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About Me

I am back after apparently being deleted for some unknown reason..I am gonna give this another shot but recently this site has gotten really shady, with fake people and profiles..I am a single mother of 3 kids and I have a grandson. I have a 20 year old son who has a son who will be 2 years old in November ***. I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son. My kids are my world and come first before myself or anything else so let's get that out there up front. With that being said they are not babies so I can usually go out with little to no difficulty. I just will not blow them off if they need me or are involved with something that I need to attend. I love spending time with my family and friends. One now lives in Germany and the other I see almost every day.I listen to all kinds of music. I love to dance, write poetry (I have actually had 2 poems published), scrapbook, read, travel, hang out with friends, go to wine tasting and visit wineries, love movies both going and just curl up and watch them at home. I love going to the beach it is my peaceful place. Sitting on the beach at sunset with a drink, my toes in the cool sand and smelling the ocean air and listening to the waves....Don't be a player cause I'llshut you down with a quickness. I don't play games. surprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Linnette

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    seriously how many times do I have to change my profile because of crazy freaks on here. It may seem long but if you would take time to read it, it would save us all time. 1. U must hot have pics in ur undies in your profile (thats weird) 2. you must not be a convicted felon or a drug addict. 3. If you yell and punch things when angry...message the next girl. 4. If you dont shower.. just gross. 5. No i dont want to sleep with you AND/or your wife. 5b. NO I do not and can not come over to your house tonight (that is dangerous and not what I am looking for. 5C Since half of you ask such stupid questions, no I do not want to be hit, slapped, whipped, or choked during any kind of intimate moment ever. (Where do you guys come from, try a different dating sight... but am hurrying. PATIENCE young grasshoper...patience... good things come to those who wait right???? :) i will be there end of oct to look at jobs and a place :) i would like to go into this new chapter of my life feeling like i know someone, and perhaps in the process something great will be found.;meant to be" and am hoping there is a person meant for me there as well. i am spontaneous and silly, yet love to have deep conversations when the situation calls for it. i want someone i can have fun swimming with sharks, or simply doing nothing at all. love has burnt me once or twice, but i want to find that silly, crazy, trusting side of myself again...the one who can dive into someones arms and knock them onto the floor simply because i havent seen them since breakfast. i want to surprise and be surprised :) i adore animals and would like to find the same in a partner. my favorite 2 smells are the ocean and horses (dunno what thats about). i love working out, traveling, watching basketball and tennis, and adventure. i want someone who takes pride in them selves, but not to the point that it gets in the way of life. i like someone motivated with goals, but i want family and love to be the #1 goal. i am tired of finding someone who likes the "idea of me". i am a free spirit who can very much take care of myself. i do not want someone to "take care of me" but it would be nice to take care of eachother. ive realized over the years my list of "must haves" that the most important of all is laughter, and ofcourse honesty. i want to let my guard down and see whats in store... is it you? lets find out. if the most i find is a good friend then it shall be worth it!! the center of my world is a 16 yo sidekick (also known as my son) :)so basically i want a man with the goals of a minivan driver, the personality of a race car driver, the intelligence of a hybrid, and the sense of humor of the mystery machine. (k its late and i have no idea where that came from) gotta throw a yacht in there too somewhere haha. and my disclaimer is: u snore like a bear and YOU ARE OUT. snuggling is a MUST so if u fall asleep and rollover you will find a foot up your butt. and manners are a huge turn on :) i probably should mention i am a bit picky, but il save that til date 3 or so... :) and please realize this is a process, and this website is full of some... stranger fish... so understand when i do not give you my #. And don't accuse me of not being a real person. If I was fake I would have went WAY taller, way younger and with way better hair . sky diving??? scuba diving?? stargazing?? picnic? quiet dinner and conversation??? im up for anything!!!!!!!! wait no coffee dates - thats lame :-) partial skinny dipping?

  • Aleah

    Online

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Before you read any further please do not contact me if you are a smoker of ANY kind as it's not a trait I'm willing to negotiate on...thanks.Confident, independent (not to the extreme though) woman who has a heart of gold to offer the right man. I am an affectionate person, but not the smothering clingy type of gal. I have a great sense of humour and am not afraid to laugh at myself...which I often end up doing. I like to go out, but do enjoy a slower paced life, always making time to stop and smell the roses. I have pre-teen daughter who lives with me full time so I am not able to go out without a little advance notice. If someone doesn't understand that or wishes a woman to be able to take off at a moments notice then I'll have to say that I wouldn't be a good match for you. I do not do the party bar scene, however like to have drinks or coffee on a patio or perhaps a pub. My friends describe me as a vibrant woman who has the utmost emotional strength to conquer anything life may throw my way. I have a positive outlook on life, treat others the way I'd like to be treated and am not into any mind games.LOVE being on the back of a bike....motorbike, not bicycle :) Have my own helmet that is collecting dust and being used as a hair scrunchie holder :( I'm not a neat freak, but I do like a clean and organized lifestyle. I like to have quiet time to myself to reflect and relax for those moments I need a time out :) Yes, a quiet cup of coffee first thing in the morning is a definite must for this girl...at least I admit it :) I don't watch many sports on tv except for boxing and UFC, but I don't mind a partner who enjoys watching sports...as I may read a book curled up beside him. I do though like watching any sport event in person regardless what the sport is...except something like ping pong :) I am a woman who will express myself and isn't afraid to speak up if I need to. I wish to find a genuine gentleman, someone who knows how to treat a lady properly and I'd like to treat him back the same way (as a man, not lady lol). I am not interested in being a serial dating and going out just for the sake of getting out of the house as that would be pointless if there doesn't seem to be any interest that is sparked before that initial meeting in person. I'm not much into camping for the sleeping in a tent on the ground thing as have done far too much of that in the past...though I could be brided if there are roasted marshmallows and a cot to sleep on. No I don't get dolled up to run to the grocery store...in fact I'll most likely be wearing a ball cap and Nike flip flops. (but I do enjoy spending time getting ready for a nice evening out...I just have to find a nice man to do that with :)Why do soooo many males post pics of themselves taken in a washroom? For the love of god at least put the toilet seat down when you *** :/ First date (it really isn't a date ...it should be called a "meet") should be as comfortable and easy going as possible for both of us. Meeting for a drink or coffee somewhere would appeal to me for that first initial meet...so it would be easy if one of us had to make a quick get-a-way ;) I may be a bigger girl but hell I can move quick if I gotta LOL (how about putting that cell phone away for as long as it takes to drink a coffee.....after all good manners go along way)

  • Whitley

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hello! :) I am an elementary teacher who has been teaching for 16 years. I have one child, a son, who is five. I like all kinds of music-pop, country, etc. Vacationing on the beach and in the mountains are my favorite. Finding someone who is my best friend is my goal. I don't date people who use any type of tobacco, please. I am an optimist, trying to see the bright side of everything. Happy hunting! For a first date, dinner somewhere nice, yet comfortable, would be fun. I would hope to have good conversation to get to know the guy. If we hit it off, we could go for a walk someplace afterwards.

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