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I am back after apparently being deleted for some unknown reason..I am gonna give this another shot but recently this site has gotten really shady, with fake people and profiles..I am a single mother of 3 kids and I have a grandson. I have a 20 year old son who has a son who will be 2 years old in November ***. I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son. My kids are my world and come first before myself or anything else so let's get that out there up front. With that being said they are not babies so I can usually go out with little to no difficulty. I just will not blow them off if they need me or are involved with something that I need to attend. I love spending time with my family and friends. One now lives in Germany and the other I see almost every day.I listen to all kinds of music. I love to dance, write poetry (I have actually had 2 poems published), scrapbook, read, travel, hang out with friends, go to wine tasting and visit wineries, love movies both going and just curl up and watch them at home. I love going to the beach it is my peaceful place. Sitting on the beach at sunset with a drink, my toes in the cool sand and smelling the ocean air and listening to the waves....Don't be a player cause I'llshut you down with a quickness. I don't play games. surprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rikki

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I have been on my own now for a little over 2 years. I know quite well what I require from people as well as who I am and what I can offer others. =) That making me quite selective with a refusal to settle. I'm a loner by nature and quite comfortable in my own company, therefore being single doesn't generally cause me any grief. However, it can get lonely at times. After all, we can only be so solitary. =) Regardless of being a loner, I have much love, affection, and caring to give. =) As for who I am other than the loner bit, I shan't describe in the typical way. What you consider attractive, intelligent, kind, funny, etc. is up to you, not me. My opinion of myself will generally differ from anyone else's. We all see things differently. Therefore, you will discover on your own who I am, and what I consist of, for you. So, I'll simply share a few solid traits, both good and bad, and other random stuffs. =)Onward...A few solid personality / character traits:- Empathetic- Direct- Angle Thinker- Opinionated- Introverted- Altruistic- A Realist- Communicative- GenerousMusic:- Indie / Alternative / Folk / Celtic / Prog. / Psych. / Hard Rock- Grunge- Alternative / Prog. Metal- Opera / ClassicalFlick types:- Epoque / Drama- Sci-Fi / Fantasy- Comedy- Psychological ThrillersTube:- Sci-Fi, Sci-Fi & more Sci-Fi- Dark Comedy- Supernatural Drama- Fantasy- Nature- DocumentaryAuthors:***John Saul- Dean Koontz-- I don't kill spiders, I simply pick them up and put them outside. I also avoid earthworms in wet weather.- If you focus on social status, I'm not the woman for you.- My partner has to be my best friend, my buddy, above all else.- Very selective with whom I befriend / develop a relationship with.- Yes, only high school. But do feel free to assume I'm uneducated.- Not a city girl.- My friends are my main family.- I am none materialistic/high maintenance.- Animals & nature make me happy when I'm at my worst.- I'm a discusser, not a yeller.- I'm a geek with class, a tomboy with femininity.- I enjoy woodworking, and other manual labor.- Wish to learn fencing, archery, cello and piano.- Video gamer / Bookworm / Semi-artist.Please scan my interests, as I divulge a fair amount there as well. =)There is also much more to me than what's in this profile. I am quite mutlifaceted.Best of luck to you all!Kindest regards,J. =)I am not here to waste my time, or anyone else's. Let's keep it honest & considerate. I also do not reply to any 'Meet me' bollocks. And please have more going for you than going to the gym, enjoying travel and hanging out with friends, like the other 95% here. It's seriously enough to gag a maggot. Merci! =) Tea/coffee is usually the best bet. Or perhaps a walk in the park or art gallery. I also don't consider it a date. It is simply two people getting together, and hopefully enjoying each others company. =)

  • Gregory

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi There, thanks for stopping by....A little about me.... My kids are my top priority, and I spend as much time as I can with them. But they have a much busier social life than I do = ) so I'm looking to meet new people and find someone to spend time with.I have a busy, serious job so I like to let loose and have fun when I'm not working.I'm a small town girl at heart, I like simple things like playing cards, hanging out drinking a few with friends, going to the lake, sitting around a fire etc.But I also love to get out and do things, I'm pretty open to trying most things. I like watching sports, love all music, I like traveling, and seeing new places. I like adventure and adrenaline, I like to try new things and see what fits.I'm laid-back and independent and looking for the same = )

  • Tamar

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Im looking for that guy that just likes being with me and makes me feel so comfortable.... men who act distant bore me. I like Tech, publishing, the beach, hangin out, live music & funMy life is surrounded by my work & kids. In my spare time I would love to just hangout and relax and enjoy the company that I am with.

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