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Xuan, 39
United States, Colorado, Leadville

Offline, last seen Sat, 18 Oct 2025 09:41:47

About Me

If you're reading after THAT tagline, then good - you have a sense of humor about online dating!Let's get this part out of the way, right up front! I'm a BBW. If that's a problem for you, that's really okay. For every one of you that can't handle that, there's another one who can't wait to get his hands on me, so please don't think I'm in denial or chasing anything. I'm a woman, honey. If I want to just have a one-nighter, I can get that anywhere, anytime...but I think we all know there's nothing empowering about pretending to be "sexually liberated" without love and respect that is meant to go along with that. We're not in our 20's anymore, so let's get real about what's real, shall we? I want more than that, and that's why I'm here. On that note, occasionally, I might compliment a profile that I find interesting, funny and/or well written - please take it as just that...a compliment.You're looking at a self-sufficient, but old-fashioned woman. What I'm looking for is someone who's ready to become best friends, and eventually lovers too - for life. I would love a guy who makes me laugh, and has a solid faith in God. I'd like to meet a real gentleman, who will open doors, listen to my words, and bring laughter, loyalty and honesty to the table. I'm attracted to black men pretty much exclusively, and I love men who love to LAUGH! I don't have kids, but I love them, and I'm open to whatever the Lord has in store for my future.I'm extremely honest, and everything you've read here is the absolute truth. I have no ulterior motives, and I have no poker face, so I don't bother lying. I'm passionate, hilarious, creative and loyal to a fault, and I'm just as vulnerable as many women are to being hurt, but I CHOOSE to be hopeful that there are still a few good ones left. I hope you're out there. It's been a long journey... Someplace where we can have a conversation...Coffee, a quiet dinner...whatever works for good conversation and lots of laughs!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin French German Middle Eastern Action Drama Horror Thriller Golf
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