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SkibecOnline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-39
Hi! My name is Skibec. I am never married atheist caucasian woman without kids from Vail, Colorado, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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AllanaOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I hope this moment sees you well, Welcome! This is I…on a page. I will try to convey with words some of my essence. It cannot compare to coming face to face and feeling, yet it can make a meeting palpable. No smoke or mirrors here to attract you, I seek something real and deep and that is done as I am and not by misrepresentation. I hope you, dear reader, are of the same mind. Now drink in my words and allow them to color your mind. English is my second language, first cuss word (unbeknown to me) I learned was motherfu….I gleefully told my new found word to my stepfather. That didn’t go over well. Imagine me now at the age of 10 in my older brother’s bedroom where several of us have convened to tell jokes. My turn, oh yes, I think I have a good one; the mere image of it in my head has me snickering before I utter a single word. In the deepest voice I can muster, I say “A big fat man walking down the street” I immediately lose it and laugh so hard that I can no longer speak, everyone is looking at me and can’t help themselves from laughing. Repeatedly I say the phrase, each time laughing harder than before. For once, I got more laughs with the lamest joke EVER in the history of jokes, merely from my own reaction, than my brother. Not much has changed since I was ten; I still sometimes hear a certain phrase or picture in my head and bust out laughing uncontrollably. Laughing is surely one of life’s greatest pleasures. I have loved unconditionally, no matter how much it hurt and tore I loved regardless. This is not description of bitterness, but rather of my capability of loyalty and loving beyond measure. I believe in love. I have experienced betrayal of the worst kinds, I’ve endured and come out the other side with no plots of revenge and a heart free of hate. Some have told me I am too nice, but it is what I value most in myself. My character is dear to me in only the way I see clear not what anyone thinks it should be. . My eulogy will rival that of Gandhi’s…kidding. My outside probably doesn’t measure to what is ideally attractive in society’s eyes, but hell it’s just a vessel to hold my awesomeness in ;0) I have one last story to tell you reader before you go. After I had my first child and moved ten hours from everyone and everything I knew, something in me changed that I did not immediately recognize as something that would ultimately make my world small. The anxiety beast with panic attacks that turned into agoraphobia. What is this you wonder, my best explanation I can give you is when I am not on medication fear is ever present, of what I haven’t a clue. With the medication, I now only feel this way when I venture into public, so someone I trust must be with me, my fight or flight response is unpredictable and can kick in with no apparent cause. Struggling with this, after divorce, my only option was to live with my mom. Now perhaps you wonder what a relationship would be like with someone like me, and are worried at how I would need you. Well I think you just might need me too, it is human nature to need others in one way or another. Will I lose myself in you, well no, I will always remain who I am. Can we venture out? Yes please, let us visit beautiful places with lots of nature for me to photograph. Let’s find a dive bar with only a few patrons to sit and giggle. Let us visit a museum during a day that isn’t overpopulated. Let’s find a place on the beach, be serenaded into peace by the waves. How about camping, fishing, or laying on a blanket in a place where every star is visible. It is my hope that getting out enough will help me venture farther; I am a great person if you dare to look beyond my anxiety, for I am so much more than it. Whatever we can imagine
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TamsenOnline
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
UPDATED ***Please no get mad but I am serious that I refuse to change my household. I am dog/cat owner. I want what is below but if you can't get along w/ my animals then it's not gonna wrk out no matter what. I am self sufficient & am trying to fix my house up physically for a while till it's how I want so it's in disarray rt now some. I would like ***& 5'10" or taller (I can make exceptions on age &height if it's the rt guy ;; give emo & physical support & believes in having bonds w/ some one before sex not because of sex & has a high sex drv. He also has to $$ to support himself. I need someone who wants to put me first. I am NOT asking for $$ support. I pay my own bills & own my own home. I just want someone who wants me & only me & has no issue excepting my household & my way of life how it is now. I am a widow w/ a teen & I will NOT put up w/ his X issues cuz myself & my daughter should & will always come first.I am a very honest person. I am a hard wrker & I enjoy my wrk. I have dexterity issues w/ my hands so that is why I type short hand. If u need me to not type this way pls let me know. I'm not dumb even tho my typing & past history w/ men say otherwise. ;) I am a care giver to my