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Kaelea, 39

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About Me

Updated on ***, to coincide with the changing of the seasons? ;-)I love, LOVE to dance - music moves me - body and soul - almost all types of music. I may be a mom to two young kids (3 and 6), but I would still love to go to a full-blown rave in the near future - :-) Along those lines, I love to work out - cardio, weightlifting, pilates, and yoga. I'm an all-around health-conscious person, diet included. I also enjoy gardening and decorating/interior design. The travel bug has taken hold of me as well; the more I travel, the more I want to! I'm up for trying almost anything new.I've learned the hard way to try my damnedest not to live my life for other people. That's not to say that I'm not eager to help loved ones and be there for them, especially when they need me, but I've spent too much of my life doing what I thought I was supposed to do/what I thought would make others happy, and I wound up being unhappy/unfulfilled, myself. That being said, one of my passions in life IS human connection -- always striving to never leave people worse than I found them. I wrote this awhile ago, and it still holds true for me: "I sincerely hope that the people whose paths have crossed mine in this life have been affected more positively than negatively by their interactions with me." I've learned to really try avoid judging others - you never know what you're going to do until in a given situation, yourself. I can be emotional at times, but that's because I'm a PASSIONATE person almost all the time; so there's plenty of good emotion to go with the other stuff. I, however, do not play games, and you can always count on me to say what's on my mind, even if it takes me a while to sort through my feelings.Because I work out and take care of myself, I find that I am attracted to men who do the same; I also *prefer* guys who are 6 feet or taller. It's not an absolute rule or anything, but, come on, I'm 5'10"! It honestly has very little to do with how attractive I find the guy and much more to do with how I feel when I'm with him; That may sound crazy, but it's me. Experience has taught me that if you're the kind of guy who doesn't do what he says he will, who doesn't follow through, we will most assuredly not last, no matter how great the connection. So if you're that guy who finds himself repeatedly apologizing for not doing this or that, find someone else and save us both the heartache up front. On the topic of "my type," meetville needs a middle-ground intent between "Want to date but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship"! Either way, I *could* find someone awesome, someone perfect, so I still put the full ME out there. I don't even begin to pretend to have life's plan for me figured out anymore! ;-)I'm an open book for the most part; it makes me who I am, and I find I enjoy this human experience much more that way, even if there's more vulnerability involved. I'm "living a life evolutionary."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vicenta

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    :o) I am down to earth, easy to talk to, fun to be around, love being myself, and hope you are, too! I'm very honest and appreciate the same. I'd like to get to know you if you are "real". Just be you... I'm caring and genuine. I have a wicked sense of humor and enjoy being around people with the same. I prefer to be up front and speak my mind. I like a warm smile and eye contact. I believe that an attraction is vital, as well as communication. I can tell you this... even though I tend to find guys with facial hair (goatees), tattoos, and motorcycles/racecars attractive (physically)..... that does NOT mean it is something I need (it is, merely, something that makes me melt at times - a bonus, if you will). Moreso, I am wanting mutual respect, someone who I can be comfy with, and a guy who has similiar ideas as I about what we want/need in a relationship (if and when we get to that point). :o) I am NOT wanting a one night stand, so please do not contact me if that is what you are seeking. I am a one on one gal and very loyal. If you would like to know more to see if we might be compatible, shoot me an *** me something that you think makes you unique from other guys and let's take it from there. Please only respond if you are serious about getting to know me...I prefer a guy without kids (unless they are adults), someone who is a non-smoker (at least most of the time & courteous about it if he is occasional), and someone who is at least within a ***Hope you have a great day! :o) Whatever we both agree upon.. somewhere casual. :o)

  • Noni

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Been on and off here a few times & much like the The Tale of Two Cities - "It was the worst of times, it was the best of times." So let's see where this time around takes me. Single mom of 2 wonderful kids, I work full time, and I'm the ultimate sports mom! I'm very assertive, animated, and an honest person.Let me also give ya a few of my "negative, not so perfect" qualities, just to save some time so no one's caught off guard. What?, you say! Negative qualities, no she couldn't possibly not be absolutely perfect! Alas, I do have some flaws ***; sentimental), I'm not a fan of flashy stuff (jeans, t-shirt, hoodie, tennis shoes and I'm all good), I can't stand slow drivers, just a lil bit impatient, and keeping along the "impatient" thing - please don't keep telling the same thing over and over and over again! So great, if ya can handle or at least tolerate my lil imperfections, then bring it on!*I might not be someone's first choice, but I'm a GREAT choice.I may not be rich, but I am valuable.I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm pretty damn good at being myself.I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today.I may not be perfect, but I don't need to be.Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away.**Oh and guys don't be a D0u€h3, girls really don't like guys who are a D0u€h3! (I spelled it that way cause I don't think meetville will deem the "proper" spelling appropriate - hmmmm). If the first one goes good, then a second one just might be in your future.

  • Avelina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a great girl looking for a great guy.Where do you really meet people these days?The bar? Work? The supermarket? No.These days this is the way to do it..I'm easy going and love to laugh.I have a big heart with a lot of love to give. Take a chance.What do you have to lose?Worst thing that could happen is you make a new friend. :) Lots of kissing.

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