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Lakiesha, 38

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About Me

I'm charming and appreciate being charmed. (Look me in the eyes and engage with me.. smile.. make me laugh..make me comfortable.. Make me fall for u ;) I work hard, but have a flexible schedule..love my career. I am a few extra pounds and a little more, no bikinis for me :/ ever.I like a guy that is big and tall, so I feel small... But ultimately I'm looking for someone to connect with.. On a friend level and maybe more eventually. I am not looking to get married, but i would like to be in a committed relationship with the right person ;)I can ASSURE u that I will NOT sleep with anyone casually.. So pass me up for sure if that's why u stopped here* *also I don't like loud or obnoxious guys who do stupid stuff for attention(such a turn off !!)For me to 'date' someone w no car isn't an option... U have to be able to come see me!! I want someone who is completely financially able to take care of themselves.. If we decide to meet for a date, please take pride in how u present yourself..I can tell if u dont and its insulting when i just spent an hour or more trying to look my best for u...Be clean... I am attracted to a clean guy w/ nice jeans and a tshirt (hat) .. not into guys who dress better than me!! Not judging. Im pretty simple, really..I'm from the south and appreciate the mind set of my fellow country boys.If u are interested in getting to know me,Message me :) **i don't bite. Usually. I will probably be nervous so a hug and a drink would be a nice start... Hugs. Flirting.!!! ;-) nice charming CLEAN smile..no dirty/rotten teeth(I had to say it)Positive attitude a must. Optimistic ;)Checking your phone occasionally is normal.. I cant stand when Someone is in a serious relationship w their phone... ESPECIALLY if we are spending time together. Focus on me please. Respect. Public place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bruhandii

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-33

    Hi! My name is Bruhandii. I am never married catholic hispanic woman without kids from Montrose, Colorado, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Sheenagh

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Ok, I think it's time to put it all out there so there's no wasting time on either part. I'm an amazing person. I'm loyal to those who deserve it. I'm brutally honest so don't ask a question if you don't want to hear the truth. I'm affectionate for the right man. Obviously attraction is very important which I find is the most difficult part about dating. I'm not stuck up or conceited because I have dated an ugly guy for his personality and he still turned out to be a "D"I don't have any children and at my age I don't plan to. I do love kids and it's much easier to deal with if you have a somewhat good relationship with their mother(s). Speaking of children, I'm not looking for a boy who's obsessed with older women. I'm not looking to adopt.If your profile says that you "want to date but nothing serious" then I won't bother. I prefer to spend my time getting to know someone who is open to a relationship. Lord knows I'm not getting any younger.Although I'm not prejudice, I don't have any attraction to black men. I'm also not into guys that look extremely old. Yes, I'm 40 but I don't feel it and don't look it. Tom Selleck staches aren't hott.Last but not least, if you're looking for a super cool woman who can make you laugh like no other, a beast in the kitchen, a best friend who will listen to all your man drama and will laugh at a fart then I'm right here. * Let's be realistic. If you live more than 30 minutes away then it won't work. Tried the ldr before and it's not for me. ***** IT SAD THAT I HAVE TO WRITE THIS BUT I'M JUST SO TIRED OF THE RUDE MESSAGES!I'M NOT ATTRACTED TO BLACK MEN JUST LIKE SOME MEN ARE'NT ATTRACTED TO FAT WOMEN. STOP WITH THE RACIST BS!I'M NOT STUCK UP OR A BEOTCH BECAUSE I DIDN'T REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGE. I JUST WASN'T INTERESTED. A public place. Doesn't have to be dinner, I don't need a free meal :)

  • Cate

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    So about me........Basically I am a simple girl looking for a simple kind of guy. I am 37 years old and at this stage in life I am not looking for any kind of drama nor am I looking to play any type of games. I am not looking for a fling and do not sleep around (if your looking for a booty call please do not message me. I wont waste your time, please do not waste mine). I tend to rush into relationships and ALWAYS wear my heart on my sleeve. I guess that's where I go wrong. My new tactic this time around is to take things slow and enjoy life. I have a huge close family that sticks together. We may argue and fight but in the end we are always there for one another and that is what counts the most. I have learned this lesson the hard way loosing my father a year ago not on speaking terms. I never got to say goodbye to my father and tell him for the last time I truly did love him despite our differences. Lesson learned... life is too short to be unhappy and to fight with the ones that mean the most to you! I feel I have a lot to offer that special someone. I am loyal, trustworthy, faithful, honest and have a lot of love to give ( you can be the judge of that). I am not looking for anyone for their money (I have my own) and not their looks (I have dated gorgeous men). I have a good job, a beautiful 4 bedroom house in a good school district, therefore, I am already established. I do not like to be misled nor do I cheat and expect that in return. I am a mother of a wonderful 11 year old boy (his father lives far away so there are no complications, we have maintain a good friendship). I am not looking for someone to be his "daddy" however, he would have to take a liking to my son as much as he would like me. "My ideal mate" would take my son under his wing and show him the role he would have to play being a male and grow up to be a GOOD MAN. Take him to games, go outside and toss a football around to each other, take him fishing, coach any sport he wants to join...etc.What I am looking for in a relationship is basically to be happy....to fall in love and anticipate coming home after work to a loving family. Cook dinner while I help my son/kids (if you have children) do homework and wait for the love of my life to come home and greet him with a huge hug and kiss to show him how much I missed him through out the day. I want to have family time until its time for the children to go to bed then have adult time snuggling up conversing on how our day was. I want to take family vacations and travel. Go on weekend getaways with my husband (yes I would like to get married one day, never been). I want to have friends over and have cookouts.......Sunday football gatherings if that's what your into.....Christmas parties etc. What I am looking for in a man would simply have the same outlook on life as I. Same characteristics and dedication in taking care of his family and making us come first.You will see pictures of me above both thin and heavy. I lost myself in my last relationship and gained unwanted weight which I am now working on in loosing and gaining my self confidence back. Just to be clear I am still heavy trying to get back to what I looked like.So basically, I just want to be in love and happy. I know it seems far fetched in this day, but I know it can be done if both our minds and hearts are in it.By the way.....I am not perfect by no means, I do have my flaws, But hey are their any "Perfect" people out there?I do wish everyone luck in finding "The One"!

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