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About Me

Just like my handle says...I'm a Goonie at heart. Friends, family and adventure are top on my list. I'm looking for my partner in crime, cliche but true. Seeking respectful, funny, serious and silly dialogue, laughter, understanding, someone with mutual goals and a similar value system. I'm looking to find something lasting. Don't be shy and get in touch:) Good luck in your search! There are no rules, anything goes. Whatever works for both people involved as long as it's fun and we can get to know each other without to many expectations.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anstice

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ***Profile Always a Work in Progress ***If you do not read my profile and do not message me with the Seekrit Word indicating you read my profile... do not expect a response. YES - it's almost as long as the Iliad or the Odyssey. *takes in a deep breath* I decided online dating sites are only useful for the photos (if that is even the real person contacting you***and worse off, living upstate is sucking my soul and I may be better off staying a hermit and a couch potato. Hey you!!! Yeah, you... The one out of ***guys actually reading my epic novella and not just looking at my photos... I do have an actual PERSONALITY.None of you say you want a crazy cat lady who sleeps all day and parties all night... while keeping a respectful professional face at work.Certifiably whackadoodle. That's me.Why do you think I am so good at my job? I could almost be a patient - Run away, Simba and never return.... (This Personal Ad Provides as a Courtesy of the Save Men From Reina's Clutches Campaign***Me... Just Me ---* Looking for new FRIENDS who share interests in different ethnicities and cultures* I'm always looking for people who want to catch a B-Mets game - and when Fall comes, it will be B-Sens time! * When in NYC (as often as I can), I like to go OUT. I enjoy dining out at new and exciting restaurants or heading over to the beach during the day. * Yes...- now that's a little embarrassing, but I can't help but feel I am in my 20s (I do NOT look or act my age, and I want to be around others who like the same things that I like) Super Seekrit Word: Pudding !! Who I REALLY Am The Good:Intelligent, Empathetic, a Good Listener Adventurous & Adrenaline Seeking An uncanny ability to get you to tell me EVERYTHING The Bad: I run late (If you want 7, say 6:45)Bluntly honest (Reminder to self: Apply filter!)ADD and slightly OCD (But not crazy - do not confuse these qualities :)Short temper when it comes to stupid people (i.e. Men on meetville who don't read profiles***I AM a redhead after all. The Ugly: Occasional potty mouth - I can be a "lady", but I also can curse like a sailor.***Who Are You? * Intellectually challenging and a good communicator* Employed and able to pay your own bills * Active in sports/exercise/fitness* Comfortable in Latin lounges/clubs, sporting events or even museum exhibitionsHere's a little secret: You get bonus points if you're non-American, especially Latino. I love learning about new cultures.Okay, so... More bluntness, I am a "white American", but I have always been attracted to people DIFFERENT from me. Not saying I wouldn't ever hang out with another "white American", but you would have to be on equal level with me on the nuttier than a fruit cake scale.-- Here's the Test: ^ If you want to message me, do NOT just say "hi" or "hey" - Do not send me some message about how I am "hot" I am or some message that is so generic that you could have copied and pasted it to 10 girls. ^ If you want me to respond to you, even if just to say I am not interested, message me and make it clear that you read my profile and you know *something* about me. AND.... Include the Super Seekrit Word - PUDDING Really only looking for networking, friendship, meeting others in entertainment / music and people for tennis or baseball games. We can grab dinner, have a few drinks at a lounge and DANCE - or chill at the beach, or I am always up for "crazy experiences". I am NOT NOT NOT looking for friends with benefits or one night stands. Dudes... A girl can find that anywhere. Just because I am saying friends and hanging out does NOT equal sex. Get it? Lord...So do NOT think of me as a potential girlfriend, wife or lay. If anything, think of me as a possible friend, a co-worker or long-lost cousin you are meeting for the first time and would NEVER consider sleeping with... (Yes... I am frustrated at what kind of expectations people drag into the single lifestyle... I hate expectations.***HOWEVER... That being said: I really DO want love, passion, loyalty, honesty, a partner to share my joys and help me through my trials and tribulations. I do want love and this is my belief: The best relationships are built on sharing similar life/career goals and hobbies and interests, but the number one most difficult trait to fulfill is the "SPARK", aka the butterflies in your stomach!I'm not desperately looking for "The One" or my "Soulmate". If Mr. Right is out there, he'll fall into my lap one way or another, and I'd prefer it happen naturally. Therefore, I say I don't "Date" and want there to be zero romantic expectations if/when we meet. Let's just see if there is maybe a spark of "something magical" ***So, take the challenge and message me. Just make it a good one because you only get one chance to make a first impression... And my response rate these days is maybe 1 out of 10... The Future: Yes, I do have plans for the future, so I might as well share my thoughts and if you are totally against the idea, again, we probably don't match... In about ***doing the 13-week assignments and bouncing all around to see what areas I would most like to love in... Anywhere with sun and atmosphere...Well - what are you waiting for? Impress me with your quality communication! (UGH - Yet another person just saying "hey" and not having read A SINGLE WORD of my profile...)

  • Youlanda

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First I want to say that I am far from being a model. Im plus sized...fluffy...and to shallow ppl im fat. So if you have a problem with dating heavy women, I am not the woman for you. Second, I am Wiccan. I do not worship the devil and if you are wondering what it is I believe you can look it up and ask me questions. I do wear a pentacle with the goddess on it. So if you have a problem with what I believe then I am not the woman for you. Next but NOT the least, I have 3 kids that mean the world to me. They come first and will always be first....over anyone. So if you cant handle that then again I am not the women for you. Now that is out the way I can try a say a little about myself. I do get out much because I work and really have no friends around here. I m not one for the bars or clubs but might go once in a while. I rather get-togethers with family and friends. I also love staying in watching movies and cuddling. Id love to get out and do things....I do like to fish but it has been years. I love bringing the kids to the park or to the beach. Pretty much I am open for suggestions. I work hard and I hope to advance one day. Id love to be able to go back to school and finish massage therapy some day. I love all sorts of music but my fav is classic rock...pink Floyd...led zeppelin....... I tend to be shy at first but the right man can bring me out of that...are you the one who can? I like surprise and spontaneous decisions. So whatever comes up that sounds fun or even romantic. Im game for almost anything.

  • Adalynn

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I like to have fun, I spend a lot f time with family and friends . I always have a smile on my face and tend to laugh a lot. I enjoy snuggling on the couch and watching movies on cold raining days. I like to go for walks or maybe even a run when I feel up to it. I love going on vacations warm places with beaches . In the winter I like snowmobiling and summer getting on a motorcycle. Love summer not much of a winter lover. My first date would be a casual dinner date to just get to know eachother. Them maybe go to a local bar and play some pool and talk some more. I don't want it to be awkward so I think this would be a nice casual way to get to know someone .

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