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About Me

If you're reading after THAT tagline, then good - you have a sense of humor about online dating!Let's get this part out of the way, right up front! I'm a BBW. If that's a problem for you, that's really okay. For every one of you that can't handle that, there's another one who can't wait to get his hands on me, so please don't think I'm in denial or chasing anything. I'm a woman, honey. If I want to just have a one-nighter, I can get that anywhere, anytime...but I think we all know there's nothing empowering about pretending to be "sexually liberated" without love and respect that is meant to go along with that. We're not in our 20's anymore, so let's get real about what's real, shall we? I want more than that, and that's why I'm here. On that note, occasionally, I might compliment a profile that I find interesting, funny and/or well written - please take it as just that...a compliment.You're looking at a self-sufficient, but old-fashioned woman. What I'm looking for is someone who's ready to become best friends, and eventually lovers too - for life. I would love a guy who makes me laugh, and has a solid faith in God. I'd like to meet a real gentleman, who will open doors, listen to my words, and bring laughter, loyalty and honesty to the table. I'm attracted to black men pretty much exclusively, and I love men who love to LAUGH! I don't have kids, but I love them, and I'm open to whatever the Lord has in store for my future.I'm extremely honest, and everything you've read here is the absolute truth. I have no ulterior motives, and I have no poker face, so I don't bother lying. I'm passionate, hilarious, creative and loyal to a fault, and I'm just as vulnerable as many women are to being hurt, but I CHOOSE to be hopeful that there are still a few good ones left. I hope you're out there. It's been a long journey... Someplace where we can have a conversation...Coffee, a quiet dinner...whatever works for good conversation and lots of laughs!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shaelyn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am the first to admit not sure exactly what I want in a relationship. I truely believe if it is there you just know. Or maybe part of me is a hopeless romantic. Communication is key to any relationship. Its okay for guys to show emotion. There is a time to be a tough guy and a time to be a talker. And I do believe in soul mates. Except he hasn't done anything great in awhile. So I am looking into someone funnier. Laughter is the best medicine. Okay at least know who he is. I would advise not to listen to him on a treadmill. I have an amazing 10 year old daughter. And a 20 year old daughter in College. They make me smile. Rest assured we are not looking for a daddy. I think coffee is a food group. Great things can happen over coffee. I love cooking 9 times out of 10 I would rather cook. If I like you I will make lasagna. If you have drama in your life I am not the girl for you. I live a life with as little drama as possible. I will share interests in music but you cant laugh. There are a few bands I love and my friends like to tease. But I cant help it I love these bands. Not to be negative I am almost convinced there are no more great guys out there. Or I keep finding the ones that want to act the age of their inner child 100% of the time. FYI not to be shallow but if you are under 5,9 probably wont work. Coffee or something that comes in a cup is a great start. In order to move on there must be chemistry.

  • Lynette

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am tall, athletic, easy going and energetic. I love to do just about anything for fun and am always ready to try something new. I love the outdoors (especially in the summer) and if you look closely, you might find me at a Rockies game drinking a beer or two. I like to stay active, but I also enjoy quiet evenings at home. I like going out to dinner, going to sporting events, having a few****ils, or catching a movie. My ideal match would be someone who is as about the same hight as me or taller and someone who can make me laugh. I also would like to meet someone who has fun in any situation, and someone I can connect with. I tend to be attracted to tall guys who have a great sense of humor and are sometimes GOOFY. I would like to meet someone who knows where they are headed in life and someone who enjoys life in general. When I find the right person I look forward to settling down and having a family, but I am always up for meeting friends in the process.If you think we could have a fun time together, then please contact me. I am excited to meet you. I would like to do something active like bowling, hiking, etc., or get together for some coffee or for a drink. That way there are lots of opportunities to talk and get to know each other and I won't have to worry if there is something stuck in my teeth. ha ha ha :)

  • Genna

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm 36,mother of two,16yr.old daughter an a 13yr.old son.I love to watch movies,skating,spending time with my kids.I love all kinds of music,rap,rock,a lil country an some oldies.I like it all.I wanna go bak to school with my daughter for photography an would liketo build me an her an shop to work out of beside us.I'm unique cause I'm me!!!If u are fake as HELL dont bother me!!!! I wanna be surprise!

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