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About Me

Hi, I can't believe I'm back on here and only after 6months away...I met someone on here and thought it was serious, and going to be forever, I thought very wrong...I thought I'd give this one last effort to find the person I'm destine to spend my life with, before I just get too old and wrinkly lol...I'm just going to jump in with what i'm about and hopefully your still here after the first sentence lol....First I'd like to start by saying I've lost 70lbs this year, yay me! I'm an outgoing and very loving person who has a lot to give life and to the right person...My family and friends are very important to me, they've been there through it all...I'm a huge animal lover so the more the merrier (No animal hoarders plz lol)..I love to try new things but am terrified of heights and can't do anything that spins around lol, Other than that, bring it on! I love to laugh and think I have a pretty decent sense of humor...I'm attracted to someone who takes care of himself hygienically and has all his teeth lol If you dress good, that's a plus..IF YOU HAVE YOUNG CHILDREN AT HOME I'M SORRY I'M NOT INTERESTED..The reason I say this is bc there seems to be no real time to date and get to know each other when you have lil kiddos at home...I'm someone who wants that time with someone I'm dating and trying to move forward with in life...I'd love to meet someone with an awesome sense of humor, good outlook on life, outgoing, hard worker, loving, honest and above all LOYAL! I'm intense, complex and jealous at times depending on situations...Hey, I have to speak of the ugly too, we all have it,right?If your still reading your a brave man lol....I'm not on here looking to be played or for casual anything, I'm looking for someone who wants to put in the work and have a lasting relationship...If any of this sounds of interest to you hit me up... I'd love to hear from you.. :) Ciao xx Maybe a long drive somewhere bc that gets people talking...Dinner after the drive or coffee...Movies are the worst for first dates, you siting in the dark for 2hours trying to find the cup holder and spilling it on the person you know nothing about bc you can't talk, ya you don't want that problem lol...The biggest issue I have with first dates or dating in general though, DON'T CHECK OUT OTHER WOMEN! If your with me, your with me! I would never do that to the person I'm on a date with, even if your not interested after meeting, make the best of the date and leave the person with at least a good impression of yourself...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Serenity

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    It is a job I loved and managed to get my Masters (aka Captain's license) while doing it. I currently work in customer service and am working towards my Masters degree, although I just started so it's a long way off. I have been on this site before due to a lost bet, but figured with working full time and now going to school full time it doesn't leave a lot of time to go out and meet people. I am not in the bar/club seen anymore, well I was never into the "club" seen. I have always been a big fan of dive bars though, just haven't been to one in quite a while.I am a big fan of being outdoors, when time permits, I love camping, hiking and fishing. Right now my down time consists of watching NHL and NFL, I buy Sunday Ticket and Center Ice every year so I can watch my Bears and Blackhawks play, well and any game that is on! Basically, I am a beer drinking, sports watching, camping, hiking, fishing kinda girl. If you would like to know more, just drop me a line!

  • Cressida

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hiya! I'm sassy, open minded, diverse, boisterous, grounded and confident.....I make up words and rhyme nonsensically, laugh spontaneously, I have been known to throw caution to the wind at times and I can get physically gesticular when I get overly excited (not like seizures or anything, just alot of hand movements and maybe a bit of jumping up and down), I jump in rain puddles and run through lonely sprinklers, bounce up and down on hotel room beds, and I love corny laffy taffy and “play on words” type jokes.The extent of drama that I let into my life consists of getting tickets to the next show I wanna go to before its sold out…..And the games I enjoy playing usually don’t include the words manipulation, needy, or passive aggressive in the rule book……I’ve finally learned not to sweat the small stuff and I am focusing more on my self wellness both physically and mentally and finding balance *******om*********I can go from tree climbing tomboy to sexy black dress in a day I’ etc. etc. oh and i'm kinda adventurous when it comes to food so if you're more of a "Apprehensive Al" or a "Timid Tom" it's probably not in the cards for us.....Music, art, diversity, exploration, friends and family are a few passions of mine (I have a lot)…..I can go on for days talking about music...on average I go to shows about once a month so sharing this connection is important to me…..I do love to banter and be satiricalI’m finding that I have a long list of things I want to accomplish –…now, not physically snorkeling around the world, I mean just going to every continent, island, aquarium, and fish tank to snorkel……Ideally I want to find someone to share those experiences with along with their crazy ambitions as well……Its hard to put ALL of me in a short summary so, be confident and drop me a line - lets keep it light and fun and go from there.

  • Magali

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Bike one of the greenways? Pub crawl in a dozen different neighborhoods across the 5 quadrants (which I maintain should be quintrants. It could be a Thing!)? Or maybe a low key hang-out at a neighborhood pub and catch a 2nd run movie?All these are in my definition of fun, along with reading, cooking, socializing and quiet days. I also love to travel and spent a year abroad in ***, getting my master's degree and expanding my horizons. I have friends around the world, and am always up for a good ramble. Show the relatively new-to-town (less than a year!) and new-to-this-coast more cool, fun things about the area - I'm sure I've barely scratched the surface, and I'm great company for an hour or an afternoon. Looking forward to hearing from you!

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