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Rolanda, 39
United States, Colorado, Parachute

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About Me

I am a giver not a taker, and know for a fact that an open giving loving heart can change the world one person at a time...and I practice that every single day ...my attitude is one of love, understanding, and grace...everyone can struggle at being a human and we all need humanity to help each other through life. I love to be around people, my friends and those friends I have to yet meet (enjoy hosting parties during holidays)...so hanging out with that special someone is what I am all about. I enjoy having FUN and being silly. I am the kind of person who would rather be happy than right. I'm searching for mutual friendship possibly leading to attraction, meeting in person sooner rather than later to see if there is that spark we all are seeking. I am here to find a long term relationship. Of course if there is distance then phone calls can work for a while, I believe they made airplanes for many reasons so distance is not a deal breaker. I live my own life, he lives his, then share a life together. Relationships have to have our own separate interest to grow and keep our identities. I need a partner that stands his ground with his own views and input to joint decisions. Together we should be stronger and wiser than the sum of each individually. I am here to find my best friend, the one with a huge heart, real spirit, honest, easy going, positive, love life, trustworthy, down to earth and beautiful from the inside first. No drama please.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Spanish Vietnamese
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