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Brandi, 39

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About Me

I'm a Sardonic, easily amused, optimistically cynical, Outgoing introverted girly Tom Boy that LOVES good food.But most importantly I'm a Momma.I'm from So Cal. I use the word *Like* entirely too much.*Like* a lot). I have no intention of typing out a sales pitch about myself. I won't lie, whoever the lucky fella is that catches my heart won't have it easy. My free time is limited, I'm not always able to go off on an adventure ( However, when I do have free time I like to jam as much fun and adventure into that time as possible!), he'll have to be independent and secure enough not to have me at his beck and call and he'll have to be okay with always coming second to my kids needs.Doesn't sound all that enticing, does it?But, in return. I am affectionate, attentive, caring and loyal. I'm a pretty good cook, I won't make you watch a chick flick or show (cause I don't like them either) and I'll never ask if an article of clothing makes me look fat. I'm not impressed by material possessions your fancy car isn't going to make me swoon (unless it's older and in better shape than me). Okay.. I guess that was a little sales pitchieWhile a real meaningful relationship would be awesome, I'm not in a rush. One day I'll meet someone amazing that will see I'm worth the effort. (hopefully before I'm in the old folks home)Until then, I'll be happy to make some friends (I mean that in the literal sense, not the NSA way - stop asking)Speaking of which!! just an FYI.. As a chick that was raised by her father with very little female influences. I tend to get along better with guys and most of my close friends are guys. If you're the jealous type.. don't bother talking to me. You'll just drive your self crazy. I've been single for a long time, I've known these guy for years, if there was anything more to the friendship it would have happened by now.Also.. I know I look young for my age. This is a blessing and a curse. I'm an ageist, I would REALLY prefer someone closer to my age. 5 yrs either way (preferably on the older side) would be perfect.. By the way.. I won't respond to messages if you don't have a picture. Or if you do have a picture, but you're not wearing a shirt or you're flexing or making a duck face or some other form of douche-baggery is going on. Also, while compliments can be nice, they can also be awkward, if the only thing you write is some aesthetic compliment.. that doesn't really lead to much conversation and sometimes (most times) it just makes me think the sender is creepy.I seldom initiate a message as I'm very aware most fellas aren't interested in Mommas.I swear I'm not THAT complicated and chances are, you won't even get to meet my kids... unless of course you turn out to be amazing. Something casual and friendly.. like having a cuppa tea or a drink in a quiet bar or lounge.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Latashia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Im a hard worker, enjoy my weekend off to spend time with my family, drag racing and just being outdoors. I enjoy cooking and baking cupcakes as a hobby. Cars are my passion. I enjoy american muscle cars. Looking for someone who wont play games, enjoy the outdoors and take care of them self. If this interest you drop me a line.

  • Tawny

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I've moved around a lot-- I love this city. I like enjoying all the stuff is has: the markets, the theatre, the ballet, the libraries, the festivals, the muesums, and even the beaches. My style tends to a more relaxed and easy going outfit. I prefer to be comfortable and casual. (And, no, that doesn't mean Lululemon all the time.) I can totally rock my Blunnies. But my days of 'fashion' are long gone. But, it's still fun to get gussied up for the odd night on the town or party. I live a healthy lifestyle. My weekends tend to be full of wild and crazy activities like: mountain biking and snowboarding. And as much as I love the city, I also like to get out of it on the weekends. Whether its for a weekend camping trip, a day on a hill, a drive through the fall colours or an antique show. It really helps to recharge my batteries. I also really enjoy cooking, and I rarely see it as a chore. I like trying out new recipes, and one of my guilty pleasures is buying cook books. I always get sucked in by their amazing pictures. (My other one is decor magazines....same thing....amazing picutres. I'm ashamed to admit, I don't think I've ever read an article. Oh....that is bad.)I run my own business, and I love what I do. I work and live with animals; therefore, it's really important that you like animals.Oh, and before I forget....the obligatory list of likes and dislikes:Likes:Sunday morning cinnamon bunsMorning coffeeChristmasMy memory foam, pillow-top, king-sized bedThe crisp smell of a morning.Pink tulipsLaughingDislikes:IntoleranceGum smackersWashing dishesFolding laundryThat old man who insists on j-walking across Bathurst St. at a snail's pace....Honestly. Are you for real?!I have two kids, and I think the world of them. They are my beginning, my middle and my end. It was because of them, that I found myself. They are the reason I continue to push my boundaries. And some days, I think they will be the death of me, they make me so crazy. I'm looking for a relationship. Perhaps not right out of the gate, but that would be the end result. I prefer you to be active--not necessarily the same acitivies, but you would be open to trying them. And I would be the same with yours. (Right now, I am secretly hoping you don't play golf.) I would also like it if you were honest and forthright, but still gentle and kind. They don't have to be mutually exlusive. I would also like it if you had a sense of humour. Life is easier when you can laugh at the hard parts...and even easier when you have someone who can laugh with you. And if you don't mind folding laundry and washing dishes, that would also be great. Coffee, tea?

  • Adalynn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I like to have fun, I spend a lot f time with family and friends . I always have a smile on my face and tend to laugh a lot. I enjoy snuggling on the couch and watching movies on cold raining days. I like to go for walks or maybe even a run when I feel up to it. I love going on vacations warm places with beaches . In the winter I like snowmobiling and summer getting on a motorcycle. Love summer not much of a winter lover. My first date would be a casual dinner date to just get to know eachother. Them maybe go to a local bar and play some pool and talk some more. I don't want it to be awkward so I think this would be a nice casual way to get to know someone .

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