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Jude, 39

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About Me

While I love to be in the center of the party scene, I'm past the stage of going out every night. People are always surprised when I tell them my age - I don't look or act it. My passion is travel and I love long weekends on a Caribbean island in the middle of winter. (Gotta love those trips to Vegas too!) When I'm not traveling, I enjoy volunteering with community and regional organizations, reading, theatre, wine tastings, Orioles and Ravens games, watching TV, social sports leagues, and game nights with friends.Family and friends are very important to me. I have a great set of friends that I love hanging out with and would love to include my significant other in that group. If I had to choose between dressing up and dressing down, I'd choose up. I'm a girly girl and any guy who has an issue with my taking time to pretty myself up for a night out definitely wouldn't appreciate me. And on the other hand, I can and will kick your butt at paintball any day of the week :)I'm looking for someone who is well-rounded and dynamic, basically up for anything, and spontaneity is a must. Must love to travel often (please have a passport!), have a passion for life, like animals, be willing to try anything once, and be refined, confident and ambitious. A huge plus in my book is old fashioned good manners. I should mention that two deal breakers for me are smokers and someone with children (sorry dads - I love kids but I want to be selfish right now and be my man's top priority). Best of luck in your search and hope to hear from you soon! Every first date is unique - there's no good answer to this question.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kassy

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I’m looking to meet someone to spend time with, who’s kind, caring, considerate and honest. I am a loyal friend and companion and I’m hoping to find the same in someone. I love to laugh and have fun because life is too short for anything else. I would say what's important to me is honesty, the ability to communicate and of course a mutual attraction.The beach is one of my favorite places to be. I enjoy dinning out as well as staying home and watching a movie and cuddling on the couch.-shirt kind of woman. I have a daughter who’s 14 yrs. old. She is the most important thing in my life and always comes first; I enjoy spending time with her, so someone family oriented is a huge plus. Meet for a drink/coffee and see if there is a connection

  • Ursella

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I want a guy . . .who would move the hair away from my eyes and then kiss me.hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous.Someone who would sing to me at random moments.Who would let me sleep on their chest.A guy who would get mad at someone if they called me ugly or was mean to me. I want someone who would call me 3 times a day if he went away.Someone who would let me gossip to him and would just smile and agree with everything i said.He would throw stuffed animals at me when i acted dumb and then kiss me a million times.Someone who would make fun of me just to make me laugh. he would take me to the park and put his hands around my waist and give me big bear hugs all the time.He would tell all his friends about me and smile when he did it.And we'd make out in the pouring rain.He would never be afraid to say "I love you"in front of his friends, and we'd argue about silly things then make up.I want a guy that would kiss me at midnight on New Years and count stars with me.Who would stay home with me on a Friday night just to help me make dinner & watch movies together under the same blanket.Someone who would tell me I'm beautiful but not too often.who would make me laugh like no one else could. But mostly, I want someone who would be my best friend and would never break my heart.When you think thats you, contact me!I am 35 years old and am looking to find someone that can be a friend and possibly more. I've been through the games and am seriously tired of being pulled into them. Someone once asked me where I saw myself in ten years. I figure I have two options in my life, bury myself in my work and be the best or follow my heart. I've buried myself in my work and I think maybe it's time to follow my heart. I'm looking for someone that is independent and confident in themselves but still wants someone that is available to be there when he needs that emotional support that his buddies can't give him. My perception of an ideal relationship is that neither person gives more than they receive. Each person in a relationship should be willing to bend but not break for their partner. If both parties aren't willing to work together, the relationship will never work. What I've learned from my past relationships is not to give up "who I am" for anyone. I've made that mistake before and I've learned that I will never be happy in a relationship unless the person accepts me for who I am. The good, the bad and everything in between. dinner with a bottle of wine and a nice talk

  • Enda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im open minded U can ask me anything i have lots of interests but i perfer to chat with someone rather then advertise myself... If ur interested message me we will talk I work make my own money an try to live a drama free life. looking to take things slow an see where it goes. I have a good personality very loving an caring an try to be open minded in certain situations.. not much for drama so plez leaves ur at home... Just looking to be happy in a simple loving relationship... Anything we decide im ok with

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