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Aretha, 36

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About Me

After careful thought I ha e decided to revamp my profile for those of you that actually read it. I have already been "catfished" so pls...if that's your idea of how to go about doing things...leave me out of it. There is no reason to lie about who you are or anything else. My pics are me and recent. If you are into games or married or have a girlfriend, pls move on. I get asked what I am looking for all the time. The truth is, I am not lookin for anything in particular. I want to go out and meet new ppl. If it goes somewhere great, if not that's ok too. You can never have too many friends. I like to hang out with friends, go to amusement parks, have cookouts, go have a beer at a dive bar with good live music...."I'm a ****. I'm a lover. I'm a child. I'm a mother. I'm a sinner. I'm a saint. I do not feel ashamed!!" I do not currently date black men. I'm totally not racist. I just haven't ever been emotionally or physically attracted to a black man yet. So I'm just trying to not waste your time or mine. First dates can be fun and exciting, but they can also be nerve racking and awful. I don't like playing 20 questions or being interviewed. Relax and have a good time. A few beers at a local pub is never a bad idea. Btw: a date is not you inviting me over or yourself over.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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