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Aretha, 36

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About Me

After careful thought I ha e decided to revamp my profile for those of you that actually read it. I have already been "catfished" so pls...if that's your idea of how to go about doing things...leave me out of it. There is no reason to lie about who you are or anything else. My pics are me and recent. If you are into games or married or have a girlfriend, pls move on. I get asked what I am looking for all the time. The truth is, I am not lookin for anything in particular. I want to go out and meet new ppl. If it goes somewhere great, if not that's ok too. You can never have too many friends. I like to hang out with friends, go to amusement parks, have cookouts, go have a beer at a dive bar with good live music...."I'm a ****. I'm a lover. I'm a child. I'm a mother. I'm a sinner. I'm a saint. I do not feel ashamed!!" I do not currently date black men. I'm totally not racist. I just haven't ever been emotionally or physically attracted to a black man yet. So I'm just trying to not waste your time or mine. First dates can be fun and exciting, but they can also be nerve racking and awful. I don't like playing 20 questions or being interviewed. Relax and have a good time. A few beers at a local pub is never a bad idea. Btw: a date is not you inviting me over or yourself over.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Tilly

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Wow, too much to say...! My favorite saying is, "Instead of adding up your troubles, why don't you count your blessings?" and please, SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!! I've been called fun and the life of the party and love having a fun time in everything I do! smilie(' ') I've ventured alot of places, seen alot and traveled....it's all good and fun but better when you share it w/ someone! I love being spontaneous....drop of the hat..ROAD TRIP!! I soo love dancing and concerts...if you were to say pack a small bag and have 15 minutes to do it..well you better have a big R.V. cause I don't travel light! hahaha I'm the go to girl......the past several months have been a blast for me...i'm soo ready to "chill" a little and hopefully meet someone w/ character, morals and definitely values...cause life is too short to play the field when you have a home run!!! I'm not high maintenance by any means, but I love dressing up and "playing the part"....I totally expect "my guy" to do the same! Be the fun loving, out going guy that can get dirty, but at the same time dress up and play/dress the part as well! Sorry guys, I've raised my daughter, so no young kids!!!LAST BUT NOT LEAST...I AM NOT INTO BLACK GUYS! (getting alot of that) sorry!!!! The first date can be anywhere "we" feel comfortable meeting... somewhere for HH. I feel chemistry is key and important and I think you can tell within 15 minutes if there is a spark or something "there". First dates in my opinion, should be casual and laid back.

  • Fonda

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I like all types of music metal is my favorite...oh ya I do not fish no no no....I do not hunt js

  • Adeline

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I truly do make up for my small stature in my spunk and attitude. I am enthusiastic, positive and would rather be moving than sitting in front of the TV. I enjoy living life to the fullest and truly believe that God's gift to us is wasted if we do not live to our fullest potential- this is both physically, spiritually and intellectually. I strive to exercise regularly, have a deep faith, and LOVE to learn- I hope there is a guy out there that also holds these tenets to be true in their life as well. I learned a deep respect for the outdoors from camping,hunting and fishing- but I have NO desire to hunt myself. I LOVE fishing, but really don't need to shoot anything. Because of my upbringing, I also strive to protect the environment and promote recycling. I enjoy being as "green" as I can be. I love being outside! I am hoping to find someone that shares my love for outdoor activities and enjoys being IN God's creation and not sitting on the couch. I LOVE to travel and there are MANY MORE places in the world to go. I hope to find a partner to experience different places and cultures... and wants to share the world with our family as well. I love being an American and I'm proud of our nation- but believe in a global community. I want to meet someone that will LAUGH LOTS. I like to look at the positive side of life and am generally find joy in the simple things. Life is too short to be constantly worried or dwell on the negative. The healthiest relationships I've seen are those that have two individuals willing to LAUGH. I'm not afraid to be in new situations or try things I've never done before. New adventures are great! I am independent and pretty strong willed. I don't need to be constantly entertained, and believe that two individuals should be their own person before being a healthy part of a couple. I hate the line in "Jerry McGuire" that says "you complete me." It makes it sound like a person can't be WHOLE on their own. Two "half" people don't make a whole. I am not looking to find "myself" in someone else, nor can I "fix" or "fill" a hole in someone's life. That said, I do desire to share adventures and dreams with another. I am generous to a fault and I'm hoping to find someone who will share just as much in return. I am looking for an EQUAL. I'm looking for a partner to walk beside me in life, not rush ahead or hold me back. I love working with kids and being crazy with them in many settings (Special Olympics every year and I even travel the world with kids as a teacher). I hope to find someone that doesn't mind attending the high school games or productions once in awhile. I am passionate about building relationships with the kids both in the classroom and by investing in their lives. It is the core of who I am. I am proud of what I do and my influence in their lives- and believe it or not, they like me too! I BELIEVE IN MAKING A DIFFERENCE. They keep me young! I will say that I am YOUNG at heart and attitude. Most people are shocked that I am ***not because of my maturity, but appearance and approach to life. The kids often guess that I'm in my late 20's or early 30's). I really can't see myself dating anyone the same age as my parents (they were young when they had me) AND I just adopted a baby- so I have a good 18 years of "active" parenting in front of me, so if you are in your 50's, please contact someone else, I'm not done with family! Sorry!

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