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Xuan, 39

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About Me

If you're reading after THAT tagline, then good - you have a sense of humor about online dating!Let's get this part out of the way, right up front! I'm a BBW. If that's a problem for you, that's really okay. For every one of you that can't handle that, there's another one who can't wait to get his hands on me, so please don't think I'm in denial or chasing anything. I'm a woman, honey. If I want to just have a one-nighter, I can get that anywhere, anytime...but I think we all know there's nothing empowering about pretending to be "sexually liberated" without love and respect that is meant to go along with that. We're not in our 20's anymore, so let's get real about what's real, shall we? I want more than that, and that's why I'm here. On that note, occasionally, I might compliment a profile that I find interesting, funny and/or well written - please take it as just that...a compliment.You're looking at a self-sufficient, but old-fashioned woman. What I'm looking for is someone who's ready to become best friends, and eventually lovers too - for life. I would love a guy who makes me laugh, and has a solid faith in God. I'd like to meet a real gentleman, who will open doors, listen to my words, and bring laughter, loyalty and honesty to the table. I'm attracted to black men pretty much exclusively, and I love men who love to LAUGH! I don't have kids, but I love them, and I'm open to whatever the Lord has in store for my future.I'm extremely honest, and everything you've read here is the absolute truth. I have no ulterior motives, and I have no poker face, so I don't bother lying. I'm passionate, hilarious, creative and loyal to a fault, and I'm just as vulnerable as many women are to being hurt, but I CHOOSE to be hopeful that there are still a few good ones left. I hope you're out there. It's been a long journey... Someplace where we can have a conversation...Coffee, a quiet dinner...whatever works for good conversation and lots of laughs!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Palmira

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    **IF YOUR LOOKING FOR ONE THING, KEEP MOVING, MY MAMA RAISED A LADY NOT A PIG** KEEP THE GAMES FOR SOMEONE ELSE, I DONT PLAY EM!!!! I'm not trying to be rude, but if you are obese & have more hair on your face and your head than I have on my entire body, please don't ***! I'm into fit, clean cut men!! Thanks!! I am a mother of 2 Boys ***& 17).. They are my everything and always come first..Love to Laugh, Life's too Short not to!!Im a very Honest, Independent & Loyal person who doesnt ask for much and I'm wanting the same in return, if your none of them, please don't bother me..Im pretty simple... I'm not here looking for a Sugar Daddy, I take care of myself and have for many years!!I'm looking for Friends first and see what goes from there!I like Hanging out with Family & Friends, Big into Watching Hockey (Favorite), Football & Baseball, Muddin with the 4-wheelers, Camping, Hunting & Fishing, Outside Activities, Car Shows, Sitting by a Fire or just a quiet evening at home! I dont mind trying new things atleast once!! I am a Very Fun person, Hell, most tell me I'm the Life of the Party!I don't need to drink to have a good time but I don't mind it and I like to go out and dance sometimes too!! :). I may be 39 but I surely do NOT act it! Your only as old as you feel and I sure in the hell DON'T feel old! I still feel like I'm 25, lol, Gotta Love it!!!!I'm pretty big into Helping Our Troops! Whether it be sending Packages or Raising Money, I'm doing it! I come from a Huge Military Family, and this is One Dedication ill Never Give Up until They are ALL Home!!!Love Tattoos, Ive got 3... Also have 2 Piercings, (Tongue & Belly Button)I DON'T like Liars or Cheaters and I am Not into an Arrogant A** who thinks he's so Hot that he can get anyone, that's a Total Turnoff!!Wanna know more, just ask ;)Happy Fishing!! Something FUN!!

  • Ronda

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love to watch sports, especially football. Hike, eat, travel, road trips,or spend a quiet.evening at home.I'm looking for a long-term relationship. Not interested in one night stands or a FWB situation. Distance isn't a problem in order to find my soulmate! Considering moving to Southern Cali next year. I will be there for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Somewhere we could talk and get to know each other. Dinner, coffee, drinks.

  • Rowena

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am mom of two beatiful kids. They mean the world to me. My son plays baseball and wrestles and my daughter cheers and does tumbling. I like all types of music, and love to go dancing. I think I look beautiful with or without make up on. I am very independant, and that money is not everything. Money doesn't make the world go round, we all do. I'm the type of person who will pay for dates as well. I don't think the guy should have to pay every time. I'm not up for any head games or anything like that at all.I'm very up front and honest. If you think you are getting some on the first date, then I'm not the girl for you. I want to get to know someone before that even happens. Just Saying! I've been played to much and I'm tired of getting played. I'm looking for someone who will accept me for me and not just my body or sex. I need someone whose just as out going as I am and will accept my kids as well. I'm looking for a real man who knows what he wants and goes for it. I don't have time for someone whose wanting nothing but sex, cause this girl needs more than just that. So that pretty much sums it up. If interested message me and we'll chat or meet. What ever you think you'd like to do. Dinner (doesn't matter where) or a walk or drive so we can get to know each other. Maybe movie.

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