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Jude, 39

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About Me

While I love to be in the center of the party scene, I'm past the stage of going out every night. People are always surprised when I tell them my age - I don't look or act it. My passion is travel and I love long weekends on a Caribbean island in the middle of winter. (Gotta love those trips to Vegas too!) When I'm not traveling, I enjoy volunteering with community and regional organizations, reading, theatre, wine tastings, Orioles and Ravens games, watching TV, social sports leagues, and game nights with friends.Family and friends are very important to me. I have a great set of friends that I love hanging out with and would love to include my significant other in that group. If I had to choose between dressing up and dressing down, I'd choose up. I'm a girly girl and any guy who has an issue with my taking time to pretty myself up for a night out definitely wouldn't appreciate me. And on the other hand, I can and will kick your butt at paintball any day of the week :)I'm looking for someone who is well-rounded and dynamic, basically up for anything, and spontaneity is a must. Must love to travel often (please have a passport!), have a passion for life, like animals, be willing to try anything once, and be refined, confident and ambitious. A huge plus in my book is old fashioned good manners. I should mention that two deal breakers for me are smokers and someone with children (sorry dads - I love kids but I want to be selfish right now and be my man's top priority). Best of luck in your search and hope to hear from you soon! Every first date is unique - there's no good answer to this question.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaelea

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Updated on ***, to coincide with the changing of the seasons? ;-)I love, LOVE to dance - music moves me - body and soul - almost all types of music. I may be a mom to two young kids (3 and 6), but I would still love to go to a full-blown rave in the near future - :-) Along those lines, I love to work out - cardio, weightlifting, pilates, and yoga. I'm an all-around health-conscious person, diet included. I also enjoy gardening and decorating/interior design. The travel bug has taken hold of me as well; the more I travel, the more I want to! I'm up for trying almost anything new.I've learned the hard way to try my damnedest not to live my life for other people. That's not to say that I'm not eager to help loved ones and be there for them, especially when they need me, but I've spent too much of my life doing what I thought I was supposed to do/what I thought would make others happy, and I wound up being unhappy/unfulfilled, myself. That being said, one of my passions in life IS human connection -- always striving to never leave people worse than I found them. I wrote this awhile ago, and it still holds true for me: "I sincerely hope that the people whose paths have crossed mine in this life have been affected more positively than negatively by their interactions with me." I've learned to really try avoid judging others - you never know what you're going to do until in a given situation, yourself. I can be emotional at times, but that's because I'm a PASSIONATE person almost all the time; so there's plenty of good emotion to go with the other stuff. I, however, do not play games, and you can always count on me to say what's on my mind, even if it takes me a while to sort through my feelings.Because I work out and take care of myself, I find that I am attracted to men who do the same; I also *prefer* guys who are 6 feet or taller. It's not an absolute rule or anything, but, come on, I'm 5'10"! It honestly has very little to do with how attractive I find the guy and much more to do with how I feel when I'm with him; That may sound crazy, but it's me. Experience has taught me that if you're the kind of guy who doesn't do what he says he will, who doesn't follow through, we will most assuredly not last, no matter how great the connection. So if you're that guy who finds himself repeatedly apologizing for not doing this or that, find someone else and save us both the heartache up front. On the topic of "my type," meetville needs a middle-ground intent between "Want to date but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship"! Either way, I *could* find someone awesome, someone perfect, so I still put the full ME out there. I don't even begin to pretend to have life's plan for me figured out anymore! ;-)I'm an open book for the most part; it makes me who I am, and I find I enjoy this human experience much more that way, even if there's more vulnerability involved. I'm "living a life evolutionary."

  • Daniela

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I love to talk, read, write and try new things. I love spending time with family and friends. I\'m looking for someone new. I love to have fun and laugh, so someone with a great sense of humor is a plus.

  • Sang

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I never know what to say about myself, so here are the basics, if you want to know more just ask, I will answer any questions you have.Im pretty easy to get along with, I like to have fun and just be me.I like spending time outside with family and friends. I like every kind of music from Eminem to Hank Jr and 80's big hair bands to todays Top 40. I am open to all types of movie except horror...Im a chicken. LOL I dont watch tv very much, but when I do it's usually NCIS, CSI, The History Channel, EPSN, A&E or something along those lines. I have 3 great kids that live with me full time. I have been a nurse for 18 years and most days I love it.I do NOT want a ***, FWB, someone to send naked pics to or anything like that. I am looking for someone to spend time with get to know and see what happens from there. Somewhere quiet we can talk and get to know each other.

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