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About Me

Hmmmm, where to start?Well, there is not one thing in specific I am looking for, I am open to just about anything. Trying to date is proving to be tough and finding the time to meet someone is even harder...hence giving the online thing a shot. I don't have any expections from this other than meeting some decent people and if I end up meeting someone that turns into something more, well I am not opposed to that either. That being said, I am a hopeless romantic and ultimately this is what I am looking for, this is what I want: I want different! Something that you cannot describe with simple words. Excitement, change, smiles...really big smiles! Lots of laughter. I want to be ecstatic when I get to see someone, and I want them to feel the same way about me. A simple phone call that you can feel someone is smiling on the other end, without them saying a word...yep, that's what I am after!So if your profile says "does not want children" or ";, then we probably won't be a good match. I have two beautiful children (a 9 year old son & Truthfully, I am just looking for a little bit of honesty and sincerity. I really hope that does not come across as B!tchy but more so just done with all the drama/games. If you are not looking for a relationship, please don't pretend to be. I am all about honesty and it goes a long long long way with me. My RANDOM views on relationships:Go out, be young, meet people, LOTS of people. Live with friends. Travel. Fall in love, get your heart broken, fall in love again...fall in lust...find your soul mate...DON'T SETTLE!!!And IF for some reason you find your TRUE SOUL MATE...remember to do the little things...a kiss in passing for no reason, a random hug, say "I love you" and REALLY mean it. Make out...with no intention for sex. Cuddle...spoon...hold hands. TALK! Really talk to each other.Hold out for this:"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived". ~ [] from the movie, Meet Joe Black ***First dates are ruh-tarded and uncomfortable. How about you tell me what we will be doing on our second date....HA!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Raelyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello,First time doing this sooooo....here it goes....I have medium length brown hair (used to be a fake blonde but have kept my natural color for now), 5'4", probably ***lbs. I love to go out to movies, dinner, walks on the beach or in the city or anywhere really.; I like to read, I am spontaneous and adventurous. I love road trips.... I do have two kids that keep me busy. They are small. I was never married. I like to go to a bar and talk and have a drink but I am not a huge drinker. I did more of that in my 20's and of course, pre-kids. For 9 years I worked in a supermarket deli and then decided to change careers and fell into Human Resources and worked in that field for 8 years. I love helping people out with any questions they have. Although I do smoke, I like to be active too. I used to run cross country track in high school & should get back into running again. I like sports...can throw a football....my 3 year old son & I do that very often. I don't wear tons of make up but will wear it once in awhile to go out. I am more of a plain jane type of girl. FYI-No hard feelings if I don't chat. I am usually on my phone and it doesn't allow access to chat. A great first date would be smooth, flowing conversation, humor, honesty. I am a bit shy but if I felt comfortable and had a drink, (A drink or 2, not alot), I am sure I would be more talkative. Obviously, no movie on a first date because then there would be minimal conversation. I am a very curious person so at times I do ask many questions (and hopefully that is not too annoying to you). I just like to know what makes people tick.

  • Miah

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am extremely inquisitive and I like to know why and "because I told you so" is not a reason. Also, my idea of camping is a nice hotel room. I am sorry, but my brother ruined camping for me (that and campfires... their smoke just loves me much more than I love them in return). But, if you want to sleep on the cold, hard ground while spiders crawl into your ears and have babies, snakes slithering into your sleeping bags while biting your ankles, catching Malaria from all the mosquito bites... well, that sounds like so much fun and you should totally share in the joy with the guys. I have touched a gun once, but I don't want to kill Bambi. I also have a demented sense of humor, so what I am looking for is someone that can make me laugh, which isn't too difficult because I laugh at almost everything. (Which is totally inappropriate during the opening hymn at church :(...) I want someone that is honest and that family is important to them. I don't need to be with someone that has the same opinions as I do on everything or wants to do everything together; the world would be a boring place if everyone was the exact same and it might be a little weird if I found a guy that likes glitter more than I do; however, we should find a couple of things that we can do together. I am not looking to date me and I don't need to be constantly entertained, but I do need to feel that I am a priority. I really don't expect someone that is perfect because I'm not, but maybe we can work on it together. I do get teased for being vampiric since I am a total night person and don't really function during the morning. I also am fortunate to have 3 beautiful children, but they live with their father. (As a side note, I am also a bit cautious and would love to get to know someone a bit before I jump right in and meet someone.) On our first excursion together, it should be something absolutely amazing and magical that will completely leave us breathless and wanting more by attending a karaoke bar.

  • Cherokee

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hello. I'm just wondering if there is any men out there who don't look at a woman and decide on her worth by her appearance. I see and hear "where are all the good ones" or "are there any good ones left". Well take a chance. Dare to believe that an awesome person lies below the sometimes unflattering picture on a profile. I am intelligent, and funny and a terrible speller. Everyone thinks a girl wants to cuddle. I don't know about other girls but I am not big on it. It's nice on a cold night, during a scary part of a movie. But I don't like it when a guy thinks that just because you had a bad day at work or are sick, that you need to cuddle. I want a hero who says "point out the culprit and let me take care of him".I'm a Christian and I have morals but I wouldn't say I was a prude either. I am just too old to play silly games and want someone honest and willing to put their heart into a relationship. I am a slow starter. I want to talk and get to know you a little before we meet face to face.****Just A Note: DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT contact me for a cheap thrill. I do not "play" and will not answer your questions about what I wear to bed or how I like sex. I am pretty game for anything. I do occasionally like to have the man tell me "I have the whole night planned out for us" it gives me a chance sometimes to experience and try something new. I don't always like to make the choices and hate the -what do you wanna do? I don't know what do you wanna do? I don't know- game.

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