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Jude, 39

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About Me

While I love to be in the center of the party scene, I'm past the stage of going out every night. People are always surprised when I tell them my age - I don't look or act it. My passion is travel and I love long weekends on a Caribbean island in the middle of winter. (Gotta love those trips to Vegas too!) When I'm not traveling, I enjoy volunteering with community and regional organizations, reading, theatre, wine tastings, Orioles and Ravens games, watching TV, social sports leagues, and game nights with friends.Family and friends are very important to me. I have a great set of friends that I love hanging out with and would love to include my significant other in that group. If I had to choose between dressing up and dressing down, I'd choose up. I'm a girly girl and any guy who has an issue with my taking time to pretty myself up for a night out definitely wouldn't appreciate me. And on the other hand, I can and will kick your butt at paintball any day of the week :)I'm looking for someone who is well-rounded and dynamic, basically up for anything, and spontaneity is a must. Must love to travel often (please have a passport!), have a passion for life, like animals, be willing to try anything once, and be refined, confident and ambitious. A huge plus in my book is old fashioned good manners. I should mention that two deal breakers for me are smokers and someone with children (sorry dads - I love kids but I want to be selfish right now and be my man's top priority). Best of luck in your search and hope to hear from you soon! Every first date is unique - there's no good answer to this question.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yannick

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Laid back mom of 2 but I don't like to stay cooped up whether its by the pool,cooking out, hanging with friends we always have something fun to do. My goal is to enjoy life to live life to fullest with someone who likes to have fun. I'm a hard worker full time and a even harder worker being a mom. I have my life together just looking for someone who has the same. Depends on the person the weather and a lot of factors so I don't have a mind set of a perfect date other then liking the person and having fun would ideally be a perfect date.

  • Youlanda

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First I want to say that I am far from being a model. Im plus sized...fluffy...and to shallow ppl im fat. So if you have a problem with dating heavy women, I am not the woman for you. Second, I am Wiccan. I do not worship the devil and if you are wondering what it is I believe you can look it up and ask me questions. I do wear a pentacle with the goddess on it. So if you have a problem with what I believe then I am not the woman for you. Next but NOT the least, I have 3 kids that mean the world to me. They come first and will always be first....over anyone. So if you cant handle that then again I am not the women for you. Now that is out the way I can try a say a little about myself. I do get out much because I work and really have no friends around here. I m not one for the bars or clubs but might go once in a while. I rather get-togethers with family and friends. I also love staying in watching movies and cuddling. Id love to get out and do things....I do like to fish but it has been years. I love bringing the kids to the park or to the beach. Pretty much I am open for suggestions. I work hard and I hope to advance one day. Id love to be able to go back to school and finish massage therapy some day. I love all sorts of music but my fav is classic rock...pink Floyd...led zeppelin....... I tend to be shy at first but the right man can bring me out of that...are you the one who can? I like surprise and spontaneous decisions. So whatever comes up that sounds fun or even romantic. Im game for almost anything.

  • Marla

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Ok, I guess I will try this one more time...and this time I want to find someone who knows what they want and don't just want to play games. So, please be the one that makes me delete this acct. permanently.I have 3 kids, my oldest will go off to college in the fall so that leave me with 2 living at home. No need to worry, if your that special someone there will always be time for you. So if kids are an issue, then click away now because my kids are the most important thing in my life.My friends would say that I am very outgoing,very reliable, always there when you need a ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on. I am always up for an adventure and willing to try anything once. I always seem to be the party planner among friends and family and I've been told I am pretty good at it. Don't get me wrong I love to dress up and go out for a night on the town but I am happy staying home in yoga pants and hair in ponytail playing board games or watching a movie with the kids or with my special someone. Also, if you don't like girls who have tattoos, look elsewhere because I do.I love watching sports, but nothing beats being at the game.! No biggie if you don't like those teams, a little trash talking can be hot between us. Nothing beats jeans, hoodie, football, my partner in crime and tailgating. I like all types of music but country is my favorite. Live bands and festivals are always a blast. I have been going to the gym a few times a week or getting out with my kids playing. Staying active is the most important thing. A partner for the whole journey. A friend who challenges, inspires and understands me. Someone to share the craziness and passions of life. Who knows what they want, and is willingly to try what they don't. Someone to be the last thing I see at night, and the 1st thing in morning.I am looking for someone who will send good morning texts, makes me laugh, misses me when we are apart, and have that chemistry that when we look at each other across the room, I get butterflies in my stomach. If you are looking for someone who will complete you and be your best friend, take a chance and message me. We can plan this together...

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