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Arista, 38
United States, Colorado, Monument

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About Me

I am at a place in my life where I feel I could offer what I expect out of a relationship. I am finding that I am either pickier than I believed I was or there are less people out there now that I relate to. I bore easily in situations in which I don't feel inspired to grow and learn as a person. It's not a piece of cake to maintain my interest but i think it would come effortless to the right person. What do I offer? I am typically quite honest. I know when the truth hurts and when to hold my tongue but know that trust is key in any respectful relationship. I smile and laugh more than most. I am pretty low maintenance. Kids seem to love me and I think that comes from my playful spirit. I am open to new things. I have a lot of things I enjoy doing but I can usually have fun doing anything. Last but not least (though I am sure there are more) I work daily to grow as a person. Of course I am not perfect but I can admit when I am wrong and I do my best to get better each day.My ideal person would be one who considers himself above average intelligence. Someone who also enjoys reading. Someone who loves many types of music and believes life comes with a soundtrack. Not in a cheesy way but the way the music inspires memory and lights a thought in your heart, sometimes forcing you to think in new ways. He would consider his sense of humor to be that of wit and sarcasm. He is boldly confident but with an air of boyish charm. The kind of person who appreciates learning and analyzing things. He loves food and isn't a picky eater. Proper grammar is a definite bonus. As a past smoker, I understand if you smoke but you're going to have to sell me on why you're so awesome, I should overlook it. I also used to drink and now I don't. I give a big hurrah to those who drink but if it's something you do on a regular basis, especially to excess, it's a deal breaker for me. I don't expect anyone to change to meet my expectations. I know there are others out there whose ideas match my own. While I expect to differ on many things or ideas, it's important to me to find someone I enjoy spending time with doing little to nothing, with similar thoughts, ideas, hobbies and passions. I don't think that's asking too much. Expecting someone to change would be...I am quite comfortable spending time by myself but I would love to find someone who can maintain my interest. When I find someone I really enjoy, I like to see them as much as possible. I am not the woman to throw herself casually into anything. I think it's time for someone to sweep me off my feet. I am not going to ask myself out...Don't guys pursue women anymore? I believe pretty strongly that the guy should plan the date. I'm not sure if that's sheer old fashionedness or just a belief that a guy can put in some work to woo a girl. It may suck to plan a date you're afraid she won't like, but I promise not to complain since I put you up to the task. I also think that after we meet, the guy should probably pick her up as well. I really would be open to most things. Dinner, coffee, frisbee golf, a walk, a game, fishing, etc. I would rather be creative than cliche but it's really all about who you are as a person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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