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Looking for a honest FRIEND STOP ask yourself- HOW would you want your sister,daughter, mother, niece, aunt to be treated...then proceedFRIENDS first! I don't want to end up in a tote!- I found the train is only 40 min! I can relocate anywhere though :0) Please- all I ask is that you please don't hurt me, don't lie or deceive me,don't ask me to open up to you IF you aren't capable of it yourself. have character be a MANI have determined that what I write here doesn't MATTER- NO one READS THE WORDS, more to the point NO ONE GETS THE MEANING behind the words..its a waste of time, and ALL the effort I have put into my "profile"***not to be rude or anything but I don't sit here waiting for an *** is A LOT more than just appearance that matters,I was NOT here for attention, only hoping to find the attention of ONE J I am a dam good woman - never married, no children,because I was waiting for MY oneI am kind,compassionate,empathetic,sweet, affectionate, fun,sarcastic, strong willed,spoiled,&straight forwardexhausted from ALL the games people play -deleting the profile- creating new ones -amazing the lengths people go to deceive -IF only all that manipulating and calculating was for a good cause *** so many of us probably would be in fulfilling relationships* I'm sorry but if we meet and begin a friendship I am NOT going to pull my profile prematurely..You don't have to delete your profile immediately this IS a dating site,- so I expect that I may not be the only woman you speak with,( although that stinks!!!) but I can't get my hopes up if your talking to ten other women,LET ME KNOW I am the ONE! men have a huge misconception that I get all these messages...QUALITY is better but HONESTY is key! But once WE should decide we are EXCLUSIVE..I would be delighted too -freaking ecstatic! seeking a confident, employed, sweet, kind, interesting, SINCERE HONEST gentlemen,that like to keep IN shape & takes pride in his appearance, (clean shaven preferred) to basically become FRIENDS w/see what WE have in common and THEN -go from there....pretty basic start to any meeting between two people I have found men tend to write more about the person they would LIKE to be, than who they ARE, ultimately, making a REALISTIC relationship impossibleDating is general is tough enough, but meetville is like being sliced w razors & swimming in sea of lemonade I apologize for being so DIRECT ATTRACTION AND CHEMISTRY. Is what I want, make me laugh, that's a good startI'm seriously looking for someone who is sincere PLEASE no serial daters or con artists please waste your time somewhere else..I'm not buying IF just reading this profile is too much for you then obviously I'm going to be too much for you If I don't respond I am not interested, I am considerate I won't waste your time or mine, HELP I really don't want to be HERE- j!DO NOT TAKE MY PICTURES FROM HERE-PRIVACY NOTICE: Warning - any person and/or ***/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the US Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos, and/or the comments made about my photos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee , agent , student or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC ***ALL RIGHTS RESERVED WITHOUT PREJUDICE "WE DON'T DETERMINE WHO WALKS INTO OUR LIVES...BUT ITS UP TO US WHO WE LET WALK AWAY" ( I just love that quote)TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED...but ACTUALLY DO IT -RESPECT

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eppie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. ***, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. :)Okay give me one normal, handsome, fun, successful gentleman...nothing less. Hi guys thanks for stopping by: I really appreciate a man that handles his business and knows how to treat a woman. Opening the car door occasionally reminds us that our men are real men. It certainly does not hurt if he looks like one of the guys from Magic Mike...haha ;) I crack myself up. I wonder why guys ask girls out in a text message *** calling. It makes them look a little wimpy but I would certainly like a man's point of view. Taking care of yourself and eating right most of the time is important. That's a given for most I only mention it to help you decide If we are a good match. Another biggie for me is a man that knows how to communicate his feelings or at least try. I'm very giving for the effort. I like to be around genuine people with an overall optimistic outlook to life. So if you are the type that constantly complains or your angry every day its a no go for me. After all communication is the most important aspect in any relationship. No drugs No drama No Games Please! I would say that I am pretty down to earth, loyal and honest to a fault. I have been self-employed for over 12 years. I married my high school sweetheart who turned out to be anything but a sweetheart and we were divorced when my son was 5 and now my son has gone off to college out of state. Yes I would consider moving for the right guy. I would love to learn to play golf and I enjoy going to fundraising or sporting events but definitely appreciate my low key nights in. I love foot rubs, snuggling, candle light dinners, falling asleep to the sound of the rain, road trips, an occasional night out on the town and of course relaxing with a glass of wine and a movie. I could survive with nothing but peanut butter and water. I can hold my own in the kitchen...and I truly do enjoy cooking my man his favorite meal. I learned from the best (my grandmother). I was raised with the belief that a man's word is his bond. I am originally from a small town & I often wonder where are the men with honor and integrity? I want to spend my extra time with an easy going type of guy, easy to talk to, not afraid to be himself and is not afraid to say what he feels. I think a man attempting to fix something is very sexy but so is a guy snuggled up in bed reading a book...go figure! ;***of my favorite things is to fish at night but I need someone to go with. You don't have to be a pro-fisherman and I'm open to trying new things that you are interested in. I am simply looking for a normal guy that I enjoy spending time with and shares more than less of the same ideas and values as myself. Although I have some old fashion values I am an independent strong woman and I'm looking to meet my match in that regard. I'm at a point in my life where I know what I want and I am ready to find him. Not the perfect man~just perfect for me. I'm not sure if he will have kids already or not but I love kids so I'm good either way. One thing I am afraid of is dating someone freshly divorced. I guess mostly because the majority of the time the newly divorced tend to play the field and a lot of games because they are rookies, confused and not sure what they want. Please DO NOT contact me if you have no photos or they are all blurry, or all taken from a distance, or they are all of your pets or scenery shots or if they all are from your younger better looking days...Or if you feel the need to lie about your age & marrital status. I mean really...what's wrong with you guys? Turn Offs for me- long hair & long beards & too many tattoos. (sorry guys but there are girls that love this) So, I'm not looking for hook-ups and I say yucky to the female and male skanks out there...haha Oh yes I did! Good Luck with your search for love..xoxo Ask me

  • Raylene

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Will write more when I have a free moment. Ultimately looking for someone who is not perfect but perfect for me....as we all are:)P.S. Guys who are getting pictures of hot muscular men off *** them in their profile need to get a life!!!!! I am a woman with a pulse, don't think I don't notice those men on ***

  • Mi

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am here because I am convinced that there are still NICE GUYS with old fashion values of marriage and family. Although, I have NO idea how to meet them :)I want a guy Mama would have approved of and I can't get enough of. Gotta love the river, being outdoors, gym/exercise time is favorable, football games a must and most importanly, accepting of children... I have a 14 year old... and she is my life... I'm the ultimate "sports mom"... and I'm not afraid of concession stand time :). I have a career I adore, but still believe in the little things like a hot dinner on the table at the end of the day (yes, I cook, just about daily),a neat and cozy home (even though I have "fur-babies" that like to challenge that), a lazy breakfast on a weekend morning, and church on Sunday...Let's see... I'm not clingy and codependent, and I ask the same of someone I'm involved with... We are all adults, with responsibilities and commitments... Complimenting not complicating each others lives is key. Making time for each other is also hightly important, compromising and meeting in the middle is mandatory... I've come to love all things southern, but still embrace and enjoy the cultures and experiences of where I come from. I'm not a bar scene kind of girl, some good music at a reputable restaurant suits me just fine.And guys... word of advice on profile pics... Get out of your bathroom, get out of your bed and put your shirt back on... Shirtless pics of muscles make me assume that's all you have to offer... Been there, done that... threw a t-shirt at him (them)... :)

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