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Cate, 37
United States, Colorado, Montrose

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About Me

So about me........Basically I am a simple girl looking for a simple kind of guy. I am 37 years old and at this stage in life I am not looking for any kind of drama nor am I looking to play any type of games. I am not looking for a fling and do not sleep around (if your looking for a booty call please do not message me. I wont waste your time, please do not waste mine). I tend to rush into relationships and ALWAYS wear my heart on my sleeve. I guess that's where I go wrong. My new tactic this time around is to take things slow and enjoy life. I have a huge close family that sticks together. We may argue and fight but in the end we are always there for one another and that is what counts the most. I have learned this lesson the hard way loosing my father a year ago not on speaking terms. I never got to say goodbye to my father and tell him for the last time I truly did love him despite our differences. Lesson learned... life is too short to be unhappy and to fight with the ones that mean the most to you! I feel I have a lot to offer that special someone. I am loyal, trustworthy, faithful, honest and have a lot of love to give ( you can be the judge of that). I am not looking for anyone for their money (I have my own) and not their looks (I have dated gorgeous men). I have a good job, a beautiful 4 bedroom house in a good school district, therefore, I am already established. I do not like to be misled nor do I cheat and expect that in return. I am a mother of a wonderful 11 year old boy (his father lives far away so there are no complications, we have maintain a good friendship). I am not looking for someone to be his "daddy" however, he would have to take a liking to my son as much as he would like me. "My ideal mate" would take my son under his wing and show him the role he would have to play being a male and grow up to be a GOOD MAN. Take him to games, go outside and toss a football around to each other, take him fishing, coach any sport he wants to join...etc.What I am looking for in a relationship is basically to be happy....to fall in love and anticipate coming home after work to a loving family. Cook dinner while I help my son/kids (if you have children) do homework and wait for the love of my life to come home and greet him with a huge hug and kiss to show him how much I missed him through out the day. I want to have family time until its time for the children to go to bed then have adult time snuggling up conversing on how our day was. I want to take family vacations and travel. Go on weekend getaways with my husband (yes I would like to get married one day, never been). I want to have friends over and have cookouts.......Sunday football gatherings if that's what your into.....Christmas parties etc. What I am looking for in a man would simply have the same outlook on life as I. Same characteristics and dedication in taking care of his family and making us come first.You will see pictures of me above both thin and heavy. I lost myself in my last relationship and gained unwanted weight which I am now working on in loosing and gaining my self confidence back. Just to be clear I am still heavy trying to get back to what I looked like.So basically, I just want to be in love and happy. I know it seems far fetched in this day, but I know it can be done if both our minds and hearts are in it.By the way.....I am not perfect by no means, I do have my flaws, But hey are their any "Perfect" people out there?I do wish everyone luck in finding "The One"!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Irish
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