have to speak of the ugly too, we all have it,right?If your still reading your a brave man lol....I'm not on here looking to be played or for casual anything, I'm looking for someone who wants to put in the work and have a lasting relationship...If any of this sounds of interest to you hit me up... I'd love to hear from you.. :) Ciao xx Maybe a long drive somewhere bc that gets people talking...Dinner after the drive or coffee...Movies are the worst for first dates, you siting in the dark for 2hours trying to find the cup holder and spilling it on the person you know nothing about bc you can't talk, ya you don't want that problem lol...The biggest issue I have with first dates or dating in general though, DON'T CHECK OUT OTHER WOMEN! If your with me, your with me! I would never do that to the person I'm on a date with, even if your not interested after meeting, make the best of the date and leave the person with at least a good impression of yourself...

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  • Skylar from Woodland Park | Woman | 37 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    ...You're here for mine ;).lol grab a chair,have a seat and prepare to be tormented lol..just kidding.I've been described as down to earth(my head doesn't rotate ***degrees),cool,calm and collected.I'm level head with realistic expectations.Love to watch movies,listen to music,and learn what makes people tick.I've been known to say what's on my mind,have debates over a wide range of topics and generally torment my friends.I have a mischievious,playful side as well as a deep,intelligent,thoughtful side.Oh..and my education is higher than high school,I have a cna degree,certificates in childcare,and I'm specially trained to deal with behavioral children,special needs children,and high risk children..in other words..I'm specially educated to handle fubar situations when sh*thits the fan lol.If you wanna get to know more about me..shoot me an *** of you that think I'm beautiful,sexy,gorgeous ect thank you for the compliment;)For those of you requesting a hookup,fwb,fling,or a F***buddy I'm just gonna have to break your little hearts and respectfully decline your offer lolThis also means I WILL NOT DATE A MARRIED MAN OR A MAN WHO CLAIMS HE IS SEPERATED OR IS GETTING A DIVORCEFor myself I am worth more than what those situations have to offer me* For those that think women are flakes and fakes..Its already common sense to know that if you are a parent,you love your child/children..don't need to put it in your profile.Don't need to worry about what people think..they don't do it very often.The chicken did come before the eggThe world has not ended..its just evolvingHave a sense of humor..you'll live longer.Unfortantly I am unable to do the chat app that is on POFThings I have done for a laugh1)Went to a bbq and yelled"I smell carcass!"2)Yelled bear!while walking on trail with kids3)Threatened to toss a kid in the port a potty at the park4) *** pic of neighbor wearing a white facial mask outside5)Told a stranger that my friend thinks they're gorgeous6)Threatened daughter that I would dress up as a hillbilly at her schoolDon't worry,I'm not nuts..just slightly screwy lol ;)Things I want to learnHow to shoot a gun(hopefully without causing bodily injury from the kickback lol)How to change a tire(that way,I won't have to harass someone else to do it)How to repel(that looks like a lot of fun)How to hypmotize someone(I can cause so much trouble with this ;)Oh and I just recently became a nonsmoker(quit smoking as of September 17th,***Those of you interested in becoming a nonsmoker...pick up the book "the easy way to stop smoking"..its worth it and makes a lot of sense. doesnt matter what we do as long as we get along and enjoy ourselves.Its not ur surroundings that matter,its the people

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  • Maeva from Woodland Park | Woman | 39 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a mom first and love that part of my life. I have a busy little 11 year old that is full of energy.I am also going to start attending school in April and work as well. I am not looking for someone to take care of me but to compliment me and share in my life. I do well for myself and dont need any help in that end. I love to laugh and hang out with family and friends. I like anything outdoors and like to go to the gym. I love Zumba, yoga and working out with weights. I love to hike in the local park, skate and of course sledding. I am looking for a friend to get to know and hope there is a spark. I think if you start as friends the rest will come. ( in person because you really dont know someone until you spend time with them) If this interests you then drop me a message :)ps If I am old enough to be your mother there is no future and I am NOT looking for an intimate encounter so please dont message me for that.Thank you for reading my profile and happy fishing :)M Maybe go for a little hike or something to have the first meet and see if there is interest in a second meeting.

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