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Gema, 40
United States, Colorado, Monument

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About Me

This seems quite odd and uncomfortable! Asking me to describe myself, what makes me unique?! ****** Before you read the rest of this; please answer the following questions: Are you married? Are you looking for a one night stand? Are you looking for a booty call? Are you looking for Ms. Right now? Are you prone to rush into something and then turn and run? Have you ever been told you are a deviant? If you answered yes to any of these questions, please quit reading now!!!! If you answered no to ALL of the questions then you are not a mean psychopath, please proceed...Well; we are all unique and have special qualities that exemplify who we are.Let's give this a shot and see what happens!My ultimate goal is to finish my Ph.D while I'm still young enough to enjoy it, while balancing life with living, meaning realizing that each day is only 24 hours and once it is gone it cannot be recaptured. Life should be about laughter, a lot of laughter, and new adventures that make for memories without regret! As humans we seek a witness to our life and want to be a witness in someone else's life. Chivalry shouldn't be saved for fairy tales, dancing barefoot in the kitchen while cooking dinner shouldn't be a myth and your best friend should be the person you look at every night before closing your eyes. I would prefer honesty from the beginning, if you know you're not always going to always be sweet and a gentleman, don't start off that way and then change! Don't let the heels and pearls fool you! I am just as comfortable in jeans and boots sitting around a campfire after a day on the lake as I am dressing up ... I'm a tomboy that cleans up well. I will dance to anything but prefer country music. I absolutely have to dance when I hear a good song, even if I just wiggle in my chair!!I am happiest when I am surrounded by, or doing things for, the ones I love and care about. Spontaneous BBQs on a sunny weekend, baking sweets and treats for the people at work, or cooking a fabulous dinner with a glass of wine as we laugh about what once seemed tragic earlier in the week, but is now comedic, these are the moments that matter! I cry at touching hallmark commercials but will scream at the TV over a bad call... A walking contradiction!If you have read all of this... Wow!!! So the Ambien didn't work for you either? You've invested so much time already... Go ahead and send a message- what's the worst that could happen?;That's my kind of night", yep.... Google it! That's the PERFECT date to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am on here hoping for the best but honestly expecting the worst. I have heard some horror stories about the internet and dating on here but thought with my busy schedule it would be worth a try to connect to someone in this way. Will finish up this profile thing when I have more time...it's not like a lot of men read them anyways, right?!

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  • Michell from Monument | Woman | 37 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I grew up in a small town with old school family values and a strong work ethic. The best memories as a child was on my grandparent's farm! My biggest passion is wine! I feel so at home in a vineyard. I am not ashamed to enjoy a box wine either! Those are easier to have while boating! I mostly prefer sitting around a bonfire with friends rather than going out. Love a fun road trip! I love to try new restaurants and different bars/pubs. The best ones are usually the hole-in-the-wall places. I really want to travel more when I get a chance so I can see what is else out there to experience. Love to visit museums and anything historical. My taste in music is mostly country but I enjoy mostly anything from the 80s and 90s. I am looking for a down home and a good ole country boy type!!). I guess it's the lifestyle that I know and understand most. Feels like home!! But what i am really looking for is someone that is fun, open minded, independent and is very dependable. Laughter is really important to me too! I find humor very attractive. Someone that is close to their family and likes spending time with them. Love a family man! I am also pretty tall, even without the heels on. So I am looking for a tall guy which is very important for me because I love wearing heels!! He has to be over 6 feet tall. Last BF was 6' 8"!!! Loved it!! I do need physical attraction and chemistry together for anything to continue. Would love it if I found someone who enjoys wine as much as I do. Hoping they are also comfortable in any social setting.I do love being single & my independence is very important to me. I do keep pretty busy. But I do hope to find someone to settle down with but not having to just settle. I want to take thing slow to see where things go. Tired of the games and have no interest for any 'hook-ups' either. Old fashion values a must!! Searching for the same qualities that my father and grandfather provided to my mom and grandmother. I learned by their example so my standards are pretty high when it comes to that. (So, Be the man you would want your daughter to be with or your son to become!!). I do know exactly who I am looking for but not sure if he actually exists. A perfect first meeting for me is somewhere that is quiet and having a good conversation with a bottle of wine. Love having drinks on a patio on a perfect evening. Even a brewery is fun too! A coffee house is good as well! I am a pretty simple and down to earth woman. I am pretty open to almost anything that is a quiet so we can get to know each other to see if things click.Then after a great meeting:I perfect first date could be wine tasting at a local winery then a picnic in the vineyard. A visit to a zoo or a museum. Bowling (only sport that i am good at) and pizza. Mini Golf. I know they are hard to find now, but to fill the back of a pick up truck with tons of pillows and blankets and head to a Drive In movie place to catch a couple movies with a huge container of popcorn. Or you can surprise me!

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Single mom interested in dating....just to remind you guys I'm 36 not 26, my morals are a lot different. I'm looking for friends not anything more. I'm not sure where relationship changed to sex after one date but I'm about making friends and going from there. I want to date a bit because I haven't in years. Just wanted to put that out there because I've already run into some of the issues above. I grew up in a military family and I like men who are clean cut.if she's amazing, she won't be easy. if she's easy, she won't be amazing. if she's worth it, you won't give up. if you give up, you're not worth it... Amaze me...I like a little creativity!

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