daughter & mom & I luv both w/ all my heart & my daughter is the reason y I will not have any more bio children. Rt now I am looking for someone who wants to care for me. I'm getting to the point in my life I need to start putting me first a little more & I need a good him to do that. I'm a mom & have been one to many since I was 10 & babysitting & now for over 27 yrs I've been helping w/ someone's child/children & I am sure your's is not an issue.I do refuse to go against my ways as a parent tho. if u have baby mama drama I just can't get involved. I have a very kind heart & soul but it has been trampled on & used so much in the past 3 yrs it will take awhile for me to trust others again. I'm not saying what u do is wrong. It's usually what ur X has done that's wronged u & or ur child/children & I can't deal w/ fems like that. I am a very high moral person & if u have an issue w/ that then don't bother w/ me.I have worked for social services I have wrked for DMV I have helped run many family business & have been involved in may different types of work. I was raised as self sufficient. I get told I live under a rock. U kno what I prob have been living under a rock but I like it. It's calm cool & very secure until someone tries to mess w/ changing it. I not current on music I don't care about politics but I do care about my wrk my fam & my customers & that is all that matters to me. I listen to NPR on the radio going in to work. I listen to my Goddess forbid CD's in my car on the way home or the radio. I like real music. I not much into pop. I go from Classical & Opera to heavy metal. I luv all times of music when I can find it. I was raised in music w/ many diff things. I had to learn how to shoot a fire arm by the age of 5. I had to learn how to survive out side. I camped as a child. I rode horses & motorcycles. I have been driving a motorized vehicle since I was 9. I know MTN country style life in a cabin. I know city life & I kno suburbs as well since that is where I live now. I am an unusual fem. I almost always agree w/ the guy except on drinking & putting me after the drink or not being important enough to get a text or a hi or I'm happy to see u hun type thing. I don't like skirts & dresses even less. I dress w/ my mood. I can do sport casual nice business or hard wear/ euro style clothes.I do not look my age & most think I don't act it either. I act how I am. I treat all equal even children for the most part esp teens. I am nothing close to skinny. I feel I'm considered a mom shape. I have curves. I'm a 36DDD on top. I wear a ***rt now in a pant & am trying to get down to a 10 but that has not happened in a long time. I have excessively small wrists& ankles that r to small for skinny jeans & I wear a size 10 woman's shoe. I do have kinda wide shoulders & I like my him to b as wide or wider than I am. When I am happy I get thinner when I'm not I get bigger & it has nothing w/ the way I eat. I have a few medical problems besides my weight but it should never effect my relationship w/ any man as long as you understand I can't drv but for so long & when I say I need space I'm dead ass serious about it. I do what I say. I'm not the typical fem who will utter bs to u. If I say I'M DONE DON'T THINK U CAN SWEET TALK ME TO A BETTER MOOD. I am upfront w/ my issues. I've been through much like many my age but mayb more since I have been in less relationships than most *** my age. My longest relationship was w/ my husband. We were together for 14 yrs married for 11 out of the 14 & I was unhappy for over 7 of those yrs. I stayed in the relationship to protect my daughter cuz I knew her dad was dying. It's emo torture dealing w/ something like that esp when in less than 11 years we lost 4 men on both sides of the fam inc. my husband. I have taken the responsibility of all my actions & I deal w/ what my daughter's dad did every day w/ my daughter. I know what the difference is between being in love & loving someone is. It's a huge one. I was not in love w/ her dad any more but because I did care for him & her both I did all I could to help. It took a huge mental toll on me. I thought I found someone after that would help take care of that mental toll & would make me feel whole. It made it worse & he is now out of my life as well. So now I am on a new search. I do not ask much I don't feel. I've even been told I don't ask for much *** all. I just want to be luved & be as important in ur life as I have always put him in my life. R u my him? If u don't get BBC then try looking up 2 shows that suit me well. "Are you being served" is one. The other is "As time goes by". Have a great day & I hope u liked the read.Fyi don't take wrong but I want a house hubby. Not to marry or to not wrk but a guy who is willing to do what he can to help me w/ my house my daughter & my animals. Not provide but to physically help. This is part of physically&emotionally supportive that I'm asking for. One I can trust to let stay *** my home after extensive dating & I can trust them. I not asking them to give up what they have but to include my home/fam as well in what they want. If you want to see more picts of me go here. I do not lie about what I look like nor my size. I am very photogenic tho. *** honest open & prob out to eat to talk & learn about each other either outside watching stars or n a QUIET restaurant. I like quaint intimate places where one can be comfortable & show their tru selves.