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Alysha, 38
United States, Colorado, Monument

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About Me

..So you want to hear about me??? I’ll tell you a bit. I have been on and off these websites over the years with success. I’ve made some great friends on here and find it is the best way to make it work. I have also had some lasting relationships. I believe most of us want to meet that guy or girl to fall in love with…that imperfect person that is perfect to us!!! I am not here because I need to meet you... it is because I want to meet you. I feel it it is healthy to break-out from our circle of normal friends and activities....and this can become increasingly harder the more we age.Myself…I am that “All American Girl”...who doesn't sweat the small stuff and takes an analytical approach to the larger stuff. I try to keep my feet planted on earth for the most part...but embrace a little craziness and spontaneity. I was raised with great values and will do anything for those close to me. I work to live and try to spend my free time being as active as possible. I am truly an outdoorsy person throughout all seasons (born and raised on the water/snow and long for all sports involving both cold and hot weather). During my down time I can be found gallivanting at a music festival for the weekend, visiting or cooking for friends, taking in a hike or art gallery or just enjoying nature from the back of my horse. ). I will try anything twice...and find myself gravitate towards people that are positive, outgoing, open-minded, adventurous and have a sense of humor...and the ability to hold a diversified conversation, doesn't hurt either. From my point of view...I don't try to be anything that I am not and I tell it how it is (to a fault sometimes). I'm always up for a drink with someone new, friendly, and fun...Are you? Don't be shy. Looking for someone who can hold a diversified conversation, smile and laugh (even at the expense of themselves). One to have. a few drinks and relax with after a long day of work. Lets shoot some pool, throw some darts, Or just sit back with some good music, look, listen and take it all in!!!"In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make..." To funny...I think I would do just about anything...with-in reason...that is!!!!! I'll talk and/or meet just about anyone but I'm really not looking to date anyone double or half my age (sorry, boys...don't mean to be insensitive).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Italian Korean Vietnamese
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