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Susy, 38

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About Me

I am interested in conversing with people who are honest and open. I am a bit of a wild child and an open book, you can ask me ANYTHING and I will do the same:) Everyone is not meant to be together but the best way to to finding the one that is right for for you is to be truthful to the ones you meet along the way. There is no fun in being lead on or in leading someone on. If the interest is not there, you can't force it, but you can have the decency and respect to let the other person know. Deal?Things I like? Waking up to the RAIN and knowing you get to cuddle in bed. Getting a SHOWER after a sweaty workout or a day at the beach. Getting DRESSED UP for an event. My JOB. HELPING people. Vacations - ANYWHERE. Camping. Cottage parties. Going OUT for dinner. The movies. Talking. Meeting NEW people. Making people LAUGH. My family and friends. Children. Documentaries. Nature shows. I LOVE costume parties and being creative. This year I have been involved in a SOA party, a Hangover party and the creation of a 70's themed float for a parade... CLASSIC photo's:) I am not shy, well hardly ever. I am a good listener and love a good chat on the phone or in person. I am very passionate about happiness and try to make people smile wherever I go. Rarely does someone enter my life and not stick around in some capacity... unless you're a total AS*! LOL!! Like I said, we are all not meant to be together but there is a variety of relationships that people can have.I have this awesome ability to give pristine pedicures and manicures... it's saves my friends TONS of money!! I have slight OCD so maybe it's the perfectionist in me:) I don't drink coffee... I run on a natural high with a zest for life and a constant energy. I am usually up for most anything!I REALLY REALLY love my job. It sure helps me sleep at night:) I have lots of patience for the right reasons, but if you are playing games with me my patience will wear thin. I am not afraid to tell people how I feel, good and bad. If I feel that you are disrespecting me or my time, you will know. I am a lot of fun to be around. People feel very comfortable and at ease around me and I often end up being that stranger that people love opening up to.;explains" a lot about me! I listen to music ALL the time. I love to SING, even though I am acutely aware that it will NEVER make me famous. However, I would do AMAZING on "Don't Forget the Lyrics."I enjoy taking in the sights and sounds of whatever is going on in the city.While YOU do not need to be formally educated you MUST be able to carry on an intellectual conversation. You should shower regularly and where clean clothes when going on a date/meeting. You should have photo's and they should be recent. If you are serious about being on here and you plan to meet people there is no point in hiding anything. If you... killed animals as a child, beat on women to prove your strength, have no human emotion, are not affectionate, don't follow through, lie, have a wife/partner/significant other/, don't have a picture, or never plan to meet please understand I am NOT the girl for you:)I am not here looking for an *** mate. I know things take time. There is to much pressure when everyone is looking for someone to fit into there perfectly described box. Who knows where a meeting will lead or how we can help each other in this life:) Beers at a pub, a walk on the waterfront, sushi... depends on the time of the day and what you like to do:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Steven

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ok. I'm tired of what everyone writes... I want someone honest, loyal, drama-free... blah, blah, blah! WELL NO KIDDING. Who is going to say I want someone who lies, cheats and has drama??? ha ha You want honesty? Here you go!!!!!..Ok, now reality ;***You know how to compromise and are your own person. I don't want to fulfill any void you have. I want to add to your life, but not BE your entire life.And what just will not be acceptable, sorry, I have standards:1) You are the same age as my father or closer to my 14 year old's age. You like older women? That's nice, I like men my age. You can keep up with me and want to date someone 20 years younger? Again, that's nice, I don't date my father's friends. 2) You are in between jobs or live with your mom... Sorry! I have a good job and support myself and 2 girls - not going to be supporting you as well.3) You still play "games" in this dating world, are too immature to show any feelings or feel the need to show off and brag about yourself - yuck, yuck and4) You are clingy or bossy. I am not clingy and can not stand a "needy" man nor can I stand someone who thinks they are my father. *Some people are saying my profile is superficial. That tells me they are insecure in the first place because the men who message me that they like my profile are more attractive to me off the bat anyway. If you don't like my profile, why do you message me? Anyway, back to being superficial... So do you guys like it when you meet a girl and she has nothing going for herself and needs you to step in and take care of her? Ok, well I don't like that either especially in a man. ESPECIALLY IN A MAN. If you don't follow, I respect that. I'm not superficial. I just want to be equally yolked. You should know something about that as well if you message me.* And just because this needs to be longer...someone pointed out I didn't take the time to say anything about myself, but just talked about what I do or do not want. Point taken! So... I have 2 beautiful daughters that are the center of my universe. My oldest daughter plays competitive volleyball so I spend countless weekends and evenings in gyms being her biggest fan. I work very hard and am passionate about my career. I've been known to bring work home with me. I'm always trying to balance the career woman/mom and homemaker roles. I love both and never feel like I have quite enough time for either. I'm very into self care and love dressing up and looking pretty. Yes, a total girly girl. However, I also love throwing on sweats and putting my hair in a ponytail and calling it a day. I'm not scared of getting dirty and love outdoor activities. (well most of them) The summer ones, camping, hiking, boating, etc. I can cook! I love to work out, but haven't had the as much time for it lately as I would like. I love God and will always put Him first in my life. I spent time after my divorce healing and not immediately jumping into the dating world. I took a year off to self reflect and "deal with it". I respect that everyone has a past, but I don't want to pay for what someone else has done to you. It's always best to take time off and not jump from relationship to relationship. Baggage isn't cute. I won't pursue a man and I expect him to pursue me. Guess I'm a bit old fashion when it comes to that. I am the boss at work so at home I appreciate the door being opened, the trash being taken out, etc. I like to feel like I'm with someone who can lead. I have no tolerance for judgemental people. How you treat others greatly affects how I feel about you. It's been a long time since I met someone I really liked. Feelings do not develop easily for me. Once they do though, I give my all to my relationship. People always say to me "I can't believe you are single" - that must be a good sign? - but I am single - so here I am... I'm too old for the bar scene. Did that in my 20's. I really want to find my best friend that is also my lover. As corny as it sounds, I think it's what everyone is searching for. And I will be honest up front because it seems to be a deal breaker. I do not want to have any more children. I would love and accept someone else's kids as my own if I found the right person, but I am done manufacturing them. So unfortunately, for the guys who are looking for a girl to marry and have children with I have to let you pass... If you are still reading this, wow, you must be bored. I phase out after a paragraph or two on anyone's profile. However, I try to appease the crowd so there's a little bit about myself. :-) Coffee? Something pretty laid back. You never know if you have chemistry until you actually meet in person. There is nothing worse than being stuck on a very long date if you're not clicking. So coffee seems to be the best way to decide if there will be a 2nd date.

  • Nevada

    Online

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    ..still learning my way around. I am loving the city so far and looking forward to learning more about it. I am looking to meet someone that can start as friends and see where it goes...no need to rush into anything. I enjoy reading, watching football on sundays, board games and cards are a must. Don't know what else to say here...prefer to talk in person then on a computer. picnic in a park, a chance to talk and be outside.

  • Verline

    Online

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am an educated women who is looking for good conversation and a companion. I enjoy music, dancing, outdoors, basketball and good company. I am not looking for a hand out, one night stand or a continuous booty call. I have my own career, money and home which I have worked hard for. I love sex as much as the next person maybe more but I dont have time to put a ton of energy into something that is strictly focused on what happens in the bedroom. If youve made it this far then you clearly know I have an opinion and I am not afraid to express how I feel or my likes and dislikes. If you have trouble with a forward women then I am probably not the one for year.Thanks for stopping by. Happy Hunting!

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