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Ocie, 39

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About Me

I am new to NC, originally from OH but I love it here! Settling in and getting used to my new surroundings and thought I might try online dating....The first thing people usually notice about me ~ most compliment my smile and then make a comment about how short I am...lol.Most people have a hard time believing that I am 38. I'm told I still look like I am in my late 20s or early 30s. I guess that could be the short factor or just good genes ~ either way I'll take it. I spend a lot of time thinking about the future. I have 2 beautiful children (daughter***& son***and think about what the future holds for them. I want life to be enjoyable and will take advantage of all that it has to offer. You only live once! New adventuresOutdoors - walks in the park, hikes in the mountains, 4wheelers, fishing, camping, grilling, fire pits Good friends and good drinksSteelers footballStaying in or going outMusic, movies and good booksAnimals - Of course much more...I am seeking a relationship but I also want a friendship. If you are looking for the same and feel we might be a good mix then lets chat....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marilena

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Challenge: Finding "normal" people using the Internet. Results: Mixed. We've all got quirks that seem strange to somebody; the trick is to find the person who likes yours! My parents are still crazy about one another, so, ever optimistic, I've decided to settle for nothing less. Imagine my surprise upon learning that finding one's ideal mate isn't as easy as it looks!; I freely share my opinions, my time and my dessert. After some initial girly wussiness, I dive right in to whatever I'm doing, and I usually want to know about everything, so I absorb enough random information to make an excellent trivia partner. I can't live without my r&b, soul, hip-hop and rock music, so I hope you can handle singing/boogie-ing from the passenger seat. Better yet, surrender to the music and join in! An independent streak has me doing my own home repairs and I'm always wishing I had more tools. I've found that working on any project with a partner can be fun, whether it's demolition or making dinner. However, I'll probably always hate doing my own yard work, so that job is definitely up for hire! I love an infectious sense of humor and thoughtful gestures, but above all, I need to know my partner can handle whatever comes our way. A strong work ethic is very important, but so is the ability to let go and leave work at the workplace.Lists can be great for clarifying what you want, but the heart is a funny thing. When it works, it just works. ...Now, I'm new to this site, but does anyone else think "Do you have a car" seems a little out of place amongst questions about actual deal breakers?! Ha! First dates are enough pressure--keep it simple! A chance to chat with something going on in the background is all you need.

  • Lolicia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I thought this might be a great way to meet new people, hopefully someone I can explore the area with. I am active, adventurous, and love to laugh. (Seriously- let's enjoy life!) I enjoy outdoor activities, going out with friends, wine tasting, riding my bike, live music, anything on the water, reading, cooking, traveling (both domestic and international- this is a passion of mine) and am very open to new adventures and experiences, as long as I am enjoying life and all that it has to offer. I watch very little TV as I would rather experience life myself versus watching someone else experience it.I have been extremely fortunate in building a very successful career and would now like to enjoy that same success in developing a quality relationship. I think relationships should be about mutual respect, shared passions, willingness to compromise, and really looking forward to spending time together; and never drama or games. I will always be open and honest and feel that I communicate well. I want to be with someone that shares these traits.These are guidelines I like to follow:Listen without defendingSpeak without offendingLive without pretendingLove without dependingI am looking for a happy, independent, active, intelligent, funny, well balanced, laid back person that truly enjoys life, has a passion for something, and seeks out new experiences, someone that lives an inspired life and that is looking for someone to inspire them, while we have a good time together and take advantage of this time we have... Grab a drink or appetizer. I also would be open to Stand Up Paddling (I have a board) or a walk around town lake if you are into more active things. Something to give us a chance to meet and talk in person and see if there is any chemistry. If not, I always like to make new friends!

  • Gabbie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    here we go.....my hobbies? I have many, I'm very active, love the beach, walking, riding, jet skiing, i can sew( took a sewing class a few years back)made my daughter a cinderella dress for halloween when she was 6. i can crochet ( Grandma tought me when i was 6 years old) I have made many blankets since i was very little but have grown out of that a few years ago.I love fishing...My dad use to take me all the time. miss those weekends with dad by the ocean.Great memories! I guess you can say i have a very close loving family.I just graduated again(in the medical field) in ***but landed a great job with a great well known company. I love my job and couldn't be any happier. Its not in the medical field but better;) I'm also a licensed cosmetologist since ***. i still love doing hair but don't have as much time for it anymore, I also bar tend a few nights a week. I.m not sure why I'm here but like everyone else, I'm curious. you never know, We may just find our soul mate if that exists..lolAbout me? mmmhhh, Im a great person, who is caring,loving, fun, always willing to help others. I love to joke and have a good time. I'm spontanious, i don't like to plan I plan at work all day 5 days. , i just live for the moment and take things as it comes. I like horror movies,comedy, action,drama and true stories. i watch sports, mostly football and as for music, i like a mixture of music but cant stand rap. Well thats all the time i have! First date? what ever really, it depends on the mood. i find dinner and lunch kind of boring and at times it drags...( save the conversation for a late night talk on the phone when you can't sleep, lol that should put you to sleep in no time!!lol)i'd rather do something fun and entertaining, such as bowling, drinks with a few friends, walk on the beach, boat ride,bike ride, or even go to a movie..Scratch that!! did i say movie?

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