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Elia, 40
United States, Colorado, Silverthorne

Offline, last seen Wed, 14 Jan 2026 06:21:37

About Me

I'm a single mom to two beautiful children (girl 11, and boy 8). They are the greatest loves of my life so far and anyone who is interested in me, MUST love children. If you have children of your own, that's great. I love kids, and more in my life are always welcome. And right up front, my daughter is autistic. If this turns you off you aren't the one for me! I'm always open to answer questions about it if you ask. The challenges are tough, but the rewards are so much better!!!I'm a simple girl with simple needs. I don't care how much money you make. Its not the size of the wallet that pulls me in to a person. Its the size of their heart. I'm NOT looking for someone who can shower me with diamonds, or support me. I don't need that. I'd rather have the simpler things that really show that someone is thinking about you, and cares. Like a text in the middle of the day to say they thought of you or leaving little notes around the house. Surprise phone calls, long hugs for no reason. I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, all consuming, hand holding, can't-live-without-each-other love. I am NOT looking to be someone's one night stand. So if you're only out for that one thing, go find a different girl. I'm a flip-flop, jeans & t-shirt/tank top wearing, hair in a pony-tail, playing in the dirt, drink a beer while watching the Nascar race on tv, sitting around a bonfire, steak and potatoes kind of girl & if that's not good enough for you - there's the door!**Sorry guys, NO picture, NO reply! I've bravely put myself out there, and expect everyone else to. To me, people who don't have a picture on their profile are either hiding because they're lying about the way they look, they're hiding because they shouldn't be here in the first place and might get busted (in a relationship already) or just don't have the confidence in themselves to proudly show the world who they really are. So if you don't want to share a pic in the very first message, then please don't message me! Thanks**MORE ABOUT ME::Honest:hopeless romantic:intelligent:sarcastic at times:positive:fun loving:spontaneous and adventurous:passionate:affectionate(I'm a cuddler so watch out lol):independant:loving, and supportive:a dreamer:easy going:great listener:open minded:tired of games:always faithful :a gift for making ppl laugh:proud of who I am...all of me!:I know what I want, and will work hard to get it and keep it!!!:textually active. So if you like to text or bbm, I'm game :PYOU::not a pro at mixed signals. Tell it straight or walk away:honest:self confident (not narcissistic) :strong:faithful:affectionate:good with kids:EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE!!!! This means you actually want to work towards a relationship. If you're still in love with your ex, skip me!!!:knows what he wants:means what he says:good listener and communicator. :independent:intelligent:fun loving:positive outlook:clean:not allergic to cats(I have 2 cats):not into drugs or heavy drinking:gentle:not afraid of public displays of affection:done with the Barbie dolls and actually want a real womanIf that's you, and you're interested, then drop me a line. "If you're all alone when the pretty birds have flown, Honey I'm still free take a chance on *** don't want half hearted love affairs I need someone who really cares. Life is too short to play silly games I've promised myself I won't do that again. It's got to be perfect It's got to be worth it Too many people take second best But I won't take anything less It's got to be perfect. Young hearts are foolish They make such mistakes They're much too eager to give their love away. Well I have been foolish too many times Now I'm determined I'm gonna get it right. It's got to be perfect It's got to be worth it Too many people take second best But I won't take anything less It's got to be perfect Hmmm...well it would have to be a relaxed atmosphere where we could actually talk and get to know each other. Hard to do that in a dark, loud movie theater, or crowded bar. I'd have to say somewhere like a small pub/restaurant or a coffee shop to start. Or we could grab a coffee or ice cap and go for a walk around a park or on a trail. Then if it goes well we can do the movie thing or something else after.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Country Caribbean Indonesian Irish Action Animation Comedy Family & Kids American Football Boxing
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