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Janell, 38
United States, Colorado, Monument

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About Me

I read alot! Mostly Sifi and Fantasy. Though lately there's been alot of fanfiction off the internet. I literaly got a Kindle because I have no more room for anymore books.Someday I would like to own a house. Someday I would like to have kids. Someday I would like to have grandchildren. All of these things can happen someday. Also I want to write a book. I'm trying to work towards that one.I like working 3rd shift. I like having time to myself but I hate being alone. My sister is one of my 4 best friends. So is my Mom. My family is very important to me and I include even those friends who aren't actually related to me as family.There's alot so top 5 fav bands. My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy (I don't care if their on hiatise *sorry I can't spell for anything*), Panic! At the Disco, Noen Trees, and pretty much anyone on *** looking to be friends with someone before I get into a relationship.No matter what it says on those tests I really am a very shy person. But its a weird type of shy. I have no problem striking up strange conversations with random people I meet, because I don't care what they think of me because I will most likely never see that person again. So It doesn't matter. And I have no problems talking to my friends and family because I trust them. But talking to people I don't know but want to get to know and want to see again? Very Shy!!!!! So if I've actually worked up the currage to just say hi. If you're intrested please say something besides "Hi." back. Because if thats all you say I figure you're just not intrested but are to polite to not respond.We are all a little weird and life's a little weird,and when we find someone whose weirdness iscompatible with ours, we join up with them and fallin mutual weirdness and call it love.— Dr. Seuss I guess it's not very important. Book stores tend to have a coffee shop in them. The zoo you can talk in between the animal houses, there are several restrants or you can have a picnic, and it can be a short walk to a long walk depending on how intrested you are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Middle Eastern
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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